I am in the same boat as you. I played AC for the gamecube when it first came out when I was a teenager and back then nobody had the internet to do anything in AC with, so I just played the way I want and had no clue about flowers or anything. Now I got ACNL and still had no clue about pathing or flowers or villagers. I found myself suddenly thrust into a whole community who cared about hybrids, pathing.. and at first I didn't care about the way my town looked or any of that at all.. I just wanted to play the game. But when I saw some of the beautiful towns I suddenly wanted to participate in the community and make my town beautiful. Needless to say i'm way late to the party like most newbies, and as my town is currently I feel like if someone saw it I would be mortified that my pathing isn't as good as theirs, I have no hybrids, my flower placement seems random in areas and I have very few PWP's.
That said I have come to the conclusion that you just need to care about how the town makes YOU feel when you're playing, because you're the only one that's going to be in it ALL the time, like everyone else said. My goal is not to be pleasant to other people, but to make a town that looks a way that would make me want to just bliss out while i'm standing in it, a town that causes a positive emotional reaction in me. That's my suggestion.
And don't worry about what other people say about your town if it's negative. Remember everybody has different opinions. While one person may say your town is ugly because it has worn grass, another may love the rustic, natural feel of it or even love that it has natural pathing. While one person may say your town is ugly because it has very few flowers, another may love the spacious feeling that brings! For example I noticed looking at all the towns that are commonly judged as "beautiful" that like, practically EVERY inch of their town is FILLED with something.. flowers, PWP's, paths, houses.. and personally I feel claustrophobic looking at it and don't like it much. That's why
my town doesn't have tons of flowers.
Happy decorating
