HappyTails
On Indefinite Hiatus
Yikes! Why so defensive? I think Spooky was just observing that you're replying to countering opinions with quite the callous tone, rather than a way that promotes further discussion. You're just kind of shutting anyone down who doesn't think it's as good an idea as you do. A good discussion requires you to be receptive of other people's thoughts.
Nobody said it was the worst idea on the planet, either, nor is it the 'only argument that matters'. Little bit dramatic, don't you think?
I guess the part where I posted that I'm smart enough to not make a thread asking people's opinion if I didn't want to hear other people's opinions was totally ignored here. That the one thing that sucks about trying to have a serious discussion or debate online. People can come off as callous or defensive when they are counter arguing. And it does seem like the only one that matters since it's only one that everyone who doesn't think this is a good idea keeps bringing up. And I'm countering with why should medals be the only thing you earn when you can just buy everything else, and people are countering with because medals are earned, and I'm countering again with the same argument. If I didn't want to hear people's arguments against and idea of mine, again, I'm smart enough not to have opened up a discussion about and I sure as heck wouldn't continue posting in the thread if I didn't want to hear people's opinions. I'm genuine curiously about people opinions on this (whether they agree with me or not) and wasn't my intention to sound defensive or callous, I apologize if I sounded that way.
I do admit, I did get a bit dramatic about that 'worst idea' part. I apologize for that as well. Now that I think about it, this probably wasn't a good idea. LOL
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