I just went to the wrong town... for the first time... and got booted :(

Seems I've caused quite a ruckus here? Didn't mean to, honestly, I'm really sorry! I was just joking, I would never so anything like that! I'm sorry the misunderstanding. I would never, ever steal anything from anyone's town.
I feel like a terrible person now... didn't realise people wouldn't get that I was joking. :'(
 
Seems I've caused quite a ruckus here? Didn't mean to, honestly, I'm really sorry! I was just joking, I would never so anything like that! I'm sorry the misunderstanding. I would never, ever steal anything from anyone's town.
I feel like a terrible person now... didn't realise people wouldn't get that I was joking. :'(

This was the last part you wrote:

I'm just kidding, okay? I don't steal. I permanently borrow.

"I'm just kidding, okay? I don't steal." If you had stopped there, I would have believed it was a joke. I mean, before that part, you talked about how you're the type of person to return after being kicked out. However, the last sentence of "I permanently borrow" means, to me, that you do actually steal things. The words make it sound like you were telling the truth about behaving badly, saying that was a joke, and then admitting it's actually not a joke. You have to remember that we don't know you yet. The wording you use is important.
 
I can certainly see myself doing that purposely. If I got booted, I'd try and go back. I'm the kind of person that would do that just to mess about and annoy someone, however I'd stop if they genuinely didn't want me snooping around their town stealing everything (I can see why they'd boot me from the town, I guess...)! But in all honesty, if I didn't get kicked right away, I think it would be quite fun to end up in some random, strange town... You know what? I'm gonna try that. They might have some valuable stuff lurking around.
I'm just kidding, okay? I don't steal. I permanently borrow.

Try joking about stealing in front of employees while you're in a store and see how quickly you get kicked out
 
I'm always worried that it will happen to me. I wouldn't notice it before it was too late and I would give an item to the wrong person during trades.
 
Isn't it weird how type can be so super subjective? Just goes to show that as everyone has mentioned, you must be very careful how you word things. Especially when you are relying on the trust, goodwill and faith of others. I also would never allow someone I didn't know to visit my town if they joked about stealing. Inwould err on the side of better safe than sorry. However, I am glad you commented and clarified your meaning. Thank you, Cyan Flare :)
 
Isn't it weird how type can be so super subjective? Just goes to show that as everyone has mentioned, you must be very careful how you word things. Especially when you are relying on the trust, goodwill and faith of others. I also would never allow someone I didn't know to visit my town if they joked about stealing. Inwould err on the side of better safe than sorry. However, I am glad you commented and clarified your meaning. Thank you, Cyan Flare :)

Also if you have no wifi ratings, you need to be even more careful because nobody knows you that well or how honest you are. You could legitimately steal our stuff even though you say you're only joking. You never know. I wouldn't allow anyone in when they joke about stealing either tbh.
 
Seems I've caused quite a ruckus here? Didn't mean to, honestly, I'm really sorry! I was just joking, I would never so anything like that! I'm sorry the misunderstanding. I would never, ever steal anything from anyone's town.
I feel like a terrible person now... didn't realise people wouldn't get that I was joking. :'(

Don't worry 'bout it. :)
 
Seems I've caused quite a ruckus here? Didn't mean to, honestly, I'm really sorry! I was just joking, I would never so anything like that! I'm sorry the misunderstanding. I would never, ever steal anything from anyone's town.
I feel like a terrible person now... didn't realise people wouldn't get that I was joking. :'(

Hey, don't worry about it. Even though there are hardly ever scammers or thieves on here, everyone is super-wary anyway so you have to be careful how you word things. c:
 
Well I'll just be thankful that some of you have accepted my apology and understand my mistake. I would have thought that the "I permanently borrow" joke would have been heard before, though.
I'm really sorry if my post has caused too much spam and off topic posts in this topic. I'll just stay quiet from now on. Sorry, again.
 
I would have thought that the "I permanently borrow" joke would have been heard before, though.

The thing is: Sometimes it's hard to tell when people are joking online. It's not like we can see your facial expressions or hear the tone of your voice. Sarcasm can be hard to "read." Feelings are much easier to hurt through written text, IMO. Wording is so important. It's nice that you came back to explain yourself. All we ask is that you be careful.
 
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