I got laid off yesterday

[moonbox]

Still reeling from it tbh. Felt guilty for not even responding to people regarding trades because it was such a shock and so unexpected. I feel more stable today but I'm scared that even AC won't feel that fun anymore, when now is the time to lean into my hobbies and self-care.

Just thought I'd rant it somewhere.

 

[RiceBunny]

Stay strong, 2020 is about to be a very rough year for a lot of people. It is time for self care, but don’t get lost in that and stay focused. When this thing is over, look for opportunities elsewhere; you never know, you might end up in a better place and with better pay

 

[moonbox]

Stay strong, 2020 is about to be a very rough year for a lot of people. It is time for self care, but don’t get lost in that and stay focused. When this thing is over, look for opportunities elsewhere; you never know, you might end up in a better place and with better pay

Thank you. We will get through this somehow!!

 

[Soigne]

ah that sucks. i lost my job at the beginning of march, definitely took some time to feel alright again. things will work out!!

 

[Xara]

i’m so sorry. don’t feel bad about not reaching out about trades - you just took a blow in your real life and it’s more important for you to take care of yourself than to take care of trades for a game. <3

 

[Midoriya]

I’m really sorry this happened to you. Getting laid off from a job is tough. I’m not even able to find a decent job right now for post-graduation because of the virus, lol. No worries about trades though, I’m sure people understand.

 

[LadyDestani]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Don't let yourself feel guilty about trades because in the end, it's just a game. The most important thing right now is to take care of yourself. I feel for all of the people who have been negatively impacted or lost their jobs during this time, especially because it's so difficult to find a new one right now. But I've also seen many companies extending offers of assistance and not penalizing people for not being able to pay their bills on time, so hopefully things will work out for you. And I'm wishing you the best of luck in finding a new job in the future.

 

[moonbox]

Thank you everyone, truly. I'm currently filing for unemployment, so I have some hope on my financial situation going forward.

I'm very sad to hear that others have also been laid off, or worse. I was using AC as an outlet for my anxiety before this happened... Wish things did not have to be this way.

Sending strength to anyone else who has been affected.

 

[Alec_Astria]

I know how that feels all too well(I got laid-off multiple times before I got the job I have now). I hope the tides will shift in your favor, and that the wind will be at your back, especially in these times...

 

[celesludenberg]

I got laid off of my job as a nail tech back when my state first started really worrying about it, March 13th, which happened to be Friday the 13th. The salon and spa I worked at did a first round of lay offs and I didn’t make the cut. However they were forced to close only a few days later so everyone there ended up losing their job. I definitely feel you. I just wanted to express that I can relate to your fear of AC getting ruined by all this. I lost my job around when it came out and my mental health (anxiety mostly) made me so dysfunctional I had to start meds. I was scared, and still feel scared, that AC may end up bringing me bad memories later down the line and make me lose the love I have for the series. Anyway, sorry for the long post but I wanted to say that I completely understand you and just know you aren’t alone in all this. Applying for unemployment is annoying but so worth it once it’s over and done with. Filing your weekly claims is decently easy too. I don’t know how much I could be of help but if you have any questions you can always feel free to DM me.

 

[Imbri]

I'm so sorry, but glad you'll be able to get unemployment. And I hope you'll be hired back, once businesses open up again.

Don't worry a bit about trades, playing, any of that. Right now, you have to focus on what is going to get you going and take care of yourself.

There's a whole community here who will lend an ear or shoulder if you need it. Good thoughts, dear!

 

[Fridaynightcatlady]

Damn, sorry for this. I hope you can find a job soon.

 

[Selky]

I'm really sorry. I hope the filing process goes okay for you and some good opportunities open up soon.

Definitely give yourself some self care and stay safe. <3

 

[Chris]

Can relate. I recently lost my job as well. I worked in a laboratory where COVID-19 testing was being carried out, so it was a shock! When I went into the office to return my access card, lab books, and other controlled documents last week the place was mostly deserted.

There are upsides: not having to put yourself/loved ones at risk, more time to focus on yourself, etc. It's like back when having a summer holiday in school - or at least that's how I'm treating it for now! Good luck, it will start to feel better with time.

 

[samsquared]

I'm sorry to hear it. I agree with RiceBunny- COVID19 is changing our world quickly, and in ways that we cannot possibly anticipate or understand until the dust settles & we have a vaccine.
I admire how well you're handling it from your responses. Checking in with your emotions & leaning into the things that bring joy to your life will help immensely- I hope animal crossing continues to bring you peace through the stress you're undoubtedly feeling. I hope you're getting the support you need from the people who care about you. Thinking positively is almost all we can do right now, but it's so so difficult to do. Sending you support & strength from over here!
On another note, my coworker has been wrestling with unemployment all day, too. I heard that possibly they (the US) are gonna roll out more stimulus checks over a longer period of time now that the unemployment rate is bridging almost 20%, and some states are considering raising the payouts of unemployment benefits. No real news on stuff like that yet, but it's hard to imagine they're gonna leave the COVID financial relief at $1200 & walk away because a lot of people clearly need much more than that to continue to survive.

 

[EpicGamer12]

The start date for my new job was delayed a couple of weeks ago. I was supposed to start this past Monday, but it was delayed by two months. I just graduated university and was really banking on the income, but that's just life. I'm sorry you were laid off - hopefully you'll get through it okay

 

[moonbox]

hey everyone... thank you for your responses and well wishes, it truly means a LOT right now. I struggle with anxiety, adhd and ocd (among other things lol) so I just feel so effing useless without a job to help my family. i'm constantly worrying that I don't deserve to live or breathe because i'm not earning my living but I know that's bs. this community has been so healing even if I don't know you all very well, i've come to love AC just for the trading and community aspect! like im not even playing the game that much, I just like knowing there are others out there that seem to get it and are very kind.

i'm looking at applying for jobs again. I very much resent having to write cover letters and update my resume but I know those are hurdles ive gotten over before and can do it again. and to everyone else who lost their jobs, im truly sorry and I hope things get better for u. I still havent gotten anything from the stimulus bill so im gonna work on that today I think lol~
♥

 

[hzl]

hey everyone... thank you for your responses and well wishes, it truly means a LOT right now. I struggle with anxiety, adhd and ocd (among other things lol) so I just feel so effing useless without a job to help my family. i'm constantly worrying that I don't deserve to live or breathe because i'm not earning my living but I know that's bs. this community has been so healing even if I don't know you all very well, i've come to love AC just for the trading and community aspect! like im not even playing the game that much, I just like knowing there are others out there that seem to get it and are very kind.

i'm looking at applying for jobs again. I very much resent having to write cover letters and update my resume but I know those are hurdles ive gotten over before and can do it again. and to everyone else who lost their jobs, im truly sorry and I hope things get better for u. I still havent gotten anything from the stimulus bill so im gonna work on that today I think lol~
♥

I lost my job in March due to covid and I spent a week feeling completely lost because I was finally feeling like I was getting to a better place with my mental health, anxiety and life in general. Without a job I feel exactly the same as you mentioned so I kinda feel glad that I’m not the only one who feels this way. I honestly hope things improve for you and your situation turns around in a positive way ❤

 

[mermaidshelf]

I'm so sorry that happened to you! It's been hard for so many people. Just shows how terrible the system was and how little safety nets were put into place. Take this moment to focus on self-care. It doesn't have to include Animal Crossing. You deserve to live and breathe and be happy! Your worth isn't measured by your job.

 

[brockbrock]

I'm so sorry you were laid off! These times are stressful enough as is. I hope you are able to find avenues to release stress, be it Animal Crossing, or music, or meditation, etc. I hope things get better for you. We are here if you need to keep venting! You can always send me a PM, too!