I kind of agree with Jarrad, I mean it's great that they're happy but if everyone starts to accept incest then is it ok for brother/sister incest? Father/daughter? Where do we draw the line? What if people in families start feeling pressured into incest, because it's seen as ok?
I am now in a relationship with my second cousin, however....
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Princess Weeb
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Are you alright? Pretty sure none of what I said was in a foreign language. For a start, incest is legal in some parts of the world. Even then, people are always doing things against the law unpunished. People will always break the law, there is nothing you can do about it. As I said, it is likely that this will not last forever or result in a child. The only real problem I would have with that is the judgement placed on that child from others.
Neither party are being forced into a relationship, and I'm assuming it isn't at all sexual at the moment so no crime is being committed. If you need help decoding anything else anytime soon gimme a shout
Frances-Simoun
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Finally someone that makes sense xD
Jarrad you are getting so worked out over something that has nothing to do with your life. If the OP and his new GF have kids and something goes wrong that is their dilema to deal with in the future, calling their relationship sickning and so forth on a forum isnt gonna change the fact that theirs love between the OP and his cousin lol
In your beliefs and my own it's not "Okay" but doesn't mean you are allowed to bash it.
Princess Weeb
What's 1,000 minus 7?
>But there's no pressure
>But they're second cousins that barely knew eachother
>This is the same argument as "If gay people get married we'll end up marrying animals!!!!"
It's such a rare thing, it's unlikely it will ever get out of the taboo area, anyway.
Frances-Simoun
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You will never do something you do not wish to do. It depends to each person really
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Are you alright? Pretty sure none of what I said was in a foreign language. For a start, incest is legal in some parts of the world. Even then, people are always doing things against the law unpunished. People will always break the law, there is nothing you can do about it. As I said, it is likely that this will not last forever or result in a child. The only real problem I would have with that is the judgement placed on that child from others.
Neither party are being forced into a relationship, and I'm assuming it isn't at all sexual at the moment so no crime is being committed. If you need help decoding anything else anytime soon gimme a shout
Yes, I'm good! Thank you for asking. I'd quote some stuff you said which made no sense, but I can't be bothered to go back one page and c+p anything. Anyway,
Just because something is legal in some parts of the world doesn't meant that it's a perfectly acceptable thing to do. You have to realise that different cultures have different opinions and perspectives to ours. In the western part of the world there are a lot of things which are deemed "okay" by other parts of the worlds. Let's look at North-Korea as an example. There is it perfectly legal to publicly execute and enprison people who decide to oppose NK's dictatorship. So from this, do you think it's okay to kill and enprison western people who think the same way as NK people?
Having people breaking laws does not justify breaking them yourself. If somebody jumped off a cliff would you do the same?
I know nobody is being forced into a relationship... why have you felt the need to state this? I didn't say anything that indicated or implied that people are being forced into incestuous relationships. This was completely irrelevant lol...
No, you're wrong. The only problem here is that you're promoting incestry.
nah dude thats like saying gay sex shud be taboo cuz then men wud be pressured into banging each other bcuz its seen as ok
I'm definitely not saying that everyone is gonna be like 'WAHOO let's do incest!!!' but I'm just saying that if for example if a brother is pressuring his sister to commit incest with him, then at least she can be like 'it's illegal, no' . but if incest is seen as more tolerable she might be more pressured. It's alright saying you can never do something you don't want to do, but it doesn't always work like that. not everyone's really strong like that.
I know I am, it has nothing to do with most people's lives, but this doesn't mean that I can't express how I feel on the subject.
I mean, this has nothing to do with your life as well, so why are you here?
At the end of the day, Monster has made a thread about his incestuous relationship, which means that he's decided to share it with us. Since I am a member of this forum, I have every right to express how I feel on this matter, as it has been made public by Monster.
Trent the Paladin
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Why would if matter if it's legal or not, no means no.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pop-psych/201401/what-makes-incest-morally-wrong
read this if you're still on the fence regarding whether inbreeding/incest relationships are bad.
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Because the girl's brother would be more prone to pressing it on her, since some people simply lack the capability to say no.
read this if you're still on the fence regarding whether inbreeding/incest relationships are bad.
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Because the girl's brother would be more prone to pressing it on her, since some people simply lack the capability to say no.
Frances-Simoun
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On that case it's alot differente since there is only consent on one of the parts, so it should count as possible rape if he were to force her just cause it's legal, it would still be illegal to preassure someone into sex without their consent no matter if it's "okay" to participate in incest. ( I hope that made sense lol)
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Exactly!
Trent the Paladin
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Literally bring it up to the parents then, let them straighten him out then.
It would be great if everyone would just stop when someone says no, but it's unfortunately not that simple. Plus, if incest was legal and the girl is quite young she might be pressured into thinking she should do it. At least if it's seen as taboo or is illegal then she might be more inclined to say no, or tell someone about it.
oath2order
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Except she's his age as I think he said in the previous thread.
Princess Weeb
What's 1,000 minus 7?
How can I be wrong on an opinion? Again I ask, are you alright?
I wasn't going to reply because I literally just laughed at that post but here you go.
None of what I said made no sense, other people were able to reply to it fine, and if you're able to make such strong statements I'm pretty sure you're able to back them up with quotes, right?
I stated that it was consensual and not forced because it's a valid point, but it also goes against at least some notions of it being "disgusting". In how many countries is gay marriage legal? Does that mean it's wrong? Why are people so convinced that only their countries' law is right and nowhere else can do anything different. We have no idea where the OP is from. Where they are it could be completely legal. There's a difference between policies on execution and drug laws and policies on people's sex lives that again, have literally nothing to do with you.
The only problem I have is advocating second cousin incest that it is unlikely anyone would ever get arrested over. Please stop making stupid accusations and trying to pair together completely different concepts in order to validate your point. I will not reply to you from now on because this is literally hilarious. Have your opinion, leave this person alone. Nobody is getting hurt over it. (But yourself by the sound of it)
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That's like if someone inquiring about the sanctity of interracial relationships in a country where it was legal asked for help and someone started spewing racist nonsense?????
alright lets say A pressures B to do mdma, then at least B can say 'its illegal, no' correct?
but is that an appropriate use of the law? shud u be creating and justifying the existence of laws purely to deter what might happen? disregard how socially acceptable mdma/incest is, look at it from a liberty point of view. r u happy with something being outlawed simply bcuz it cud be abused? let me put it another way. is incest/mdma illegal bcuz the legislators r afraid that someone cud be pressured into committing incest or taking mdma? the law cant and shudnt be designed to protect everyone, bcuz it will inevitably intrude on personal liberties (while being completely ineffective at protecting everyone too).
lol
we were speaking hypothetically
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Lol, when somebody says "I won't reply to anything u say from now on" pretty much says it all
what a waste of time
you're officially on my ignore list
Well, love is blind and your heart won`t care if she is a (distant) relative.
Imo, love is awfully rare and when you finally do fall in love with someone and its mutual, life is to short to just ignore it.
If you ask me personally, I wouldn`t date a relative. However, I`m not in love with a family member. In honesty I think thats my head talking, not my heart. I`ve been in love once or twice and if it had been a relative, I wouldn`t have cared about what others thought. I would probably have been to scared to declare my love though.
Its easy to say that what your doing is wrong, but remember; no one ever has died happy doing only things that are right.
In short, **** other people, follow your heart.
Imo, love is awfully rare and when you finally do fall in love with someone and its mutual, life is to short to just ignore it.
If you ask me personally, I wouldn`t date a relative. However, I`m not in love with a family member. In honesty I think thats my head talking, not my heart. I`ve been in love once or twice and if it had been a relative, I wouldn`t have cared about what others thought. I would probably have been to scared to declare my love though.
Its easy to say that what your doing is wrong, but remember; no one ever has died happy doing only things that are right.
In short, **** other people, follow your heart.
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