The only times I truly unwind is when I wake up and right before i go to bed. I listen to the rain and meditate Tony Robbins style for about 15-20 mins.
I take a shower, grab a glass of either wine or maybe just a Dr P, put on my house robe and climb into bed with my cat the rest of the evening. I'll watch TV and do homework and play video games there, it's always nice to get a day like that. I especially love it if I can sleep in or it's raining really hard outside. (That doesn't happen often though.)
Hot shower, comfy pajamas, hot drink or glass of wine. Then I'll either get in bed with my DS or a book, or watch a tv show with my fianc?. I do this every night.