Help with asking a girl out

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I come to ask the members of TBT this, because you usually seem experienced with this kind of thing.

For a while now i have really liked this girl. Same interests and whatnot. But unfortunately i am far too shy to ever make a move or ask anything (held back even further since im aspergic). The girl in question is definetaly single, and im pretty sure she has mild feelings for me (some basic behaviours, blushing and minor flirting). Also, considering 3 people know that i do like this girl (by sneakily sneaking it out of me) but no one else. (It doesnt help that one of the 3 people who knows is her cousin) So its possible she knows i do like her. she seems shy as well.

What shall i do? I cant work up the courage to ask her out (last time i asked a girl out, it took me 3 years to get enough courage to ask her, which ended with rejection).

You all seem knowledgabe about this subject so if you could help, post below. You dont know how much it will help me.
 
Be yourself, girls can tell if you are being fake. She should like you for who you are.
 
Say something like "I've liked you for a while, could we go someplace together?" Make a date as friends first then let it work itself out.

source: am girl
 
If you have a similar T.V show interest ask her if she wants to watch it with you. Then get mad *****
 
Not trying to bang anyone yet lol. Just trying to be honest. After all, love is about honesty and stuff

Okay, invite her over to watch t.v, eat food, and get as close as possible to cuddling without getting too close. No cuddling without consent
 
Similar T.V. program is an idea, though. Video games? Does she like any? Do you know?
Mad flirting can happen during Super Smash Bros. Just btw.
 
Another interesting fact to note is she laughs at just about every joke i say. Then again, so does every girl (i mean like every single one)
 
Wait for a moment when you two are alone or having a pleasant, happy conversation. When it gets quiet between you two, just say hey, I have a question. Then ask her to be your girlfriend. My boyfriend asked me out while we were sitting beside each other at a restaurant and I loved it.
 
All right champ here's how you do it

You show confidence at all times, and never say more than you have to. Of course, don't be quiet and awkward but don't try to keep the conversation going or talk about something random and make it awkward. You have to act soon cause most girls will lose interest in you if you aren't bold or brave or whatever. So you go up to her and say "hey, let's get lunch tomorrow" or whatever.With a smile. If she already knows that you like her, time is running out already. If you're not feeling the direct approach, just ask her to go do something with you and your mutual friends once or twice. But make sure you talk to her and make it all about her
 
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If this were the case, overpopulation would be beyond ridiculous.

Yeah, watching 'Dancing with the Stars' with my girlfriend hasn't gotten me anything. What a waste of time. :/

Seriously, though. I definitely think you should ask her out. You're gonna regret it if you don't. You don't have to propose or anything on the first date, just play it cool and see how it goes.
 
Yeah, watching 'Dancing with the Stars' with my girlfriend hasn't gotten me anything. What a waste of time. :/

Seriously, though. I definitely think you should ask her out. You're gonna regret it if you don't. You don't have to propose or anything on the first date, just play it cool and see how it goes.

make sure you get her number on the first date though. If not already. Always a mistake if you don't get her number as soon as possible, trust me
 
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You show confidence at all times, and never say more than you have to. Of course, don't be quiet and awkward but don't try to keep the conversation going or talk about something random and make it awkward. You have to act soon cause most girls will lose interest in you if you aren't bold or brave or whatever.

wat

y'all in this thread have such weird ideas about what women like lmao
 
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