Guys, I have a confession to make.

[cody6695]

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It is possable but im giving up.. Im just going to have to accept who I am... Weather I like it or not.

If it is like an addiction to smoking, first it actually helps you maintain a healthy mind if you do have those attractions to accept them, as opposed to giving you cancer. If cigarettes had no unhealthy aspects and actually helped you wouldn't you smoke?

Yes there are sexually transmitted diseases, but that is why you shouldn't be promiscuous. For me i am a guy and I am attracted to guys, and acting on them to be with someone I can cuddle with and feel comfortable with only offers healthy benefits to my esteem and my heart. If I went out with a girl like I did once before, it would just cause self loathing on the inside, knowing that I had no attraction to her, and that I was faking it. If I went out with no one, I would just be lonely and depressed.

I am sexually attracted to guys but mentally attracted to girls... Im in a real jam.

 

[Ryudo Dragoon]

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It is possable but im giving up.. Im just going to have to accept who I am... Weather I like it or not.

If it is like an addiction to smoking, first it actually helps you maintain a healthy mind if you do have those attractions to accept them, as opposed to giving you cancer. If cigarettes had no unhealthy aspects and actually helped you wouldn't you smoke?

Yes there are sexually transmitted diseases, but that is why you shouldn't be promiscuous. For me i am a guy and I am attracted to guys, and acting on them to be with someone I can cuddle with and feel comfortable with only offers healthy benefits to my esteem and my heart. If I went out with a girl like I did once before, it would just cause self loathing on the inside, knowing that I had no attraction to her, and that I was faking it. If I went out with no one, I would just be lonely and depressed.

I am sexually attracted to guys but mentally attracted to girls... Im in a real jam.

I more agree with tyeforce, addiction is bondage none the less. I understand how you feel (to my fullest capacity) but the best/worst thing to know is that for ANY human, the hardest things for one to overcome is one's own sexuality. It is hard but, an important fight to win... I can't really quite explain it in words well enough but I do agree with tyeforce, except, it's far worse than "any" other addiction such as smoking and possibly any drug.
I can only hope whatever happens, happens "well".

 

[cody6695]

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It is possable but im giving up.. Im just going to have to accept who I am... Weather I like it or not.

If it is like an addiction to smoking, first it actually helps you maintain a healthy mind if you do have those attractions to accept them, as opposed to giving you cancer. If cigarettes had no unhealthy aspects and actually helped you wouldn't you smoke?

Yes there are sexually transmitted diseases, but that is why you shouldn't be promiscuous. For me i am a guy and I am attracted to guys, and acting on them to be with someone I can cuddle with and feel comfortable with only offers healthy benefits to my esteem and my heart. If I went out with a girl like I did once before, it would just cause self loathing on the inside, knowing that I had no attraction to her, and that I was faking it. If I went out with no one, I would just be lonely and depressed.

I am sexually attracted to guys but mentally attracted to girls... Im in a real jam.

I more agree with tyeforce, addiction is bondage none the less. I understand how you feel (to my fullest capacity) but the best/worst thing to know is that for ANY human, the hardest things for one to overcome is one's own sexuality. It is hard but, an important fight to win... I can't really quite explain it in words well enough but I do agree with tyeforce, except, it's far worse than "any" other addiction such as smoking and possibly any drug.
I can only hope whatever happens, happens "well".

addiction is bondage?

 

[Ryudo Dragoon]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deeppossible

If it is like an addiction to smoking, first it actually helps you maintain a healthy mind if you do have those attractions to accept them, as opposed to giving you cancer. If cigarettes had no unhealthy aspects and actually helped you wouldn't you smoke?

Yes there are sexually transmitted diseases, but that is why you shouldn't be promiscuous. For me i am a guy and I am attracted to guys, and acting on them to be with someone I can cuddle with and feel comfortable with only offers healthy benefits to my esteem and my heart. If I went out with a girl like I did once before, it would just cause self loathing on the inside, knowing that I had no attraction to her, and that I was faking it. If I went out with no one, I would just be lonely and depressed.

I am sexually attracted to guys but mentally attracted to girls... Im in a real jam.

I more agree with tyeforce, addiction is bondage none the less. I understand how you feel (to my fullest capacity) but the best/worst thing to know is that for ANY human, the hardest things for one to overcome is one's own sexuality. It is hard but, an important fight to win... I can't really quite explain it in words well enough but I do agree with tyeforce, except, it's far worse than "any" other addiction such as smoking and possibly any drug.
I can only hope whatever happens, happens "well".

addiction is bondage?

Yeah.

 

[cody6695]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deeppossible

I am sexually attracted to guys but mentally attracted to girls... Im in a real jam.

I more agree with tyeforce, addiction is bondage none the less. I understand how you feel (to my fullest capacity) but the best/worst thing to know is that for ANY human, the hardest things for one to overcome is one's own sexuality. It is hard but, an important fight to win... I can't really quite explain it in words well enough but I do agree with tyeforce, except, it's far worse than "any" other addiction such as smoking and possibly any drug.
I can only hope whatever happens, happens "well".

addiction is bondage?

Yeah.

Could you maybe clarify that a little for me? :gyroidconfused:

 

[Ryudo Dragoon]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deeppossible

I more agree with tyeforce, addiction is bondage none the less. I understand how you feel (to my fullest capacity) but the best/worst thing to know is that for ANY human, the hardest things for one to overcome is one's own sexuality. It is hard but, an important fight to win... I can't really quite explain it in words well enough but I do agree with tyeforce, except, it's far worse than "any" other addiction such as smoking and possibly any drug.
I can only hope whatever happens, happens "well".

addiction is bondage?

Yeah.

Could you maybe clarify that a little for me? :gyroidconfused:

Well due to words changing meanings and such, it's understandable the confusion...

Well when one is addicted to drugs or something, they begin to be lost in such things, such as alcohol, cigarettes(to a lesser extent), cocaine, opium, marijuana, and so on, one trys or feels the urge to try, or is forced and made to continue, and keeps "trying" it and eventually this addiction becomes a need and you get (metaphorically) chained and bined to such things which is bondage.
That's true bondage.
I hate how words lose their meaning and become abused. :/

 

[cody6695]

Okay I understand now.

 

[Sporge27]

Just as with anything you need moderation.

Technically you could say everyone on the planet is addicted to food, water, and air. We crave food when hungry, get thirsty and do just about whatever we can to get air when needed. but at the same time too much of it is bad for you, you can die by eating to much, drinking too much water, and for that matter have you ever tried breathing in and out really quickly? you get light headed and eventually pass out. doesn't make it a bad addiction like the addiction to something that causes cancer is. Besides that are you going to persecute smokers and not let them smoke in the privacy of their own property?
Sex can be an addiction but you don't have to be gay to overdo that. Being gay is not an addiction, because it is simply the attraction not the action.
honestly here is an actual def from online:

homosexual - sexually attracted to members of your own sex.

It is just the attraction and therefore uncontrollable, what you do about it is controllable, but I just want to be able to be with someone for my life.

 

[Furry Sparks]

And once again, Sporge makes amazing posts.

 

[Garrett x50 cal]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

I have so many fetishes if you people knew some of the things that turn me on you would never look at me the same, If I could choose what I was sexually attracted to I wouldn't be attracted to half of my fetishes.

PM me some I heard some pretty wacked out ones b 4

 

[Furry Sparks]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

I have so many fetishes if you people knew some of the things that turn me on you would never look at me the same, If I could choose what I was sexually attracted to I wouldn't be attracted to half of my fetishes.

PM me some I heard some pretty wacked out ones b 4

I bet I've heard weirder.

 

[Garrett x50 cal]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deepis a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

I have so many fetishes if you people knew some of the things that turn me on you would never look at me the same, If I could choose what I was sexually attracted to I wouldn't be attracted to half of my fetishes.

PM me some I heard some pretty wacked out ones b 4

I bet I've heard weirder.

Okay.

 

[-C*-]

If homosexuality is an addiction, then straight people are addicted to the opposite gender.

 

[Leagolas1]

i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older

false.

the only choice you make is to be yourself or suppress your natural, healthy inclinations.

So having male-juice in your port-hole is healthy?

Also, being bi or gay or les is usually a phase. Go back and read my earlier post. The television channels teens watch most, (MTV, VH1, etc.) all have shows with gay/bi/les scenes, or with gay/bi/les people. They basically instill in our children gay/bi/les thoughts.

And since teenagers rebel, and being gay/bi/les is generally unnaccepted ,has shock value, AND is portrayed for them on their favorite tv channels, well, I don't even think I need to explain what those three factors together mean.

If you are gay/bi/les, more power to ya, but please realize that you might just be following a fad, (yes, thats right,) and that gay sex probably hurts, and you have a 25% chance of getting aids each time you do it.

i'm 23. i doubt it.

that's like saying shows with straight couples are instilling straight beliefs into everyday youth.

so people like me grow up thinking there aren't any other options because i have no exposure to a gay lifestyle. i *promise* you that you're only paying attention more to those instances of homosexuality on tv because there's absolutely no way that the homosexual lifestyle is overrepresented in mainstream culture, unless it's girls being shown making out and the like - and that's because of the dominant heterosexist culture in which lesbians are "hot" and guy guys are "gross."

your 25% statistic is wrong and unfounded. straight people can get it just as easily, and two people of the same gender that aren't HIV positive have a 0% chance of infecting each other if they are a monogamous couple.

sorry if this came off as harsh. i understand that the whole "bi" thing can sometimes be for shock value and rebellion or whatever, but without an environment with open conversation, there's going to be a lot of people hurting as they grow up (~10% of them, in fact), with nowhere else to turn.

Wrong. God created adam and Eve not Adam and Steve

 

[Megamannt125]

i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older

false.

the only choice you make is to be yourself or suppress your natural, healthy inclinations.

So having male-juice in your port-hole is healthy?

Also, being bi or gay or les is usually a phase. Go back and read my earlier post. The television channels teens watch most, (MTV, VH1, etc.) all have shows with gay/bi/les scenes, or with gay/bi/les people. They basically instill in our children gay/bi/les thoughts.

And since teenagers rebel, and being gay/bi/les is generally unnaccepted ,has shock value, AND is portrayed for them on their favorite tv channels, well, I don't even think I need to explain what those three factors together mean.

If you are gay/bi/les, more power to ya, but please realize that you might just be following a fad, (yes, thats right,) and that gay sex probably hurts, and you have a 25% chance of getting aids each time you do it.

i'm 23. i doubt it.

that's like saying shows with straight couples are instilling straight beliefs into everyday youth.

so people like me grow up thinking there aren't any other options because i have no exposure to a gay lifestyle. i *promise* you that you're only paying attention more to those instances of homosexuality on tv because there's absolutely no way that the homosexual lifestyle is overrepresented in mainstream culture, unless it's girls being shown making out and the like - and that's because of the dominant heterosexist culture in which lesbians are "hot" and guy guys are "gross."

your 25% statistic is wrong and unfounded. straight people can get it just as easily, and two people of the same gender that aren't HIV positive have a 0% chance of infecting each other if they are a monogamous couple.

sorry if this came off as harsh. i understand that the whole "bi" thing can sometimes be for shock value and rebellion or whatever, but without an environment with open conversation, there's going to be a lot of people hurting as they grow up (~10% of them, in fact), with nowhere else to turn.

Wrong. God created adam and Eve not Adam and Steve

It was prooven that Adam and Eve never exsisted when Dinosaurs were discovered.

 

[-C*-]

i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older

false.

the only choice you make is to be yourself or suppress your natural, healthy inclinations.

So having male-juice in your port-hole is healthy?

Also, being bi or gay or les is usually a phase. Go back and read my earlier post. The television channels teens watch most, (MTV, VH1, etc.) all have shows with gay/bi/les scenes, or with gay/bi/les people. They basically instill in our children gay/bi/les thoughts.

And since teenagers rebel, and being gay/bi/les is generally unnaccepted ,has shock value, AND is portrayed for them on their favorite tv channels, well, I don't even think I need to explain what those three factors together mean.

If you are gay/bi/les, more power to ya, but please realize that you might just be following a fad, (yes, thats right,) and that gay sex probably hurts, and you have a 25% chance of getting aids each time you do it.

i'm 23. i doubt it.

that's like saying shows with straight couples are instilling straight beliefs into everyday youth.

so people like me grow up thinking there aren't any other options because i have no exposure to a gay lifestyle. i *promise* you that you're only paying attention more to those instances of homosexuality on tv because there's absolutely no way that the homosexual lifestyle is overrepresented in mainstream culture, unless it's girls being shown making out and the like - and that's because of the dominant heterosexist culture in which lesbians are "hot" and guy guys are "gross."

your 25% statistic is wrong and unfounded. straight people can get it just as easily, and two people of the same gender that aren't HIV positive have a 0% chance of infecting each other if they are a monogamous couple.

sorry if this came off as harsh. i understand that the whole "bi" thing can sometimes be for shock value and rebellion or whatever, but without an environment with open conversation, there's going to be a lot of people hurting as they grow up (~10% of them, in fact), with nowhere else to turn.

Wrong. God created adam and Eve not Adam and Steve

Then on the same note, anal sex (or "gay sex"), isn't really sex. Therefor, you don't need to get married to have sex with a person of the same gender.

 

[Clown Town]

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING BI.

im bi because ima virgin so im not sure so EVERYONE is bi once in ther life.

 

[blue2kid3]

Just as with anything you need moderation.

Technically you could say everyone on the planet is addicted to food, water, and air. We crave food when hungry, get thirsty and do just about whatever we can to get air when needed. but at the same time too much of it is bad for you, you can die by eating to much, drinking too much water, and for that matter have you ever tried breathing in and out really quickly? you get light headed and eventually pass out. doesn't make it a bad addiction like the addiction to something that causes cancer is. Besides that are you going to persecute smokers and not let them smoke in the privacy of their own property?
Sex can be an addiction but you don't have to be gay to overdo that. Being gay is not an addiction, because it is simply the attraction not the action.
honestly here is an actual def from online:

homosexual - sexually attracted to members of your own sex.

It is just the attraction and therefore uncontrollable, what you do about it is controllable, but I just want to be able to be with someone for my life.

once again amazing post ^_^
you are my hero

 

[blue2kid3]

i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older

false.

the only choice you make is to be yourself or suppress your natural, healthy inclinations.

So having male-juice in your port-hole is healthy?

Also, being bi or gay or les is usually a phase. Go back and read my earlier post. The television channels teens watch most, (MTV, VH1, etc.) all have shows with gay/bi/les scenes, or with gay/bi/les people. They basically instill in our children gay/bi/les thoughts.

And since teenagers rebel, and being gay/bi/les is generally unnaccepted ,has shock value, AND is portrayed for them on their favorite tv channels, well, I don't even think I need to explain what those three factors together mean.

If you are gay/bi/les, more power to ya, but please realize that you might just be following a fad, (yes, thats right,) and that gay sex probably hurts, and you have a 25% chance of getting aids each time you do it.

i'm 23. i doubt it.

that's like saying shows with straight couples are instilling straight beliefs into everyday youth.

so people like me grow up thinking there aren't any other options because i have no exposure to a gay lifestyle. i *promise* you that you're only paying attention more to those instances of homosexuality on tv because there's absolutely no way that the homosexual lifestyle is overrepresented in mainstream culture, unless it's girls being shown making out and the like - and that's because of the dominant heterosexist culture in which lesbians are "hot" and guy guys are "gross."

your 25% statistic is wrong and unfounded. straight people can get it just as easily, and two people of the same gender that aren't HIV positive have a 0% chance of infecting each other if they are a monogamous couple.

sorry if this came off as harsh. i understand that the whole "bi" thing can sometimes be for shock value and rebellion or whatever, but without an environment with open conversation, there's going to be a lot of people hurting as they grow up (~10% of them, in fact), with nowhere else to turn.

Wrong. God created adam and Eve not Adam and Steve

i hate that Adam and Steve crap :gyroidverymad:

 

[akmaruman09]

omg have you told your parents? and its good that u came right out to say this because it helps u build ur courage