Guys, I have a confession to make.

[cody6695]

[quote="]:O
I've been feeling the same!!
But you guys would be the only ones to know.
not.. NOT telling parent. ;([/quote]Yeah my dad is sooooo Homofobic

 

[Tyeforce]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

 

[cody6695]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

I don't like the "You Fail!!" Thing either... But I don't think it is a choice. Some people are born this way and some are "currupted" at an early age usally by the internet.

 

[Megamannt125]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

 

[cody6695]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

 

[Megamannt125]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

I have so many fetishes if you people knew some of the things that turn me on you would never look at me the same, If I could choose what I was sexually attracted to I wouldn't be attracted to half of my fetishes.

 

[cody6695]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

Yes, If you were in the position you would know you have no choice. T_T

I have so many fetishes if you people knew some of the things that turn me on you would never look at me the same, If I could choose what I was sexually attracted to I wouldn't be attracted to half of my fetishes.

Im sad to say it but the same here... well not that many but still.

 

[Tyeforce]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

 

[-C*-]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

...
...
...what?

EDIT: Oh, I see, that wonderful idea that homosexuality is a choice, Romans 1 and all that.

Blahblahblah.

 

[Tyeforce]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

...
...
...what?

And here they come... -_-;

 

[cody6695]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Well, he is strong. Not many people at all can fight it.

 

[Megamannt125]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Yes but repressing your urges can be unhealthy mentally and hormonely.

 

[Tyeforce]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Well, he is strong. Not many people at all can fight it.

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

 

[Megamannt125]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Well, he is strong. Not many people at all can fight it.

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It's not like smoking whatsoever repressing it is unnatural.

 

[-C*-]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Well, he is strong. Not many people at all can fight it.

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

...
...what?

Often, the Holy Spirit uses science to teach us why those ancient words no longer apply to our modern times. During the last three decades, for example, organizations representing 1.5 million U.S. health professionals (doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, counselors, and educators) have stated definitively that homosexual orientation is as natural as heterosexual orientation, that sexual orientation is determined by a combination of yet unknown pre- and post-natal influences, and that it is dangerous and inappropriate to tell a homosexual that he or she could or should attempt to change his or her sexual orientation.

 

[Sporge27]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

the very definition of being gay or bi is that attraction to member of the same sex (in the case of bi being attracted to some in both sexes). I do think that those who think they can change and claim to have not really changed at all except for what he says, it is pure repression.

Whether or not to take action is a choice, however if you aren't attracted to women at all you could be alone your whole life, and that is hell. Or you could date a girl and live a lie your whole life. I went through my own lies and loneliness already and I hated it, it almost killed me. Repressing your natural instincts can kill you on the inside.

From my personal experience the only choice I had was to live a life of repressed urges, and lie to myself and everyone else, or at least have a shot at happiness. The idea that it is a choice is a little ridiculous in my mind, I mean do you honestly choose who you are attracted to? and do you think you could go through life without acting on it at all to form a family and have someone with you through thick and thin?

 

[Tyeforce]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Yes but repressing your urges can be unhealthy mentally and hormonely.

Not if you redirect your urges. I know it sounds impossible, but it can be done. And if you don't want to, that's fine. I'm not telling anyone that you shouldn't be gay or bi or whatever, that's your choice.

Now why am I posting in Brewster's Cafe at 2AM when I should be working on an essay that was due two days ago?! Man, I hate being a procrastinator...which, by the way, can be changed, too. I have a REALLY bad procrastination problem...but I'm trying to overcome it. Yes, it'll take awhile...(lol, procrastination...)

 

[Sporge27]

Not if you redirect your urges. I know it sounds impossible, but it can be done. And if you don't want to, that's fine. I'm not telling anyone that you shouldn't be gay or bi or whatever, that's your choice.

Now why am I posting in Brewster's Cafe at 2AM when I should be working on an essay that was due two days ago?! Man, I hate being a procrastinator...which, by the way, can be changed, too. I have a REALLY bad procrastination problem...but I'm trying to overcome it. Yes, it'll take awhile...(lol, procrastination...)

You did not just compare procrastination to homosexuality. Honestly procrastination is an act, homosexuality is not BY DEFINITION. If I see a cute guy I can be turned on by him, I can't help that any more than how a lot of guys get turned on by girls. It is not like replying to a thread on a forum instead of doing an essay. The urge itself may be, but you aren't going to repress every urge you have, it isn't healthy, and attraction is one heck of an urge, on par with the need for friends, and safety. Not quite as high as the need for food or water, but it is right below that. Repressing it only causes mental problems.

It really shouldn't have to be an issue right now, its not like we need to populate the planet more right now.

 

[cody6695]

*sigh*

Being bi or gay is a choice. Just because you feel that you might like the same sex doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's natural for everyone to have feelings like that, especially when they're still maturing. If you think "oh noez, im attracted to other bois!" and just accept it, then you're never gonna think you can be straight. The fact is, it is a choice. You're not forced to be bi or gay.

*sighs again knowing that some idiot's gonna reply to this and tell me I "fail"*

You don't fail your just poorly educated in this matter, in a way as scary as it sounds you are forced to be gay, you can't control what your sexually attracted to.

I have a friend who went through this. He was attracted to other males, but he was Christian (as am I), so he wanted to change. And he did. True, sometimes you can't completely control what you're attracted to, but the choice is yours whether or not you take action to those attractions.

Well, he is strong. Not many people at all can fight it.

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It is possable but im giving up.. Im just going to have to accept who I am... Weather I like it or not.

 

[Sporge27]

It's like any other addiction, like smoking. Of course, it's much more complex, but it's possible to overcome.

It is possable but im giving up.. Im just going to have to accept who I am... Weather I like it or not.

If it is like an addiction to smoking, first it actually helps you maintain a healthy mind if you do have those attractions to accept them, as opposed to giving you cancer. If cigarettes had no unhealthy aspects and actually helped you wouldn't you smoke?

Yes there are sexually transmitted diseases, but that is why you shouldn't be promiscuous. For me i am a guy and I am attracted to guys, and acting on them to be with someone I can cuddle with and feel comfortable with only offers healthy benefits to my esteem and my heart. If I went out with a girl like I did once before, it would just cause self loathing on the inside, knowing that I had no attraction to her, and that I was faking it. If I went out with no one, I would just be lonely and depressed.