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Guys, I have a confession to make.
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Megamannt125
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Gay isn't a phase people are born gay.Kolvo said:
Megamannt125
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I could understand Girls going through a phase like that but every guy i know that has said he was gay, was gay.Kolvo said:
Trust me, this is just a form of rebellion. There were hippies, now there are barely any.
Remember afros and skating rinks in the 70s? Now you see them? Nope.
The 80s had rapid cocaine use, and hot pink and "Like, TOTALLY AWESOME GIRLFRIEND!" was then too.
The above statement is my point. Music changes, fads change and time passes with it.
Remember afros and skating rinks in the 70s? Now you see them? Nope.
The 80s had rapid cocaine use, and hot pink and "Like, TOTALLY AWESOME GIRLFRIEND!" was then too.
The above statement is my point. Music changes, fads change and time passes with it.
Megamannt125
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Your still not completely making sense to me Hippies and Homosexuals are different, in todays society no guy would want to be gay, gays get made fun of, beaten, and sometimes killed, But besides that I think being Bi is better then Gay and Straight, i'm not saying there's anything wrong with gay or straight but it feels so much better to like both instead of just one anyways i'm getting off topic. (sort of).Kolvo said:
When your finished with puberty, you'll probably end up one way or another, but just calling yourself both for the hell of it seems like a phase to me. Besides, if you really take what people call you to heart then you care too much of what others think, you do what you think feels right.
I'm am in no way bashing gays, I support them. But being a gay/bi teen as apposed to being an gay/bi adult is far less likely to stay gay/bi. I just find it more valid if you were actively gay/bi.
I'm am in no way bashing gays, I support them. But being a gay/bi teen as apposed to being an gay/bi adult is far less likely to stay gay/bi. I just find it more valid if you were actively gay/bi.
Megamannt125
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I understand what you mean, I started questioning my sexuality at a very young age, but then it stopped until i got into middle school and i saw yaoi for the first time then looking up "things" on the internet..... and I didn't want to accept it either, I used to be a Homophobic Christian but learning I was bi gave me a much much much more open mind.Kolvo said:
Um well being gay or bi means that you have had some sort of attraction to someone of the same sex with some frequency, being bi just means that you also had attractions to girls too...Kolvo said:
It can be a phase for some people and they may lose one side of their attraction, however, as long as they have it they are gay and or bi, and may choose to identify as such the rest of their life because they had those feelings. It is kinda a hard thing to prove they aren't, considering it is something in your mind. Now as for how many people have it as a phase compared to how many actually stay gay or bi I have no idea, in my experience it has been pretty consistent though. It is one thing to be a guy and have a really weird attraction to one guy at one time in your life... that isn't really being bi though, but it is another if there are a lot of guys you find attractive, and I don;t think it is that likely to lose that kind of attraction....
I know bis can really be pressured to choose a side really, and normally they do start leaning one way or the other, but I'd go by what they say still, I mean why would you lie about that stuff....
Megamannt125
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Why would someone choose to be gay? You can't choose what your sexually attracted to. Trust me, if you could choose what your sexually attracted to I wouldn't have half of the strange fetishes I have.nooky said:i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older
neverbeenkrissed
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false.nooky said:i went through a phase but i do not think people are born gay i think its a choice u make when your older
the only choice you make is to be yourself or suppress your natural, healthy inclinations.
coffeebean!
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Oh gawd. Now they start with the whole 'I'm not going to hell' because I'm gay thing. .-.
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You're a moron.nooky said:
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