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ok,maybe not screaming,but say something to those asshats,thinking they can do whatever they want,but if u say NO! u can kill with ur shoe those fckers
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ok,maybe not screaming,but say something to those asshats,thinking they can do whatever they want,but if u say NO! u can kill with ur shoe those fckers
So to break it down, the daily nuisances are those that disrupt order, defile cleanliness and consideration, and people that feel privileged.
I can't think of an absolute solution for store employees, but filing a complaint to the manager might be beneficial.
As for the slow drivers, going around them or giving a slight honk might get their attention.
I'm sorry, I don't have much experience with dealing with those things as they never really occurred for me(Well, I've experienced slow drivers, but I wasn't the one who had to drive so..).
Having to deal with constant suffering is rough. Wondering if you might keel over is even worse on both states of being.
Even if the health care may not be fruitful in it's actions, sometimes the best diagnosis is an evaluation of how you've managed to keep yourself going for so long. How you put up with your personal hell and still haven't thrown the towel.
What I mean is, if your current situation seems perilous, reflecting on the past and remembering the last times you felt this way might help you realize you can keep moving.
Having a dream, someone to look after you, something to hang on to and do that makes you happy.
Relying on others is a good thing, but life is hell.
All you can do is adapt to that hell, and fixate your mindset onto a brighter day.
Even if you don't believe in god, praying is always good. You could pray to a deceased relative or friend, perhaps.
Financial troubles are something I can't help, sadly.
This may sound a bit harsh, but trying to cut the portion of the meals you eat at one time could yield more at a later time, try and find a balance.
Once again, I'm sorry if what I'm saying is lackluster or just not too helpful,
but nevertheless, I'm here to help.
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Excuse me, this thread is for helping, please do not curse and have helpful and real advice, thank you.
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you did it masterfully, short of doing something way more personal like calling me up and talking about it, I honestly could not ask for a better advice post since you only know so much of life to be able to offer advice on topics.
the part about reflecting especially was helpful...I never really considered to look back at the past because frankly it seems the past was much easier health/pain wise but also a time in what I like to refer to as my 'dead life', as I'm transgender (MTF) and back then I was NEVER happy with who I was either. if you were in such a situation mindset wise, what advice would you consider to focus on regarding just how much crud you've went through vs the fact it was 'easier/not as complicated'?
tybalt_cake
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oops,srry,sometimes my heating can be excessive >.<
@sara
Now my heating stopped,
Look,people can be jerks,and maybe they will never care about u,even if u say no to them,if they are still being jerks,just ignore them
Trying to get on the case of someone unknown can be a problem where u work,so just try ignoring them,that type of people just want 2 or 3 things
-Annoy u
-Wasting ur time noticing them
And third one?
-Seeing u to get angry
However,if u don't pay attention to them,u didn't maked the 3 things they wanted to,so,of course,will get bored easily
"But what if the annoyingness continues/they still abusing of products in the store"
Reporting
If u report the people who is making that,its possible they can get kicked out and cant enter back to there
If those see u reporting them and they run away,the cameras on the store can help to identity them.
Now,'bout ur chronic problems,cant help very much there,however,theres only one thing that can help u,hope.
"And how is gonna work hope?"
Well,hope is always something that can help u in ur problems
Maybe hope isn't going to get the results of whats happening to u tomorrow,or gonna tell u what's gonna happen to u tomorrow,but!,if u have it,one day,that wish can get real.
If u don't look at the negative part and look at the positive one,things maybe can better
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Thank you for the compliment and considering my limited experiences, I wasn't very hopeful in my usefulness since I've never dealt with in depth problems like this to much extent.
The past does seem easier if you look at it from where you are now. But that's only because you can't feel, or remember, or see the same little details like you did from when it happened to you.
Hmm, If I was never happy with who I was... regarding to just how much crud I've went through versus the fact that it was 'easier',
I think I've thought of something like that, but I didn't word it the same way you did.
"It was harsh, yet it was easier."
I would say my advice would be to think about how it was easier then compared to now, but on a more complex format. How something as strong as never being happy didn't stop me from going through day by day and doing things that lead up to where and who I am now.
I did something I would have deemed unforgiving and regrettable til the day I died 4 years ago,
But now that I look at it, if it weren't for those things that I regretted doing, then I wouldn't be here, able to help others overcome what they're struggling with.
In short, look back and think about how differently your life would be now if things had gone smoothly then. Would you be this comfortable now, or would you be worse?
This is where I think pessimistic people get off easy, if they can see a situation worse than where they are now, then they've no reason to be disappointed by what they did before that lead up to now.
That one wracked my brain a bit since I had to dig up ancient thoughts, but I hope that clarified my point and gave you your answer.
PrincessSara
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you kinda lost me here, since I feel like if my life had gone smoothly in the past I'd be BETTER than I am now, and achieved more progress and not be in the health situations I am now by getting diagnosed and figuring what's wrong with me sooner, as well as progressed further along in my transition than I have so far.
so how is looking back and comparing helpful then? >.<
Aaah, I'm sorry! I'm not really sure how I'd word my own thoughts on it. x.x
Circumstances are different for all people, so my advice may not apply as much potency for you as it did for me.
Looking back would give you an idea of how bad it was before than how it is now.
Part of looking back is to help yourself accept what happened. Thus, allowing you to accept your current situation and to push through it like you did in the past.
I'm sorry, I think I was thinking about too many things at once... even if this last bit is confusing,
The first part helped, right? T . T
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hah, it all helped goober~ don't sell yourself short, but yeah, I can definitely take away some stuff from the things you said, which frankly, is pretty rare I've found from people being that I'm genius level intelligent and tend to feel like people can't offer me anything I don't already know. take that as a HUGEEEEE compliment that you are awesome and deserve a hug and a pat on the back :3
Hehe, I'ma goober~
Smarts have many branches, some people are more specialized in different branches than others.
*snuggles*
Thank you, I feel honored to be praised so generously, Princess. v//w//v
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Pshshsh~
I sense a hint of jealousyyyy~
Right, Princes-
Wait, where did you go? O:
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you do realize calling me that turned me ten shades of red and made me squee like a schoolgirl, right? fanks for the snuggles <3
pffft, sounds like someones a bratbutt more than a Princess! we can both be Princesses sillybutt! what kinda tiara do you prefer?
you do realize calling me that turned me ten shades of red and made me squee like a schoolgirl, right? fanks for the snuggles <3
pffft, sounds like someones a bratbutt more than a Princess! we can both be Princesses sillybutt! what kinda tiara do you prefer?
xD Much better than fifty shades of gray, eh?
Any you're very welcome~
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you do realize calling me that turned me ten shades of red and made me squee like a schoolgirl, right? fanks for the snuggles <3
pffft, sounds like someones a bratbutt more than a Princess! we can both be Princesses sillybutt! what kinda tiara do you prefer?
Rude xp
Also...
I prefer diamond encrusted tiaras with pink glitter
Are you new here? x3
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uhhhh, hate to break it to you Princess but...
http://www.jewellermagazine.com/Article.aspx?id=2247
it's definitely not plastic
uhhhh, hate to break it to you Princess but...
http://www.jewellermagazine.com/Article.aspx?id=2247
it's definitely not plastic
You mean to tell me jewellery stores are willing to pay that much JUST for a tiara?
Most people won't even be able to offer ballpoint prices to buy the thing! ; w ;
uhhhh, hate to break it to you Princess but...
http://www.jewellermagazine.com/Article.aspx?id=2247
it's definitely not plastic
Only 20 carats?
CHEAP
As a princess we have 20,000 carats
What is with you people?!
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