Does anyone have particular outfits for particular things?

[Sloom]

my dog just died and I couldnt be there with him in his final moments because I had to go to school. Thing is - i didnt even need to go to school. We just sat and did nothing (seriously) - and that whole time i was worrying about my dog. I just wish i could have held him as he passed away. Now he wont be there to greet me when i come home or comfort me...at least he wont have to be in any more pain. The house is so empty without him.


i dont feel like going to school tmrw...its hard to look like im having fun. especially since there's a fieldtrip tmrw

I think for me, it's about intent. I really like some offensive jokes if they're clever and maybe makes fun of stereotypes. For example, I'm Asian and I don't get offended if someone makes a joke about my eyes or whatever, in fact most of the time, I'm the one making jokes about myself. But if the person is actually saying the joke and obviously has genuine bias or hate towards the object of their joke, then that isn't funny at all. Also jokes about actual people is bullying unless they are in on the joke and don't mind.

People have said what I wanted to say already but I will say:

- If you have to put down already-marginalized groups to be funny then you probably aren't funny.
- I understand people make jokes surrounding their own horrible trauma to "cope" (rape jokes, pedophilia jokes, etc.), but 1. It is an unhealthy coping mechanism, seeing as all it does is normalize the abuse/trauma you faced 2. You have to understand a lot of people will be uncomfortable with seeing this and if so, you cannot use "I'm coping" as an excuse 3. If your coping mechanism hurts other people, it's a really bad coping mechanism and you need to find other methods.

Honestly, whenever someone makes a joke that they know is not okay, especially if it targets the person they're talking to or about. Like, it's okay to be naturally ignorant, especially if you've lived a sheltered life and don't understand why your joke could possibly hurt that person, but if you deliberately make a joke to target that person and their experiences, then that's messed up and just plain bullying. It's one thing to be ignorant, but it's a whole another thing to be a jerk.
Other than that, I'm just don't approve of jokes involving rape, genocide, disabilities, or discrimination.

 

[AppleCracker]

I wear this one cool hoodie thing in winter.

I wear the elephant shirt in summer.

I wear a blue jacket (In my avatar) in the spring.

And I still can't decide on a autumn outfit.

 

[Yui Z]

I change every season :3 but I have one theme outfit which is for all my mayor art.

 

[Cudon]

I wear the same stuff all around the year, ain't I disgusting xD

 

[BungoTheElf]

Sometimes I change my qr I wear. Idk why but its really weird. Like my town is in spring but I wear this winter bunny jacket qr lol and then through winter I wore my regular qr shirt depends of I feel like goin to able sisters then I change my outfit xD

Usually I wear some qr type thing and a hat or my white feather : D

 

[Kildor]

I wear different things everyday I wear my blue pajams before i go to "sleep".

 

[Sloom]

i think that there's different lines for everyone. obviously some people will get angry and offended at some things, and some people won't. it really all depends on the person. but there is a line of hypocrisy to keep in mind as well...

i've had situations far too many times where people i knew would laugh at literally the most awful things, literally tormenting people they used to know for their own enjoyment (and this person was a schizophrenic) and making racist jokes too. i never have gotten involved in this ugly ass sort of stuff bc obvious reasons, but then the second you say "oh ***** stop being so fat omg" they'll get offended to the moon and back. so you're allowed to say racist jokes, wish death on people and make fun of a schizophrenic's hallucinations, but the second someone makes fun of you at all it's suddenly not alright? i ****ing hate hypocritical people like this.

i try to avoid making certain jokes (although i feel i've never gone overboard) around the wrong people. but just fooling around usually gets people pissed at me too lol

i dunno really, i personally don't think anything crosses the line but it depends on who you're targeting. if you're here to intentionally upset people then that's bad obviously. i understand why people use them to cope but trust me, it'll only set you back even more on the situation in the long run. i think i'm quite a tolerant person and on rare occasions a joke or even a word can make me feel extremely uncomfortable but as long as they're not doing it on purpose i can't really blame em for it. you just gotta be careful about who you say it to, but you shouldn't really blame the person on the other side if they're offended by the joke either.

Wow I wish I was someone who didn't have "Haha gay guys are pedophiles" jokes and "Oh you're Indian? Are you gonna bomb the school?" jokes thrown at me my whole life so I could see people who were upset and react like this.
There will always be people who will poke fun and just be plain rude. Just don't let it get to you?

 

[AppleCracker]

I wear different things everyday I wear my blue pajams before i go to "sleep".

Same here

 

[Darumy]

This is a cute idea haha!


I just wear things seasonally. I'm an eternal parasol-carrier though.

 

[mrs saturn]

I change clothes and hair every week or so, I often get uncomfortable wearing the same thing for too long when I'm no longer in the same mood that I was when I picked out the outfit. But as a result my entire storage AND basement is full of nothing but clothes...

 

[1980 Something Spaceguy]

when it's raining, i wear the rain coat and the other stuff butt hat's pretty much it

 

[KITTENBONES]

I change up my outfit seasonally. in the winter, I really liked dresses as coats and skirts but for spring, I've been heavily relying on my bone pants and either a pink/mint ombre sweater I made or my denim jacket.

and I always have yellow rainboots on