Do you find this rude or normal?

[lulubella]

I don't find it rude because not everyone can be at their DS 24/7

 

[woodlandmermaid]

It's a bit annoying but I completely understand if somebody can't get to their ds. What bothers me is when people are online and say they can trade anytime with in the hour, because then I know they are online and available, but they just arent responding for some reason.

 

[Rasha]

this doesn't bother me at all, what bothers me is when we agree on a price and they somehow change their mind AFTER they get in my town and ask for a higher price when they know I'm desperate for the item they have :/

 

[oswaldies]

Annoys me a little.

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Annoys me a little.

They don't really know if you can play or not though!
I think they should ask when you can play first though!

 

[Manah]

I prefer to trade immediately, and I absolutely hate vague times like "within the next hour", because that means I can't do anything but keep an eye on my game for the next hour. When I post, I want to get the trade done as soon as possible so I can go do something else. Setting up times is also difficult because of timezones.

If you can't trade right away, say so when you make your offer. Though every time that happened, one or both of us forgot about the trade.

 

[al-tirah]

I prefer to trade immediately but I'm really fine with either.

 

[starlite]

I like to get the trade over and done with, honestly!!

if I set a time, something else could come up, and I could be busy!
so yeah, right away is best, for me!!

 

[Hypno KK]

I don't mind much because usually when I'm online on the forum I have some time to spare. It annoys me a bit sometimes, because there are times when I'm in a hurry or don't really feel like starting the game.

I guess people do it because they don't want to end up stalling the trade. Maybe if you're setting up the trade you can request that people set up the time with you in advance or if you're replying to someone's thread or PMing them, you can add a little note saying that you'd rather trade at a certain time.

 

[LeAckerman]

I'm fine with either. I usually add people right away because I think "Oh, their probably on their 3DS at the moment" If the buyer/seller could specify that their not available beforehand, it would help quite a lot.

What really bothers me is when someone sets a time to trade and they never respond or they are busy at that time. It wastes my time trying to negotiate. This happened to me so many times.. :l

 

[marierock13]

What I find rude is when you've posted a new trade, you receive a reply within ~2 minutes, and then, when you try to finalize the details, the person who replied goes unresponsive/offline without confirming the details or doing the trade.

I only post trade threads when I have my 3DS and the ability to trade, so getting things done immediately is preferable to me.

I don't mind if my trading partner wants to do things at a specified later time... but I'd like it to be specified. True rudeness is replying to a trade request and then not following through.

 

[Extra]

I think it's really rude you know because, it reminds me of kyle who left my town and i want him back i consisdered restarting for hime but you knwo my town is too good to restart and i toooo lazy to cyle him back because it makes me sad you knwo he is really cool because he has reare furniture and he is too cool too pass up you know that? he is too cool. like a flower of carntion and cration you know that he is too cool to let go and i so so so so sad sad that he left me why did you leave kyle is like a soung like the thong song that says i loved tyou for a thousand years and die every say waiting for tou dor a thousand years and junk its really cool you know i wish kyle was back!!! mira also left and she is too cool to lose because she is like sailor moon only a bunny and she is a bunny and bunnies are so too much so much too cool to pass up uou know that? hah you didn't because you probably don't like them but who cares since i am too cool for you and mira and kyle and all vilagwers are too cool for you and for school and you know that because you have crappy villaagers jk im not mean you have nice villagers you know that? unless you don't like them and i will take them for you you know that too much don't you you know that ha ha ha ha you know it i say that alot. i loved you kyle why oh why did you move out why!?! and mira you too why oh why i loved you moth both o why o why o why you mean animals!

 

[yoyo98]

When you and a seller agree to do a trade/purchase/etc., does it bother you if they respond immediately after saying that they're adding you and want you to open your gates?
I check the forums while I'm at school, at work, or babysitting, and just because I'm on the forums doesn't mean I can hop on my DS.

Maybe it's just me, but I wish people would establish a time first, or at the very least say "I'm available within the next hour or whenever you are."
I realize it's not a huge issue, because you can just say you can't get on your DS at the time. It just irks me a little.

Anyways. Your guy's thoughts? Do you prefer setting a time or having someone just add you and then want to immediately trade?

While I don't mind if a time is set or not, I prefer to do a trade right away since the person is not on my bf chat and I can't let them know when I'm back online if I have to leave to do something.

 

[nintendoanna]

It sounds awkward of you're agreeing to do a trade with somebody and you or they're like "oh, can we do it in an hour?"

I like doing trades right away the only exception is when they respond when I'm right about to leave to go somewhere.

 

[jacey.sunshine]

I do like the quick trades but yes real life is there. From selling I find it annoying to make trade times with everyone, preferring to just get it over and done with when they post. I don't use the sites unless I can trade generally.