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Deleting a best friend, need advice

Fandabidozi

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I'm in a small group of friends who met on The Island and chat and give gifts etc.
Problem is one person has become very passive aggressive with others recently and kinda weirded me out by asking personal questions I wasn't comfortable with.
My instinct is to delete this person but it will cut me from the group who I really like otherwise. Anyone been in the same situation?
 
aha yes!
i met a new friend on island (she was 11 or something and too friendly) so we exchanged FCs and went over each other's towns daily, was nice and all, but was so annoying it wasn't funny. When i wasn't online for 2 days she sent me a million emails and whenever i went online she was like "HEY" 'HELLO????" 'UMM HELLOOO" and automatically assumed i was free to play ;_: Constantly bugging me i had no choice but to delete her as Best friend and deleted her FC
 
I would try talking it over with the other members of that group. Maybe some of them are feeling the same way you are? You could also ask the problem individual what's up to see if there's a reason they're being so passive aggressive lately, but depending on what the uncomfortable questions were that might not be a good idea.
 
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If they are making you uncomfortable with personal questions, don't be afraid to delete them. If that's not stopped at the right time it'll only get worse. Try talking to the other friends in the group like someone else said, see if they feel the same way you do, or try to figure out a way you could still talk to them without having this person that's bothering you around when you're there. If they're good friends, they'll understand.
 
Thanks everyone for the advice. I kinda knew what to do but was all worried about hurting anyone's feelings.
I should toughen up maybe :p I'm gonna delete everyone in the group as I don't want to feed the drama.
 
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I'd just delete them. Personally, I don't add friends on the island. The majority of the people I meet on the island are either...
a) super annoying
b) super stuck up
c) not trustworthy
d) begs for money/items
e) brags about their town
f) tells me their age, which gets immediate ignore.
 
reasons why I'm isolated because i dislike everyone .
<-- My words says it all c:
 
If someone makes you uncomfortable, especially online where you don't know them, first tell them it bothers you. They really might not realize it's bothering you. If they don't respond to that, delete them. It's not right for someone to be treated in a way that makes them feel creeped out or uncomfortable after they made the other person aware of it.
 
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