Dating for fun?

[ibelleS]

I chose "you should only date people you would marry" cause I don't like wasting my time

 

[seliph]

If you assume everyone you date is going to be your life partner you're just going to be let down again and again. Your relationships will go much smoother if you accept that it doesn't have to be permanent for it to be good.

As a whole though people can date for whatever reason they want. Their relationships don't affect anyone but them so why does it matter?

 

[ForgottenT]

I think you're taking it as "dating" being a euphemism for having sex

You date someone to find out if you like them or not. Tbh I think you are the one missing the point, you can still date someone who you know you aren't gonna marry or spend your life with or whatever

I have nothing against people having sex before marriage or whatever, I'm agnostic.

Yes you do, that's what I've been saying this entire time, I'm saying that you shouldn't date if you know that you don't care about the other person at all, and are going to "dispose" of them in a bit, I didn't say anything about marriage, you're completely missing the point man.

In simpler terms, I don't think people should date if they know that they don't care about the other person at all, and the only reason to date is literally just to date, if there's no feelings then it's just hanging out, not a date.

 

[Aali]

Everyone can do what they want, but for me if I date someone it'll be someone I've know for a while and have grown close to and it means I can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with them

 

[Rasha]

I take relationships seriously and not "fur da lolz" and I wouldn't date someone who's just there to have fun like gtfo. also if I'm in a relationship I expect my partner to be responsible and is willing to go to the next step..I dumped my ex because he refused to marry me, we're still kind of friends I guess..
if other people do it and are fine with it though then good for them.

 

[Rubylena]

Everthing is fine as long as both know each others intentions and are ok with it. Why would it not be?
How can I start dating someone I already know well? I'd have to date them to find out IF I like them o_o When I start dating them there's no way I can know if I want to be in a relationship with them later or even marry them?!

 

[Crash]

your relationships are your own business, so if you'd rather just have a few flings and not get into anything serious, go right ahead. if you want something long term, do it. it's your own choice, and as long as both parties know each other's intentions and you're being safe about whatever you do, that's really all that matters. c: