Connecting to "faraway" towns

[mongrelxmutt]

I'm having trouble seeing any towns that come up when I try to travel to faraway towns. I can't seem to figure out what the problem is. Please help ?

 

[pokefloote]

Are you sure that their gates are open? They have to play with them open for others to join.

 

[Bridger]

You have to add each other too!!!