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Kaya Kawaii

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Well, you probally never heard of me. I signed up a few months back, but ive never really had the time to come on. But thats not what this posts about... uh..
Well, me and my bestfriend ive known for 8 years, havent been talking for a long time. I try to IM her, call her, etc. She dosnt anwser. Im pretty sure shes over me and i dont know if maybe shes been unable to talk, or maybe she really is done with me. (Not to dramatize or anything,) But it gets really hard to think about the subject without crying. And, pretty much everything remind me of her, since we have so many memories. And, honestly, i hate the friends i have right now. My bestfriend that i havent talked to goes to anouther school, so that adds to it, and i never really see her. I dont have the friends i really want, and she was like the only real friend i had. Um, so, is it okay if any of you give me any advice of some sort?
Sorry..
 
Friends come and go.
They're not always going to be there.
Just be lucky you have friends, there are lots of people that don't.
Most of my friends that I have in real life aren't that great, except one that I'm close too but we're not all that crazy together, or fun. However you want to call it.
Then, I have friends here that are pretty similar to me and I love 'em ^-^
You can always make friends on the internet.
I mean, they are real people too. Nothing wrong with that. :3
 
Tom said:
Ya'll get into a fight or something?

It's just best to move on and forget. Let live and let die.
You brought this upon yourself.
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Yeah i'd have to agree you should open up to her and tell her how you feel, the response maybe good maybe painful but its more painful wondering.
 
Kaya Kawaii said:
Tom said:
Ya'll get into a fight or something?

It's just best to move on and forget. Let live and let die.
No, we didnt get in a fight, she just stopped talking to me
Ah. She might have moved on then. You should try and do the same.

@Mega: Epic.
 
Oh I know that sucks...It has happened to me before! I am grateful that I have many good friends that I can trust thoug...but I have some friends that just annoy me and drive me INSANE!!!!!!!! So friends come and go....sometimes you have to move on...thats just how it works! Im sure your friend will talk to you eventually though whether it takes 2 weeks or 2 years...Hope everything gets better for you! I know its hard expecially if your friend was a really close one to you!
 
Same happened with my friend.
I finally went to his house one last time.
3 hours later, I'm like, well, nice knowin' ya.
Then I walk out, wait in his house for my bro to pick me up, and leave.
I handled this more maturely just by saying bye.
But I will find a way to torture him for this.
Acutally, I already did.
 
What was the last thing that happened between the both of you that may cause her to not wanna respond to your IMs, calls, e-mails... etc?


EDIT: There must be an obvious rift between you two that caused her to act this way. True best friends don't just get over each other unless there was no foundation in the friendship in the first place.
 
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