Idk how when I was criticizing racist behavior the entire post but maybe I just dont see it myself didjdnixjsMy apologies; you seemed kinda prejudice before.
Although, keep in mind that goes both ways. People toss around "cultural appropriation" a lot these days. The mere fact that a white girl has box braids already draws the ire of black girls because "that's not a white hairstyle." Despite that, black girls straighten their hair, which isn't possible for them naturally.
My point is, white or black, people demean you for your look.
I.. completely agree with this. It's actually infuriating how this happens so regularly, honestly.Although your last point is true it's also more tilted to people who have darker skin tone than light skin tones. (In which people who have darker skin tones are criticized more.) I know plenty of people who arent mad at the hair styles per se but more so that its unacceptable for THEM to wear it but a white person can without discrimination ykno?
Although, keep in mind that goes both ways. People toss around "cultural appropriation" a lot these days. The mere fact that a white girl has box braids already draws the ire of black girls because "that's not a white hairstyle." Despite that, black girls straighten their hair, which isn't possible for them naturally.
Are all your viewers your friends, or can anyone watch your streams/vids? I wouldnt do that if strangers had access to your vids. Some people might get it wrong and start arguments. I would just do it during my private play time or with friends to avoid the trouble. Or just make it very clear this is an oc and not you.Same. I don't really have anonymity because my circle of friends are fellow streamers/viewers and hence they know what I look like from my streams. So that adds to me feeling like a fraud if they ever saw me change my skin colour.
So I'm Asian but not super light skinned so I usually play with a medium light skin tone in ACNH (first colour on the bottom row). However, sometimes, I really want a darker character cuz I think some outfits would be very pretty on a darker skin tone. However, I find it weird or fake for me to change my skin colour to something it isn't in real life. But I sometimes see people with characters who are darker and I keep thinking how pretty and adorable they look and I get kinda sad that I can't make my character look like that because it's not me.
Do you guys play as a character with your own skin tone and do you ever change your skin tone in the game? Do you think it's okay for someone to use a different skin tone other than their real one? It's just been a thing that I've been thinking about lately and would like to hear what other's have to say about it. I don't know if this is going to be a controversial topic, but please be respectful and kind to each other when discussing this!
As a Half Filipina/ Black woman I also use the medium-ish skin tone. I don't think that there's anything wrong with using a darker skin tone if you want to do so. It's just a game/fantasy which is why I like to make my characters decked out in clothes and different hair colors in games because it's harder to do that in real life because of certain restrictions in life.TBH, I don't associate my self-insert characters as a carbon copy of me IRL, Hime (my island rep) is pale. (I'm a southeast asian in a tropical island so I'm naturally more tanned.)
I don't get the gatekeeping of skin tones, it's there, available to choose for whoever wants to. As long as you don't do caricatures or racist stuff, be free who you want to be, your OC, your other self, or just be different. You're free to be whoever you want as long as you're respectful.
In a world where we never get to choose whoever we are or whatever you look, go crazy in Animal Crossing. It's one of the only place where freedom of how you look happens. (MMOs and other customized games included)
I definitely can see where you're coming from Brookie. Im half filipina/black and more often than not when people find out they consider me black only which is actually sad. I find it very endearing from those who are non-brown that like darker skin colors.As a black woman, I do agree it KIND OF rubs me the wrong way. It's not really fair that you an just turn it on and off. Though it is also refreshing to see someone who appreciates and loves the essence of darker/tan skin tone. Many non-brown people would be so against being that in game or even find it kind of gross. I'm 50/50 with this.
I'm very much aware. And while you're not wrong; that wasn't what I was talking about. You cannot deny the hypocrisy, nor can you excuse the inane claims that white people (or any other race) using "their" hairstyles is disrespectful, inexcusable, unacceptable cultural appropriation. I wasn't saying it's the same. I was essentially saying that circumstance shouldn't excuse people for misconduct.White women aren't penalized for wearing their hair natural the way black women are. Natural and curly styles are considered unprofessional by many people. There is a long history of racism and bigotry that leads to why black women might choose to straighten their hair. White women wearing box braids isn't at all the same as black women straightening their hair.
As a black woman, I do agree it KIND OF rubs me the wrong way. It's not really fair that you an just turn it on and off. Though it is also refreshing to see someone who appreciates and loves the essence of darker/tan skin tone. Many non-brown people would be so against being that in game or even find it kind of gross. I'm 50/50 with this.
Are all your viewers your friends, or can anyone watch your streams/vids? I wouldnt do that if strangers had access to your vids. Some people might get it wrong and start arguments. I would just do it during my private play time or with friends to avoid the trouble. Or just make it very clear this is an oc and not you.
I'm very much aware. And while you're not wrong; that wasn't what I was talking about. You cannot deny the hypocrisy, nor can you excuse the inane claims that white people (or any other race) using "their" hairstyles is disrespectful, inexcusable, unacceptable cultural appropriation. I wasn't saying it's the same. I was essentially saying that circumstance shouldn't excuse people for misconduct.
I feel I should inform you that the meaning of "hypocritical" doesn't change conveniently just because of a history of oppression. A history of oppression doesn't give people free license to say and act however they wish without any backlash or criticism. Look at how blacks destroyed H&M a year ago because of the black child in a monkey shirt. H&M should've been mindful of the implications of that decision, but did blacks have to react the way they did? No, yet many people claimed they were justified in their response. This is a drop in the bucket of unnacceptable behavior that people think is justifiable because of a history of oppression.If I understood that right, I don't agree that it's hypocritical, because of the history of oppression associated with those power dynamics (I'm speaking to the US right now as it's the context I'm familiar with). I don't see a member of a minority culture complaining of the majority culture appropriating the minority culture as misconduct. I think the context does change things entirely.
I've literally met Sooo many racist/prejudice black people that absolutely despise white people. Especially on Twitter/Facebook/Instagram its really toxic honestly. My own black father is racist himself he told me specifically that if I ever get married one day to a white guy that he would disown me and not go to my wedding. But people think that they cant be racist/prejudiced because of a history of oppression.OK, I am trying to understand right now. Is what you are saying that you think it's hypocritical for minorities to adapt to the majority's aesthetic, while saying that the majority shouldn't use the minority's aesthetic? IE, black women who straighten their hair shouldn't say white women shouldn't wear braids?
If I understood that right, I don't agree that it's hypocritical, because of the history of oppression associated with those power dynamics (I'm speaking to the US right now as it's the context I'm familiar with). I don't see a member of a minority culture complaining of the majority culture appropriating the minority culture as misconduct. I think the context does change things entirely.
But I sometimes see people with characters who are darker and I keep thinking how pretty and adorable they look and I get kinda sad that I can't make my character look like that because it's not me.