as a white European, I'd like to point out that skin color matters as much here as it does in the US. we just don't admit that it does. we like to believe that colorism is a US-only phenomenon, but it's really, really not. the only difference between white racism in the US and in Europe is that at least in the US there's a chance that people will rightfully call it out. and white people are increasingly co-opting black fashion and black aesthetics in Europe, so that's definitely not a US-only problem either. when it comes to the issue of white people appropriating blackness in Europe, I'd listen to a black American before a white European any time.
sorry if this is veering too much into irl politics, I just think that this idea that racism is relative and doesn't manifest in Europe in the same way as it does in the US is very, very dangerous. Europe has a problem with calling out racism as it is, we don't need to encourage white Europeans to think that they shouldn't think critically about how they see race.
I don’t think you’re being too political at all, but I don’t want to get into a political discussion here myself.
Too be clear though, my point was never about encouraging Europeans—or anybody else—to not think critically about race. I also didn’t say that racism was relative. What I meant was that the awareness of its effects is different from country to country, and that people will therefore have different reactions to the OPs question.