But my bible says that men lying with other men is an abomination. I mean any 2000 year old book writted by random, uneducated desert nomads HAS to be true, right?
Oh don't make me laugh. The bible does not state being gay is a sin, although it does say that hating gay people IS a sin. You're the one at wrong here, and it makes me sad that you've actually been brought up to believe being gay is wrong.
It's the fact that he's been brought up to believe that anything that defies the bible in any way that's wrong. Don't go overboard with religion, it's not everything.
This reminds me of a quote from the book, "To Kill A Mockingbird":
"the Bible in the hands of one man is worse than a whiskey bottle in the hands of your own father"
You are the meaning of this quote, and that is not a good thing.
Listen up, being gay, bi or whatever YOU want to be does not need any validation from ANYONE else, it is one person's life you should have NO say in it, you hear me? It's their life, if they want to be gay, bi or whatever it is their life, you do NOT and should NOT have any say it in. Get it, got it, GOOD. Now, go away, you sicken me.
The bible says a man should not lie with a man like a man and a woman but it doesn't say being gay is wrong. The catholic religion is that gay sex is wrong because it doesn't allow child birth. Gay sex ≠ being gay. But most gay people do have gay sex.