Basement Dwellers

[Chris]

I need a real answer can you be asexual and aromatic ?

Yes, of course. It's possible to be one or both of these things.

 

[Cosmic-chan]

Ah yes okay cool thinking about coming out as both but I don't know.

 

[Chris]

There is no need to rush into these things, especially if you're uncertain. It's okay to figure it out at your own pace and no one should hurry you to 'pick a side' (or the absence of a side, in this case) so to speak. It's no one's business but your own until you decide you want to put it out there.

 

[Cosmic-chan]

Thank you Vris ! You're always helpful !

 

[ReeBear]

@Milky star
Also there's nothing wrong with identifying one way for a bit and changing your preferred terms later ~ One of my oldest friends identified as ace for many years and it helped her navigate her own identity, even though now she's in a long term relationship she identifies as demi instead
Similarly I used to use specific labels more but now use 'queer' as a catch all term for my particular romantic/sexual identity ~
It's a really personal decision and journey and there's no wrong way to go about it

 

[Cosmic-chan]

All I'mma say is I love the fireworks collectible ! I've been wanting it so badly and a generous tbt member gave me tbt to buy it aaa

 

[Ananas Dragon]

still not sure what my sexuality is, but I'll get there,,,,

eventually

 

[Chris]

You'll all get there! It's not something you'll just figure out the answer to overnight. I've known I wasn't straight since the early-to-mid 2000s and still have moments where I lack certainty.

Hi can we fast forward to spring please?

 

[frogslime]

You'll all get there! It's not something you'll just figure out the answer to overnight. I've known I wasn't straight since the early-to-mid 2000s and still have moments where I lack certainty.

Hi can we fast forward to spring please?
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whoa, that looks cold. Hope you're managing to stay warm lol

 

[Chris]

whoa, that looks cold. Hope you're managing to stay warm lol

I'm freezing. The water bowls I leave out for animals (I live by the woods and have a camera outside my house - foxes, hedgehogs, squirrels, etc all come visit overnight) were completely solid this morning. ❄

 

[tessa grace]

I have school again tomorrow after winter break :C
Plus, my school is going back to 5 whole days a week which means that I'm going to be so miserable argh I hate school.

 

[Cosmic-chan]

I'm dreading the end of my winter break.

 

[tessa grace]

I'm dreading the end of my winter break.

Seriously. I've been watching different shows to pass the time and all I can think is "I don't get to do this when I have school again"

 

[Cosmic-chan]

Exactly how I feel. College is ass tbh. Online college is ass. It feels like I'm mindlessly just doing work for almost no reason and not really learning anything.

 

[ReeBear]

Period cramps w h y

 

[Cosmic-chan]

Ohno

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Im dreading when my magical fireworks will disappear.

 

[tessa grace]

Period cramps w h y

Wow I can relate right now tbh
I'm sitting in choir and I want to die

 

[ReeBear]

Wow I can relate right now tbh
I'm sitting in choir and I want to die

Gonna start on the pile of pain drugs after I've had food, hoping it helps Hope you feel alright soon

 

[Cosmic-chan]

Man I like how my shift at work is from 9sm-2pm but I'm still here at 2:30 because my manager isn't back yet :'))

 

[tessa grace]

Gonna start on the pile of pain drugs after I've had food, hoping it helps Hope you feel alright soon

you too c: i had gym today and it was hell besides that im doing good now