Saw something on facebook haha:
the dad friend, wants to take care of their friends but is too emotionally distant and clumsy to do so
or something along those lines
I'm the one taking care of almost everyone I know (besides my family, who do such a good job taking care of me). I'm kind of the "mom friend" among my roommates who makes sure everyone's eaten and does the dishes and laundry and does their homework. I'm also the one a lot of people go to for advice, which kind of sucks when I really need help with something because it feels like I'm the only one people go to when they're having issues. The only exception is my friend J, who is sososo kind to me and comes to me for help when he needs it, but cares about me so much I can hardly stand how much help he's given me over the years.