Annoyingly vague Facebook statuses

[KaydeeKrunk]

I have a friend who doesn't want to hang out with me much because I have a boyfriend now and she has a kid, so it kind of makes it hard to find times to hang. One time she asked me to go to the mall with her cause she didn't want to go alone and I told her that it was the only day off I had with my boyfriend and so she's all like "Oh that's fine, we should hang out another time though." and then not even ten minutes later she makes a post like "When you can never hang out with your friends because all they want to do is hang out with their boyfriends." or something along those lines. And so I literally wrote on it, "Well yeah, when it's the only day you have off together." and she's all "Oh no, this isn't about you, it's about my other friend..." Like dude, I know it's about me, just talk to me about it if it's bothering you, don't make posts about me that you'll deny. And most of the time after I call her out on it she'll delete it... she probably re-posts it but to everyone but me... I feel like it's always just a try for attention and it really bothers me, it's always the people who start drama.

 

[Celestefey]

I have a friend who doesn't want to hang out with me much because I have a boyfriend now and she has a kid, so it kind of makes it hard to find times to hang. One time she asked me to go to the mall with her cause she didn't want to go alone and I told her that it was the only day off I had with my boyfriend and so she's all like "Oh that's fine, we should hang out another time though." and then not even ten minutes later she makes a post like "When you can never hang out with your friends because all they want to do is hang out with their boyfriends." or something along those lines. And so I literally wrote on it, "Well yeah, when it's the only day you have off together." and she's all "Oh no, this isn't about you, it's about my other friend..." Like dude, I know it's about me, just talk to me about it if it's bothering you, don't make posts about me that you'll deny. And most of the time after I call her out on it she'll delete it... she probably re-posts it but to everyone but me... I feel like it's always just a try for attention and it really bothers me, it's always the people who start drama.

Oh yeah, something like that happened to me once before too. It's so ****ty. It's like they try to guilt trip you and make you feel bad about something even though it wasn't your fault :\ In my case, I was having a party for my 13th birthday and I was going to invite a few friends over to my house. I wanted to invite one of my friends but her sister was always really rude and nasty to me so I didn't want to invite her. I asked my friend and she said okay, at the time her sister was hanging about with other people because I said to her I was upset by the way she treated me so I guess I 'kicked her out' of the group. Anyway, few weeks later, her sister feels as though she can 'join' the group again and continues to be rude and nasty to me. I asked my friend if she could still come to the party as my parents needed to know how many people were coming, and then she said "I can't come anymore, my stepsister is having her wedding on that Satuday". Well it was too late by then because my parents had already made bookings for a place we were going to and I couldn't rearrange. Eventually the weekend of the party came around and I had a really great time with my friends. I didn't really post anything up on social media and it was only in the evening when my mum called me over to the computer that she saw my friend had posted something up on Facebook about me. She said "When your best friend has a party and invites all of her friends but excludes you :" which was... Stupid because I already invited her and she said no she had a wedding to go to (which I knew was a lie but I wasn't going to say to her 'you're lying', it was her loss anyway). Loads of people had liked her status which annoyed me even more because it made me feel bad about what I had done even though I wasn't in the wrong and it was more childish of her to post a stupid status up to Facebook about it. I replied to her and said "That's not true, I invited you to my party but you said you were going to a wedding, and by then I couldn't rearrange anything". She deleted her status afterwards.