I mean this is the most respectful way possible, but you need to chill. Seriously, you complain about all these things but what you need to do is either
a) Report them and move on without a huge fuss
or b) ignore them and let someone else take care of them
I know it may seem like people don't like you, but they probably only do because you can be a bit overwhelming. I've seen you be pretty rude yourself, but I've also see you be very kind.
Keep in mind everyone does things in different ways, especially in AC. You do you, let other people do what they do.