Why is everyone always so mean to me?

[Pearls]

Nearly everyone in my call always makes fun of my for stupid reasons. They always say 'Do you want to play Harry Potter/Animal Crossing?' or 'Pikachu I choose you!' and stuff in sarcastic voices and its just getting annoying now. They also ask me when the last time I had a shower was or do I know what shampoo is because my hair's kinda greasy. They threw slush and milk at me today and so I threw milk at them.

 

[Brackets]

Ugh, they're just rude and annoying people with nothing better to do. Rise above it, if they make fun of you for stupid reasons then they're not worth it. I've had similar problems, and spent years trying to fit into a group that just weren't nice to me - in the end you will find nicer people who like you for who you are

 

[hemming1996]

Jerks. Just try and stay away from them, fighting back will only make it worse anyways.

 

[Hot]

In your call? Anyways, I don't think I have to call them jerks or anything, as the others who posted before me did, but yeah. Just ignore them or be sarcastic back. That's what I do, anyways.

 

[Gusmanak]

Whenever I deal with idiots like that, I make fun of myself with them, it kind've rears them off the r****d train and gets them to shutup

 

[debinoresu]

ok heres what you do

you approach them when their back is facing you, then position your hand where you estimate their heart is. you then draw your arm back and place your hand in a pose you can easily grab something with, and finally, you thrust your arm forward with all your might and be SURE to do a twisting motion on impact. that detail is very important. if you did everything right, their heart should now be inside your hand and outside their body. calmly pull their heart out, let the blood drip into slush, then throw the slush into their chest cavity. maybe top it off with a little milk.

thats how you deal with bullies, kids

 

[Gusmanak]

debin's post reminded me of a special punch, hold you hand out fingers together in the position as if you were gonna shake someones hand, put that into the person back and make a fist quickly while applying some force, good way to not get caught

 

[Waluigi]

Never fight back. Trust me, you will end up in a lot more trouble.

Ignoring works.

 

[Kildor]

ok heres what you do

you approach them when their back is facing you, then position your hand where you estimate their heart is. you then draw your arm back and place your hand in a pose you can easily grab something with, and finally, you thrust your arm forward with all your might and be SURE to do a twisting motion on impact. that detail is very important. if you did everything right, their heart should now be inside your hand and outside their body. calmly pull their heart out, let the blood drip into slush, then throw the slush into their chest cavity. maybe top it off with a little milk.

thats how you deal with bullies, kids

This would be perfect.... if you are looking for a Mortal Combat finishing move, that is.
I believe I don't know the answer to your question of why are people being mean to you. Best thing to do is ignore. Show that you don't give a sh** to what they do to you. They will quiet down. It's likd dealing with trolls outside the internet.

 

[RhinoK]

You throwing milk doesnt help

 

[Capella]

Be the better person don't let them bring you down and such.
You know typical song lyrics
But seriously just remember it will end soon

 

[Stevey Queen]

How does fighting back not help?

Sitting there getting your feelings hurt and lowering your self-esteem and confidence isn't helping her. Next time shove the milk up their asses!

 

[Sataric]

This is terrible advice but I will forward it anyways: Ignore the taunts, the insults, and the mean comments. However, if they lay a hand on you, unleash all that rage and fury you have built up and counter attack with extreme force. Don't hold back. They have you outnumbered but rarely do people dare approach a person while they are in such a volatile state. So long as you inflict some serious pain, preferably to the leader of the group, it doesn't even matter if you lose the fight - They will not touch you again due to fear of you losing your cool. The mean comments may continue, but fewer will be said to your face. Note that this idea is purely a last resort. Best of luck!

 

[KermitTea]

Because some people in this world are jerks.

But seriously, sorry to hear that : ( just ignore them, they're probably doing it to see how you react to it.

 

[VioletPrincess]

Ah I am sorry to hear that. Just remember that you have some support here and of course your villagers and town to make you smile. I know its hard. There was a lot of jerks in my school too.

 

[SockHead]

this is bad advice but if you retaliate, something like punching someone in their face, they will never **** with you again.

 

[Diamondarcadia]

After my mom passed away in high school people who didn't like me would use her death whilst insulting me "you ugly b***, you mom is probably happy she's dead so she doesn't have to see your ugly face anymore." Well let me just say, I am 4'11 and I fought every single one of those people, breaking ones nose and giving another one a concussion. Sure I got my ass kicked a few times too but I don't regret ever fighting back and letting those kids know they couldn't talk about me or my mother that way. If you need to fight back, then go ahead. If there's an alternative that doesn't involve violence then consider that method as well. It's a dark road either way. Good luck, I am sorry to hear that's happening to you.

 

[420blazeityoloswag4jesus]

never fight back, they like it when they see they've won by making you angry. be sarcastic with them and youll piss their pants off.

 

[TaliZorah]

I never got bullied in school, but my friends got bullied for a while by a group of boys.
They'd call them mean names, throw small rocks at them, just spiteful and rude beyond compare.

I stood up for them and every time I did, they backed down because they knew I'd eventually go off on them.
A few months later, three of them were physically harassing my friends; pulling their hair, pushing them, etc.
So I came along and told them to gtfo. One made the mistake of pulling my waist-long hair.
Yeah, didn't end pretty for them. One ended up with a broken nose.

In conclusion, they never bothered us again. They got in trouble, we didn't.
My best advice to you is ignore them. YES I KNOW YOU HEAR THAT WAY TOO MUCH AND IT "DOESN'T WORK."
But rest assured, eventually they will get bored of it. Throwing things back at them only makes it worse.
HOWEVER, if they lay a single finger on you, take all your anger and lash at them.
I promise you, they wont **** with you again.

What one of my friends use to do was look at the people bullying her and smirk, then laugh and shake her head.
She'd look back down and start working on something. That usually shut whoever was bullying her up.
If you show no interest in their taunts, they will stop. Ignoring; sarcastically laughing the words away will help greatly.

 

[Chiarasu]

If you can, use humour. Otherwise, pay no interest in them. Just do something you like to distract you from thinking about them. For me, I got bullied at primary/high school, and one of my methods was writing. I wrote some pretty nasty stuff, exaggerations and what not and sometimes even made up stories and drew pictures to go with it. I did get in trouble for doing that because one of the b****** found out and dobbed me in, but I did get a good laugh out of it afterwards because I had some friends to share it with. You can talk to your friend if they are bothering you.