This seems to be the most publicly hated genre of music, not to disagree with musical opinions but it's kind've weird how people treat it.
I mean, I dislike heavy metal, but I don't openly dispise it, though if someone dislikes country they flat-out complain/say they hate it.
I read something about people being drawn to songs with cussing and such in them so that may be a factor.
Maybe it's because the songs tell a story, and are actually based around song-writing?
Idk.
Well for a start, I don't see heavy metal as a great comparison. That's generally one of the genres of music people typically trash talk pretty openly. Again, if somebody dislikes it they flat out complain about it and express their disgust.
Talking about 'cussing' is a pretty general thing to say as well. That assumes that literally every other song outside of country music 'cusses'. From your already given example of something you dislike, I'll assume you were talking about heavy metal as one of these which from my experience, they actually tend to have very little cursing in their songs (most bands I know don't swear in their songs at all).
It's kind of like me saying that people like country because "country fans are rednecks and rednecks are drawn to music that talks about pickup trucks and incest".
A lot of music also tells a story. A lot of styles are also focused around song-writing (actually, they generally all are). Neither of these things are exclusive to country music and whether or not it does it better than any other type of music is completely subjective, not fact.
I'm not expecting you to be an expert in other musical styles you have no interest in but at least try to not be as biased against everything else, especially when a lot of it is either untrue or subjective.
I don't hate country, though I don't like it either. It's a genre that really doesn't do anything for me. I won't really complain about it but I'm never going to willingly put a country song on myself.
Most of it typically sounds very much the same. There's just so little variation in general and it tends to be a genre of music that doesn't really 'branch out' and incorporate many other styles either, which really doesn't help it in terms of being 'samey'.
A lot of it also has the singing with a thick southern accent. As far as I'm aware and have been taught, you shouldn't really have such a noticeable accent when you're singing and the Southern accent is definitely being exaggerated, which really grinds my gears.
I mean, the Beatles had thick Liverpool accents when they talked but not really when they sang. Ozzy Osborne is almost impossible to understand when he talks but is clear as day when he sings. Tom Jones (used to) have a thick Welsh accent, which is non existent in his singing. Foreign singers with thick foreign accents and sometimes limited English lose their accents entirely when they sing...So why does the Southern accent remain so prominently?
The lyrical content is generally the same as well. Like anything else, there's obviously songs that do change the content but it's definitely one of the worst genres for repeating the same thing over and over.
"Lou-Anne, why ya'll no love me no more?"
"Ya'll have a lover...'N his name is Jesus"
"I love my pickup truck (in ways people say I shouldn't)"
"'MURICA!"