Read the blog. (Note: It's VERY long.)DirtyD said:Have you asked her?
My gf never died.... but sometimes teenagers do feel true love and true heartbreak early.DirtyD said:You have had a girlfriend die? That is true heartbreak. You will all understand when you are out of highschool and college. When you are I want you to remember old DirtyD lol
I got my girlfriend nothing more than a card and a dozen roses for V-day. But thats because she just recently got a 900 dollar engagement ring lol
I have woman emotions when it comes to love.DirtyD said:Any guy has a shot with any girl. It is all about talking to the opposite sex. You have to make her feel special. Make her feel like no one else has before. Some girls, expect you to hit on them. Those type of girls you want to just talk to, like a real person. Not like a piece of meat. Show no interest in getting together, offer yourself. Friendship, and if you play your cards right, you could be with her before you know it. Each woman is different, but all of them want the same basic things. To feel special, loved, and unique. You give that to a woman, and you can have any woman you want.
You don't understand... She'll NEVER go out with me...DirtyD said:Any guy has a shot with any girl. It is all about talking to the opposite sex. You have to make her feel special. Make her feel like no one else has before. Some girls, expect you to hit on them. Those type of girls you want to just talk to, like a real person. Not like a piece of meat. Show no interest in getting together, offer yourself. Friendship, and if you play your cards right, you could be with her before you know it. Each woman is different, but all of them want the same basic things. To feel special, loved, and unique. You give that to a woman, and you can have any woman you want.
I would die for my girlfriend, and would do anything for her except cheat on her and dump her, just the thought of her helps me get through the day.DirtyD said:Most teenagers think they do. Until they get older and realize how trivial things are when you are a teenager. The same happened to me... Thought my life was over after my girl left me when I was in Highschool. But it wasn't. I grew up a little bit and it just went from there.
I read thru as much of the blog as I could get thru. You cant have a friend do it for you. You have to be a man and do it yourself. And not in an email message. Like i said, any man can win any woman's heart. You just have to learn how to talk to women. Many girls are used to guys throwing mushy stuff their way, and then turning out to being buttholes. Being mushy wont do it.
And yes she would, if you did/said the right thing... She would go out with you. You have to go about it a different way
No, I've tried everything. If you would have read the whole blog, you would know. Actually, I kept trying even after I stopped updating the blog. She just won't go out with me. She sees me as a close friend, and that's it.DirtyD said:Most teenagers think they do. Until they get older and realize how trivial things are when you are a teenager. The same happened to me... Thought my life was over after my girl left me when I was in Highschool. But it wasn't. I grew up a little bit and it just went from there.
I read thru as much of the blog as I could get thru. You cant have a friend do it for you. You have to be a man and do it yourself. And not in an email message. Like i said, any man can win any woman's heart. You just have to learn how to talk to women. Many girls are used to guys throwing mushy stuff their way, and then turning out to being buttholes. Being mushy wont do it.
And yes she would, if you did/said the right thing... She would go out with you. You have to go about it a different way
Listen, not all girls are like that. This one...she's made her mind up.DirtyD said:And I would do the same for my fiancee. But I do know that if we were to ever break up, my life would continue. It would suck. Big time... But life carries on.
Tye... I'm speaking from true experience.... I had this girl, that I was crushing on for awhile. I still remember her... 6'1'', long blonde hair, perfect...... assets, long skinny legs, perfect soft skin, tight little caboose... omg She was amazing.... And I thought I never had a chance. She shot me down several times as well... But instead of going that route, i decided to be her friend, and show I wasnt doing it just to get with her. We ended up dating for quite some time... and we eventually went our seperate ways.
The point is, that it is possible. Another way I can put it, every woman has a different lock, but the same basic combination. You just need the right key in order to open that lock.
Being a close friend, you already have your foot in the door. Eventually that door will open, you cant lose faith in it, and you cant give up. Just dont be pushy about it. It will happen
Futurama last nite is a good example of this. Last nite was the episode with the Harlem Globetrotters, where Fry is trying to win over Leela, and no matter WHAT he does, he cant win her heart. At the end you find out that he moved the stars themselves, to write her a love note in the sky. Same basic concept. You have to do something so extraordinary that she cant help it. That her heart will be won over. You just havent found the right key yet is all.
You act as if girls are all the same...DirtyD said:When you are older you will realize that they are. They all want the same basic things. You just havent said or done the right thing yet. I've been with so many women in my day, that it is all experience talking. You could be the nerdiest guy in the world, and still would have a shot with a super model. If you give up, then yes, you will never have a chance.
That's not true.DirtyD said:I just said they werent the same... But the same basic concept applies to each.
All girls don't want the same thing.DirtyD said:Yes it is. When you all get older you will realize it to be true. Yes the way you do it isnt going to be IDENTICAL everytime, because no person is identical to anyone else inside. But the same concept is the same. I have been with over 50 women in my day, not too many. But enough to know.