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Fret no cinnamon bun, you'll do amazing! Worst case scenario is you'll fail it, but you know what? That's okay since as long as you went in there and gave it 1000% of an effort, then that's all that matters. Don't worry about disappointing nobody since the only person you should worry bout lettin
down is yourself.

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But yeah tbh I feel the reason why it ain't working is because i'm a salty sardine naturally and its just going through me like a filter; there's too much toxins for it to remove.

Any joke where the punchline is basically just to make fun of a marginalized group of people, or any joke that makes fun of really horrendous experiences that a lot of people have experienced and can easily give people flashbacks.

I'm not against offensive humour where the joke is that there is a lot of swearing or adult themes are in the joke, and I think there can be a time and a place for humour about dark subject matter as long as the jokes are meant to frame the dark subjects as bad and not good and aren't presented in a way that has an extremely high chance of giving flashbacks to many audience members because it's a common experience (I.E., rape is extremely common and so joking about it has a high chance of giving flashbacks to an audience member), although preferably if the comedian has actually experienced the dark subject matter first hand (for example, I sometimes joke about things related to severe mental illness, which can sometimes make the jokes a little dark, but I've experienced severe mental illness first hand, so it's coming from a place of observing real life mental illness experiences, and not just making fun of mentally ill people from a place of looking down on them).

I think where I draw the line is humour where 1. Certain (usually marginalized) people are excluded from the joke in order for other people to find it funny (like a homophobic joke that is funny to a straight audience but makes gay people feel excluded), or 2. The joke is more likely to hurt people than to make them laugh (like rape jokes, or bigoted jokes that make bigots feel more justified in hating the groups that they hurt)
 

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Mint just moved into my main town while I was cycling out villagers >.>
 
I've met Punchy - punchy p p p p punchy! The sleepy cat! Punchy the lazy cat! Punchy my first ever villager to meet me in my 1st corrupted town!
 
This morning was pretty bad...

*Sore throat
*Stomach hurt
*Could barely speak
*Really tired
*Bad cough
*Stuffy nose

I've had these symptoms for the past week (it's worst in the morning) and I might be coming down with something. It seems like many people at my school are having similar issues. It is cold and flu season, after all. Hopefully this is nothing too major but I don't have a good feeling about this...

Luckily most of these problems were resolved in the afternoon, now I just have a stuffy nose, a mildly bad cough, and I'm kinda tired and also hungry.

spawns a scorpion > walks into it
spawns another > 1 mm away from catching it
>> catches random tarantula


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You mean the n-word episode? Well it was from another time and that character is supposed to be a slur lol.

And to explain further I mean that episode wasn't really targeting people, and I love Fawlty Towers. What I meant was I wouldn't like stand on the street and joke about poc traits and such stuff. You need to calm bro And if I was at like, a meeting for poc persons or discussed situations for those I wouldn't really show them that episode for example. For that matter I think it's wrong to censor shows, explain the context and time to people watching instead.

Talking about TV shows, if there is one thing I can't stand if they are too PC or try to be intelligent humour that appeal to a too targeted, "modern" audience.

So yeah context and people are important, but yeah I don't think most of you would be like.. "lol rape is awesome" or those dumb joke comments, that's what I was trying to come down to. As for FT, that series is old and the Major is supposed to not be modern or cool at all, so yeah (for one example). If it's a comedy series and it can be handled well, then it's another thing.

I know this might not be what it means here, but...

When my father passed away around this time last year and we had a funeral, my younger sister tried a joke about HIM, him, our father in the coffin in front of us right that moment (!!!), and, and, this was terrible, but it tossed me into the big wave of giggling...!!! That was sort of crossing the line..
I know why she tried that. She tried the joke because I was bawling my eyes out, unable to stop crying like craze that was almost starting to make spasm.

Whenever I remember this joke, it makes me both cry and smile. That was obviously crossing-a-line type of joke, I guess.
 
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it depends on who is telling the joke sometimes. i can handle a joke about women when its another woman telling it, but when its a man, 99% of the time he's a nasty bigot and i want nothing to do with that. like, sure, the woman cam be an ass as well, but its just... different, it feels more degrading coming from someone who has systematically opressed the object of the joke for centuries if you feel me lol
one type of jokes ill never accept are rape jokes. joke about everything else and ill just make a face or ignore it, but i get so mad when people joke about rape, i literally went as far as actuaully punching someone for one. oops
generally any jokes that perpetuate hate and discrimination suck
also lgbt jokes tend to get to me and actually hurt since it's more personal

But what trauma? You're speaking as if most people have been to Auschwitz and back... and not as tourists. Being treated with less respect than others is not a traumatic experience.
It can be though? Being abused (including just verbally), discriminated against, or bullied can absolutely traumatize someone. If you think soldiers are the only people who can suffer from trauma you are very, very wrong.

Neglect is also another thing that has a very high chance of causing trauma and that's far from fighting in a war.

I really wish you'd stop talking about mental health issues like this because it's clear you have done no research on the matter.

Well... no, I haven't done research on the matter. Have you? I guess in some severe cases, sure, people will be somewhat traumatised, but very rarely. It's more a case of "I want to avoid this person" rather than a more traumatic "I can't leave the house today because I might get my neck snapped".
oh yikes
can you at least open wikipedia or something before you write these kinds of things

obviously someone saying one offensive joke once doesn't have a high chance of traumatizing someone who was perfectly fine before hearing it but jokes arent harmless and it can be traumatizing or retraumatizing to hear Ultra Funny Jokes That WILL Trigger All The Overly Offended People LOL xD and even if it werent it's still not nice to hear "jokes" about how you should die or whatever.
like you cant just say that people shouldnt be affected by your actions or what you say.

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and just because youre ignorant doesnt mean everyone else is. i'm pretty sure gyro has mentioned dealing with traumatic things in this thread lol
 
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Hazel is my latest move-in, she came from aimeekitty's town. I like her. :blush:
Especially since I haven't had an uchi villager for months!
 
Well... no, I haven't done research on the matter. Have you? I guess in some severe cases, sure, people will be somewhat traumatised, but very rarely. It's more a case of "I want to avoid this person" rather than a more traumatic "I can't leave the house today because I might get my neck snapped".
Yes I have! I'm also someone who suffers from trauma with first hand experience, which not only gives me the upper hand here but has also given me even more incentive to do my research on both what causes trauma and what trauma can cause!

It's absolutely not a rare case at all and it is an asinine claim that victims of bullying/abuse don't fear for their lives at some point. It's especially apparent in LGBT people, people of colour, and people of certain religious groups. Speaking from a personal standpoint I've lived in fear of literally just looking at other men in case of being perceived as predatory and "lol gay men are pedos" "lol gay men are creeps who want to r*pe other men" jokes absolutely did not help. The sad part is this isn't even a crazy reaction considering the amount of violence gay men/boys face from straight men/boys every day. I still get scared being nice to men in person sometimes. That fear is trauma and is a pretty universal LGBT experience.

On another note for an even longer time (most of my school years to be exact) I told people I was white because 90% of the time I said otherwise I was asked if I had a bomb, if I was a terrorist, if I carry a knife, etc and once again, "brown people = terrorists" jokes are part of the blame for this.

Jokes don't have a very high chance to cause trauma themselves but they can absolutely both partake in it (depending on the severity, how often they're made at their target, things like that) and they can definitely trigger someone's already-there trauma.

To admit you haven't done your research and then make claims like this is absurd and I don't want to discuss this further with you, and I suggest you stop discussing it with anyone else as well. I also suggest you stop using "triggered" when you mean "offended, upset, angry, mad" because "triggered" is 100% a mental illness term that deals mostly with trauma which, as you said yourself, is a topic you don't have much experience in.

Wow I wish I was someone who didn't have "Haha gay guys are pedophiles" jokes and "Oh you're Indian? Are you gonna bomb the school?" jokes thrown at me my whole life so I could see people who were upset and react like this.
 
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can you at least open wikipedia or something before you write these kinds of things
I searched for the definition of "trauma" in case it had suddenly changed. So there's one teensy-weensy step. I don't care enough for this argument to pull up some facts and figures. Was only trying to contribute my opinions.

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You know some pretty weird people. If I were to decide if someone was likely to throw bombs about the place, I'd base it off appearance rather than what they claimed to be. Why do you live in such an unaccepting area? (okay, that's not a reasonable question to answer, but I can only really see homosexuals etc. being judged online, not in person)

I only used the term "triggered" once, and in the BuzzFeed sense - not sure why you're bringing that up now.

Anyway, seeing as the big paragraphs are being rolled out, I'm going to wave my little white flag.
 
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Lyman was the most recent in Parfait
though last week i picked up Zucker to be held in my mums town until i have room
and today I'm picking up Merengue to be held
 
Deirdre, in my Frozen town. I didn't have any uchi dreamies for that town, and only uchis were popping up when I was plot resetting.
 
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