I have friends of both genders, but I think I tend to get along and trust women more. With my male friends, it's usually a lot of joking around and silly stuff going on but with my female friends, i have talks with them that i don't with my male friends. Like sometimes we get into REALLY deep conversations that i wouldn't tell anyone else. I don't know, I've always been that way. I do not judge a person by their gender, personality is what matters.
Who do you get along with/trust more in general? Men or Women?
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Nuclear Bingo
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Definitely men. Mostly because I am one and I get along easier with them. Plus I haven't really had long lasting friendships with many women. friendships with men flow and happen so naturally for me. I'll be honest, I mostly interact with women for romantic or sexual purposes and beyond that, I don't talk to them much
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Trent the Paladin
Retired Staff
Women mostly. Pretty sure like 85%+ of my friends are women.
GardenGnostic
Witch Of Space
I feel more comfortable around men than women, although I seem to have more female friends now.
It seems like the females in my life value the friendship more and stick around for longer.
It seems like the females in my life value the friendship more and stick around for longer.
Salananstra
Senior Member
I've pretty much always had female friends, I enjoy their company so much more.
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Agree with this. Though I get along with males equally as well.
I get along better with men because they tend to me more laid back, less easily offended, they tend to have a better sense of humor and they aren't nearly as overly emotional as women are. I'm a girl and all, but being around women is draining to me because I feel like I have nothing in common with other girls.
Blythetastic
Dorkasaurus Rex
I don't trust people easily so I think it's fairly even. I feel like I trust men and women about the same.
Hopeless Opus
diluc is my king
definitely men because they are way less dramatic than girls. and girls always want to fight with me. the majority of my online friends are guys but irl my friends are basically 80% girls lol
lostineverfreeforest
Senior Member
Both, but if I had to choose I'd say men as I find it easier to relate to them...being I'm a dude too. 
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I get along better with women. I'm a lady in love with the ladies; I've lip-locked with some of the prettiest girls I know and I just get along a lot better with them than men. I guess it's just they understand me better.
I find it easier to talk with men. I feel part of that is due to it being more difficult to find girls with similar interests in person. Online it's a little different though where it's a lot easier to find people you have things in common with (e.g. TBT!). But even so most of my close friends on here just so happen to be guys too lol.
Honestly, men for both.
It's nothing against women/girls. I just have had many, many bad experiences with them in the past and prefer not to subject myself to that when I don't have to. All of the girls I grew up with were cold, mean, and untrustworthy. I had a few female friends, but I always had the same problem with them. With guys, it was so much more simple. I had a personality that got along way better with them than girls. I can sit down and have a fun conversation with a guy and relax/feel safe and unthreatened more commonly than I can with a woman, unless she's above the age of, maybe, 50.
I understand when people feel differently with bad experiences with men, though. I have never had one and all of the men I have met have been very nice, reasonable, and unthreatening individuals but people have different experiences, so I'm not saying my opinion is objective or should be uniform. I've had weird experiences with guys, too, but I've never not been able to defend myself and that usually scares a lot of the creeps off.
Being in the Navy means I'll be constantly surrounded by men -- and honestly I like that better than the other way around.
Most of the time, my sense of humor is usually found in more men than women anyway, and sense of humor is a BIG part of whether or not I get along with someone.
It's nothing against women/girls. I just have had many, many bad experiences with them in the past and prefer not to subject myself to that when I don't have to. All of the girls I grew up with were cold, mean, and untrustworthy. I had a few female friends, but I always had the same problem with them. With guys, it was so much more simple. I had a personality that got along way better with them than girls. I can sit down and have a fun conversation with a guy and relax/feel safe and unthreatened more commonly than I can with a woman, unless she's above the age of, maybe, 50.
I understand when people feel differently with bad experiences with men, though. I have never had one and all of the men I have met have been very nice, reasonable, and unthreatening individuals but people have different experiences, so I'm not saying my opinion is objective or should be uniform. I've had weird experiences with guys, too, but I've never not been able to defend myself and that usually scares a lot of the creeps off.
Being in the Navy means I'll be constantly surrounded by men -- and honestly I like that better than the other way around.
Most of the time, my sense of humor is usually found in more men than women anyway, and sense of humor is a BIG part of whether or not I get along with someone.
nintendoanna
Senior Member
okay im gonna edit my answer on this lol
i find it easier to talk w guys since i seem to have a lot more in common w them but i trust both equally guys talk abt ppl all the time from my experience i'd say even more than the girls at my school lmaoo
i find it easier to talk w guys since i seem to have a lot more in common w them but i trust both equally guys talk abt ppl all the time from my experience i'd say even more than the girls at my school lmaoo
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