What gender are you?

[Lazybones]

oh, I said it to mean that I have no preference of any specific gender
but it's my sexuality too so
um
sorry to look like an idiot and embarrass myself...?
I guess??

 

[inkling]

uh ya i guess sexuality is tied to usually associated with gender? hm...

 

[Boosh]

Female.

 

[Lazybones]

*flees*

 

[Loriii]

Male.

 

[Moddie]

oh, I said it to mean that I have no preference of any specific gender
but it's my sexuality too so
um
sorry to look like an idiot and embarrass myself...?
I guess??

I'm sorry I wasn't trying to be rude or anything. I was just confused as to why you brought it up. ^^;
But I do just want to say that I'm ace and when it comes to relationships and all, I personally have a feminine preference.

 

[Lazybones]

I'm sorry I wasn't trying to be rude or anything. I was just confused as to why you brought it up. ^^;
But I do just want to say that I'm ace and when it comes to relationships and all, I personally have a feminine preference.

oh okay, I thought that I like offended you or something.
Oops. o.o

 

[Moddie]

oh okay, I thought that I like offended you or something.
Oops. o.o

Nope not at all, I'm sorry that my response came across that way.

 

[Lazybones]

Nope not at all, I'm sorry that my response came across that way.

Well, it's alright! :] sorry that I got kind of snappy

 

[oswaldies]

Male, but gay if that matters~

 

[Leela]

I'm female biologically and by gender.

If we're talking about sexuality too, I identify as asexual (although I guess I'm still maturing, so that's not set in stone). I have a masculine preference romantically.

 

[Lazybones]

I'm female biologically and by gender.

If we're talking about sexuality too, I identify as asexual (although I guess I'm still maturing, so that's not set in stone). I have a masculine preference romantically.

Pretty much my exact same situation.

 

[inkling]

Male, but gay if that matters~

I think we just established no, it doesn't matter. but you obviously want to talk about it...?

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Pretty much my exact same situation.

deleted bc not necessary anymore and i dont want everything i say to be on the internet anymore and ya whatever

 

[fup10k]

I think we just established no, it doesn't matter. but you obviously want to talk about it...?

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when my bf and i watched that asexual documentary i was being a bit rude about it, and he got all defensive which kinda proved my point. Like basically, it resonated with bc he has a low sex drive. But I know for a fact he is not asexual, lol. And not bc he's had sex with me, just bc I just know. For example I have a higher sex drive and I could tell when he's not into and thats a huge turn off, but theres been times when he's into it!

Basically ya. Im feeling sharey. I go so long without wanting, also I'm on meds which lessened my sex drive and I feel is a gift from god! I don't know why people complain about that. It think its like, society, or something! ;P

You're can be asexual and have a sex drive.. You just have no sexual attraction. (meaning you do not find people sexy because you do not have a sexuality per-say)

There are plenty of sex repulsed and also sex neutral asexuals.theyre both asexual. If they experience sexual attraction, however, they may be demi or grey ace.

And to clarify, you can still enjoy sex as an asexual.

 

[inkling]

hmmm, i am very confused. Like i understand everything you're saying, but i am very confused on this subject. yet enlightened at the same time. Should I just google what an asexual is lol? I'm afraid I might become more confused and also fall down a hole I do not care to slip into.

 

[oath2order]

hmmm, i am very confused. Like i understand everything you're saying, but i am very confused on this subject. yet enlightened at the same time. Should I just google what an asexual is lol? I'm afraid I might become more confused and also fall down a hole I do not care to slip into.

The basic thing you should know is that asexuals do not feel sexual attraction, but can have a sex drive.

 

[fup10k]

http://asexualadvice.tumblr.com/
this has some FAQ's and some more broad questions that are answered pretty simply. I'm sure you can answer any question you have by looking there.

 

[inkling]

The basic thing you should know is that asexuals do not feel sexual attraction, but can have a sex drive.

oh thank you. but to clarify they don't feel attracted to a person physically? Yet they need to release their natural thingy that gets built up but its not a conscious thing?(like sex dreams)

 

[fup10k]

oh thank you. but to clarify they don't feel attracted to a person physically? Yet they need to release their natural thingy that gets built up but its not a conscious thing?(like sex dreams)

???? that depends on the person. Sexuality has nothing to do with your libido and libidos are different for everyone.
For instance, since we're getting personal:
I consider myself grey-ace for the fact that I do want to have sex with my partner for emotional reasons, and because sex is enjoyable to me.
However, I am repulsed by sex outside of emotional attachment (i.e. i do not masturbate, i do not like sexual advances from anyone other than my current boyfriend, i am repulsed by pornographic material) and I have never thought anyone was "hot" or "Sexy" or anything outside of basic aesthetic attraction.

Despite having sex i am still asexual because i lack sexual attraction. Think of it this way: You can be gay and not want to have much sex, because you are sexually attracted to the same gender only. You can be straight because you are sexually attracted to the opposite gender. You can be pan because you are attracted to all genders. You are asexual if you do NOT have sexual attraction to anyone.
In all of those, you can have as much or as little sex as you need or want to, but you are your sexuality based on your own sexual attraction and nothing more.

 

[inkling]

http://asexualadvice.tumblr.com/
this has some FAQ's and some more broad questions that are answered pretty simply. I'm sure you can answer any question you have by looking there.

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