What are you attracted to the most?

This probably sounds shallow, but I don't really have any form of attraction to people's personalities.

I'm not someone that goes purely for looks. Personality does matter, though I don't think I'd ever become attracted to someone purely based on their personality

As for looks, I find blonde girls with green eyes attractive. For guys it's a bit more complicated.
 
I didn't even know what my type was until I met my boyfriend and I realized he's totally my type hahaha. Short hair, not super tall or short (he's the same height as me, 5'7"), confident, full beard (it's short tho, he shaves like bi-monthly), muscular, funny, and a hard worker :)
 
I like a nice physique. Definitely muscular and toned, I'm not attracted to skinny or overweight guys. Good hygiene is important. A relatively well kept appearance (aka not looking homeless). Not necessarily a good sense of humor but someone who has a similar sense of humor to mine. Uhh someone who is a handyman. Intelligence is important, and confidence is super important, but also someone who is respectful cause I can't stand when guys are super cocky. A good looking face obviously

But basically I just described my boyfriend :lemon:

Oh yeah and I forgot TALL
 
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in all honesty, being pansexual and all.. i don't really have a type. none of my past relationships have been anything alike... not in personality or bedroom behavior or anything. i've dated men, women, agender folk, trans folk, people of different colors and sizes and shapes and the whole shabam. i like various types of personalities and qualities a person can hold.. so for me it's honestly just a.. "oh we bond? you're rad af? i like your face and your attitude and you compliment me well? lets try this out"
 
I definitely don't have a physical "type" I'm attracted to, but I appreciate intelligence and a good sense of humor. Talk nerdy to me and laugh with me and we're all good.
 
I definitely don't have a physical "type" I'm attracted to, but I appreciate intelligence and a good sense of humor. Talk nerdy to me and laugh with me and we're all good.

sounds like the basis for a pretty rad relationship right there man.
 
attracted to the most would be looks

i dont find personalities attractive but i do find some of them unattractive, or basically annoying and terrible
 
Girls who are affectionate and easy to talk to. I think it's really nice to just be able to talk about anything comfortably and to have someone who supports me and makes me feel like they're there for me, and who lets me be there for them too. It's easy for me to like someone when I feel like they genuinely care about me.
 
Someone who's nice to other people and an introvert. I actually don't experience physical attraction until I've started to like a person's personality.
 
personality wise being funny and nice is cool , also being confident and not really caring what others think

appearance wise having stubble or a beard but that doesn't really matter , messy hair , big arms , a nice smile
 
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I'm attracted to kindness and humility. If the guy I'm seeing is:

Passionate/talented towards something
Super sweet
Smart/logical/witty
Fiercely loyal
Clean/hygienic/focused on taking care of himself
Supportive
Funny
Easy to talk to
Trustworthy
etc


I'd melt.
 
short people (Just not SUPER short)
Good handwriting!
Clean/Hygenic
Good behavior/doesn't really get into trouble
Smart!
Kind/Sweet/Caring
Funny OFC
trustworthy
and...
hair gotta be on fleek
 
Well, they say opposites attract. Like seriously, I'm so loud and she says almost nothing

I'm not a guy into girls that flirt all the time. I'd like a girl that knows how to stand up for herself and be true to who she is
 
(really) tall guys with dark short hair and glasses xD
someone outgoing and independent i suppose?
People with a mysterious aura lol
people who know what they want and says it xD or honest people
witty or sassy

i absolutely dislike people who tend to flirt with everyone they meet xD
 
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LOL don't we all :D

Someone who is kind and understanding, sweet, but not too sweet, but not bittersweet, and can fend for themselves if they had to. They understand that reality is reality and they set realistic goals for themselves; they understand who I am as a person and that I live by the phrase 'it is what it is.' Their life doesn't revolve around one single thing, but instead around everything and everyone, and they can feel what I feel. 99% of me is attracted to the personality and way of life of a person, and not their appearance. Though don't get me wrong, if you're too overweight, then quit snacking. Also don't smoke, don't drink, don't do drugs, don't be overly religious or at least accepting of all religions, and if you're an *******, say sorry at least.
and while we're here why don't we add the big-butt-big-boobs ordeal and we'll have the whole package of perfection
 
A guy with a good sense of humor, always has something to talk about, has similar interests as me, and is playful and witty/sassy. Also should be intelligent.
Also can't smoke, do drugs, or be involved or previously involved in any criminal activities.
Also if he had dark brown eyes and hair that'd be a huge bonus. I don't really care about appearance too much, but I just find dark brown features like eyes and hair to be so... Mesmerizing.
 
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