Feel free to ignore this question if you don't feel like it but did you already have a sex change operation? I know transgenders often want to be approached as the gender they are from the inside and not biologically but I'm just curious about if it's hard to make this happen if you didn't have the operation for it yet?
With all due respect, but that's quite a personal question to ask somebody, and it's somewhat disrespectful. It's up to her, whether she wants to answer you or not. There's more to being transgender than just having a sex change operation. Your genitalia is not what determines the gender other people perceive you as. If you have any other questions, please consult google, before you ask personal questions on a public forum. That's all I wanted to say
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