Yeah, I need to find another forum to discuss my manliness.Pally said:Fabio...wtf are you doing on TBT
Go join Jersey Shore. Seriously. xD
No, but you can become friends with someone without being attracted in any sense of the word.Fabioisonfire said:'Attracted' doesn't mean only physically, dude.Jas0n said:You are far wrong with this post. People don't become friends with people because they were attracted to them, atleast not decent people. They become friends with people because they like them as a person.Fabioisonfire said:No, from the real world, where men and women meet.Bacon Boy said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deepplatonic
Why have you become friends with any woman? Because you were initially attracted to her.
A simple friendship turns into late night phone calls. Then 'friend dates'. Then sex, inevitably.
Thoughts do not turn into anything more than thoughts if you don't want it to. You can easily have a simple friendship without it ending in sex.
You're right. But I'm saying that subconsciously, you become attracted and develop a crush. Just happens. Unless your friend is ugly as *censored.2.0*.AndyB said:You can think about it, sure, but you can also know that nothing would come from it, so you don't feel the need to persue.
You're misunderstanding.Jas0n said:No, but you can become friends with someone without being attracted in any sense of the word.Fabioisonfire said:'Attracted' doesn't mean only physically, dude.Jas0n said:You are far wrong with this post. People don't become friends with people because they were attracted to them, atleast not decent people. They become friends with people because they like them as a person.Fabioisonfire said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deepplatonic
Thoughts do not turn into anything more than thoughts if you don't want it to. You can easily have a simple friendship without it ending in sex.
You're so shallow, I swear v.vFabioisonfire said:You're right. But I'm saying that subconsciously, you become attracted and develop a crush. Just happens. Unless your friend is ugly as *censored.2.0*.AndyB said:You can think about it, sure, but you can also know that nothing would come from it, so you don't feel the need to persue.
But still I try to avoid that.Fabioisonfire said:Dude, you aren't. My dad and I were discussing this, and he's got more experience with women than any guy I know, and he swears by this.Numner said:Ooooh yeah sometimes it is inevitable to picture it once or twice.
That sometimes can't be helped.
I bet/hope I'm not the only person though except for Fabio.
It's nothing to be ashamed of. My girl friends are hot, so yeah, I'd wanna screw them. Just because I act on my thoughts doesn't mean the rest of you guys don't have them, too. I understand that some of you want to distance yourself from my views, so you argue against it.
I'm shallow because I don't want to get with an ugly chick, yeah.Jas0n said:You're so shallow, I swear v.vFabioisonfire said:You're right. But I'm saying that subconsciously, you become attracted and develop a crush. Just happens. Unless your friend is ugly as *censored.2.0*.AndyB said:You can think about it, sure, but you can also know that nothing would come from it, so you don't feel the need to persue.
Some of the coolest people I know are "ugly".Fabioisonfire said:I'm shallow because I don't want to get with an ugly chick, yeah.Jas0n said:You're so shallow, I swear v.vFabioisonfire said:You're right. But I'm saying that subconsciously, you become attracted and develop a crush. Just happens. Unless your friend is ugly as *censored.2.0*.AndyB said:You can think about it, sure, but you can also know that nothing would come from it, so you don't feel the need to persue.
V_VComatose said:Some of the coolest people I know are "ugly".Fabioisonfire said:I'm shallow because I don't want to get with an ugly chick, yeah.Jas0n said:You're so shallow, I swear v.vFabioisonfire said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deep
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That doesn't mean that you'd sleep with them, though.Comatose said:Some of the coolest people I know are "ugly".Fabioisonfire said:I'm shallow because I don't want to get with an ugly chick, yeah.Jas0n said:You're so shallow, I swear v.vFabioisonfire said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deep
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Attraction =/= liking somebody or something about somebody.Fabioisonfire said:You're misunderstanding.Jas0n said:No, but you can become friends with someone without being attracted in any sense of the word.Fabioisonfire said:'Attracted' doesn't mean only physically, dude.Jas0n said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deepplatonic
"I became friends with girl A because she likes games, like I do."
That's attraction. It doesn't have to be sexual or leading to anything of the sort.
Maybe I'm the ugly one. :smilecry:Fabioisonfire said:You're right. But I'm saying that subconsciously, you become attracted and develop a crush. Just happens. Unless your friend is ugly as *censored.2.0*.AndyB said:You can think about it, sure, but you can also know that nothing would come from it, so you don't feel the need to persue.
It absolutely is. What do you think attraction is?Jas0n said:Attraction =/= liking somebody or something about somebody.Fabioisonfire said:You're misunderstanding.Jas0n said:No, but you can become friends with someone without being attracted in any sense of the word.Fabioisonfire said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deepplatonic
"I became friends with girl A because she likes games, like I do."
That's attraction. It doesn't have to be sexual or leading to anything of the sort.
I see it as I have to be both mentally and physically attracted.Fabioisonfire said:That doesn't mean that you'd sleep with them, though.Comatose said:Some of the coolest people I know are "ugly".Fabioisonfire said:I'm shallow because I don't want to get with an ugly chick, yeah.Jas0n said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deep
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I don't care if a girl is awesome, I need to be physically attracted first.
So, you think a girl is pretty cool, but she's ugly. Do you get with her? No.Bacon Boy said:I see it as I have to be both mentally and physically attracted.Fabioisonfire said:That doesn't mean that you'd sleep with them, though.Comatose said:Some of the coolest people I know are "ugly".Fabioisonfire said:Quoting limited to 4 levels deep
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I don't care if a girl is awesome, I need to be physically attracted first.
The only reason 'men' here argue is because they instinctively want to distance themselves from my opinion because I'm obviously always the bad guy who will get with a girl just because she's hot.Numner said:Speak yoh mind, don't care what other people think. 8D