I've found that it isn't worth it, because if you're that picky (amount of time shows how picky you are), you will eventually reset again anyway. You'll notice some imperfections and you will never be satisfied, so try to settle with less - in the end, you'll have to start loving the imperfections of your town and if you start your town dealing with them, you'll handle them better later on.
I have this issue mostly with villager plot resetting. But I totally feel you... When I got my second town, I reset multiple times... For the wrong reason. I reset for villagers, which was a HUGE mistake. Now I'm stuck with oranges, a purple town hall, and a layout I'm not really thrilled about. Oh well!
I named it Dawnloft(as a result of just putting random pretty words together in my head, lol). Native fruit is the orange, has a pretty nice layout, and a yellow town hall (which I don't mind despite preferring green). Villagers are Gruff, Sterling, Dizzy, Willow, and Chrissy! (Wish I had Francine with the latter though...maybe someday!)
All I go for is a good map, and fruit doesn't bother me (as long as the perfect fruit looks good then I'm happy...so basically no pears or oranges as I don't like their perfect fruit)
I have cherries...I wanted apples but meh it will do
the town hall/train station I didn't care about as I plan
on updating them to the zen themed one anyway