Some moar Advice be needed.

[Vex L'Cour]

First off, don't come here to troll/flame or just generally be an ass, my mood isn't good enough for it.


Basically...
There's this girl, I dated her years ago but since she's been like my blood sister, I've always treated her as such and praised her in everything, I've argued sure, but I rarely speak ill of her and have actually recently being doting on her on online games (Basically donating a **** ton).

Anyway,
I found out she has been doing nothing but talk about me behind my back, *****ing about me and basically gossiping. This is a girl who wanted me to help her get her revenge on her ex and his new girlfriend (both of them are close friends of mine) because he left her for his girlfriend.

I really don't know what to do. Part of me want's to forgive her other wants to slap her round the face and shake her out of her childish ways.

Advice..?

TL;DR - Girl I trusted more than anything backstabbed me. Wtf do I do?
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[D1llon]

Confront her about it.

 

[Vex L'Cour]

Confront her about it.

I've been meaning to all day...But I can't bring myself to... Kinda feel like a coward in that respect o 3o

 

[Bacon Boy]

There's really nothing else to do about it. Talk to her about it. Simple problem with a simple answer. She pulls a hissy fit and gets angry about you talking to her, then she's not that good of a friend.

 

[Psychonaut]

hope that your friends forgive you for doing that to them, and confront her about the rumors/talking behind your back.

i think exes are exes for a reason, and you should probably stay away from her for whatever reason it was. if there was a problem you two had, that's a reason. if you weren't attracted to her anymore, that's a reason. if she wasn't attracted to you anymore, that's a reason.

if you want to be friends and chat now and then, that's how i would picture a normal break up happening, still friends, but not super close. depending on what was said behind your back, i'd say you need to stop hanging out with her, and start distancing yourself from her.

bros before hoes is honestly very good advice, if you ever wondered. situations like these are exactly why.

learn from it, and be a better person overall. best of luck, i suppose.

 

[Josh]

I'd probably tell her that you know that shes backstabbing you, then you just tell her that you have nothing to do with her, She's just a user and a gold digger and not worth it. If she does really like/love you then she would apologize, if not then well, Theres more girls (or boys).

 

[Vex L'Cour]

Thanks guys. I sorted it all out and everythings fine. Love you all as ever

 

[rafren]

Thanks guys. I sorted it all out and everythings fine. Love you all as ever

That's nice to hear. congrats bro

 

[Mino]

Drop her like a bad habit. But at least tell her why.