Self-esteem

[Beary]

My self esteem is at an all time low.
I feel like I can't do anything right, and that I'm ugly and horrible and bad at everything.
I know I'm not, but is just feel BAD. For no reason that I can fathom.

It's very frustrating, because I've just been in my room all day feeling bad for myself.
If you view this thread as complaining, I'm sorry. Try putting yourself in my shoes.

Does anybody have any tips to boost your self esteem?

 

[in-a-pickle]

oh no geez, i completely understand how you feel, this weekend my self-esteem was kinda crushed and I'm still feeling awful.

 

[RhinoK]

cry and realize how badass you are and then realize no one (NO ONE) is as badass as ME

- - - Post Merge - - -

 

[debinoresu]

no way for half the day I laid in bed and felt bad for myself and accidentally took a nap somewhere in there and im actually still laying in bed on my phone, can totally relate behaviorally,

idk youre probably pretty asthetically pleasing and good at plenty of things, theres a pretty low chance of you being not good at a single thing at all

try remembering things youve done well that you were proud of or times when you really liked how you looked/someone commented that they liked how you looked

look at dogs or something and think about how dogs dont give a **** if youre good at stuff or attractive they just want bacon and cuddles yk, like arent those the real things that matter in life???? dogs know where its at so think about/like a dog

 

[RhinoK]

no way for half the day I laid in bed and felt bad for myself and accidentally took a nap somewhere in there and im actually still laying in bed on my phone, can totally relate behaviorally,

idk youre probably pretty asthetically pleasing and good at plenty of things, theres a pretty low chance of you being not good at a single thing at all

try remembering things youve done well that you were proud of or times when you really liked how you looked/someone commented that they liked how you looked

look at dogs or something and think about how dogs dont give a **** if youre good at stuff or attractive they just want bacon and cuddles yk, like arent those the real things that matter in life???? dogs know where its at so think about/like a dog

i dont know if its anything to do with self esteem and I just wanna live to be happy but, what makes me happy?? just taking life slow?? but then i think im just wasting life away??? so i do things?????? and it makes me feel worse??????????????? this is why i love lil doggies and puppies they wag their tail and they lick your face and you sit down and let them eat the crust from your sandwich and you go to sleep with them on your lap
dogs make the world go round

 

[nard]

Just relax and do things you like. Take a walk and look at the beauty of the world. Say I'm good to yourself. Many other things I cannot list, and once again, try things you like. I hope I help. ^~^

 

[RhinoK]

Just relax and do things you like. Take a walk and look at the beauty of the world. Say I'm good to yourself. Many other things I cannot list, and once again, try things you like. I hope I help. ^~^

but i cant walk

 

[nard]

but i cant walk

Please stop. People like you on serious threads like this don't help. This isn't your thread, is it? :L I thought not.

 

[RhinoK]

Please stop. People like you on serious threads like this don't help. This isn't your thread, is it? :L I thought not.

Uh I don't know what you mean but I'm paralyzed and I'm pretty much stuck inside so I can't really go outside

 

[Bowie]

Remind yourself of how fabulous you are.

 

[Beary]

Arrghhh I'm so very frustrated
I'm one of those people who's pretty repetitive
So I'm really bad at developing my own style when I draw
I'm not flexible with my drawing and it limits my skill.

 

[nard]

Uh I don't know what you mean but I'm paralyzed and I'm pretty much stuck inside so I can't really go outside

Mhm. Yes, that's what I guessed. >.< I'm sorry if I sound rude, I get irritated very easily. What I mean is I am posting for Beary, not you.

 

[RhinoK]

Mhm. Yes, that's what I guessed. >.< I'm sorry if I sound rude, I get irritated very easily. What I mean is I am posting for Beary, not you.

It's fine but I made a post beforehand about me struggling with how to be happy and stuff so I kinda took it as advice to the both of us

 

[nard]

It's fine but I made a post beforehand about me struggling with how to be happy and stuff so I kinda took it as advice to the both of us

Oh, okay. I thought your were some internet troll on this serious forum. I take back what I said, if I made you feel bad.

 

[Kaiaa]

My self esteem is at an all time low.
I feel like I can't do anything right, and that I'm ugly and horrible and bad at everything.
I know I'm not, but is just feel BAD. For no reason that I can fathom.

It's very frustrating, because I've just been in my room all day feeling bad for myself.
If you view this thread as complaining, I'm sorry. Try putting yourself in my shoes.

Does anybody have any tips to boost your self esteem?

I'm sorry you feel this way today! Everyone gets down in the dumps about themselves. Some more than others. It's really hard when you have low self esteem and even though I seem cheery and happy all the time, I know what it's like. Unfortunately, there is only one thing you can do to change how you see yourself and that is to change how you think. I know it sounds cheesy and probably dorky but I'm serious. You have a lot of strengths that other people don't and yes you have weaknesses too. We all do. It's a part of life and that is never going to change. I know it's hard but you have to accept it and smile! Life it too short to worry, just have fun and love yourself. When you think positive about yourself it will make you shine, and that's the truth!

 

[Beary]

I'm sorry you feel this way today! Everyone gets down in the dumps about themselves. Some more than others. It's really hard when you have low self esteem and even though I seem cheery and happy all the time, I know what it's like. Unfortunately, there is only one thing you can do to change how you see yourself and that is to change how you think. I know it sounds cheesy and probably dorky but I'm serious. You have a lot of strengths that other people don't and yes you have weaknesses too. We all do. It's a part of life and that is never going to change. I know it's hard but you have to accept it and smile! Life it too short to worry, just have fun and love yourself. When you think positive about yourself it will make you shine, and that's the truth!

Thanks Kaiaa. I'll try my best to use you're advice. :3

 

[Byngo]

LittleBeary <3 you're one of a kind and you are good at a lot of things! and I've seen a pic of you before - you're cute. c:

I think it will just take some time and then you'll be fine, because you really are a great person.

 

[Geoni]

Record your voice and listen to it. If you have low self esteem you'll probably hate it, and if you do, do a new recording and listen to it again. Rinse and repeat until you begin to desensitize yourself to a part of you that you dislike. Making a webcam video of yourself and playing it back to yourself can work too.

 

[Beary]

LittleBeary <3 you're one of a kind and you are good at a lot of things! and I've seen a pic of you before - you're cute. c:

I think it will just take some time and then you'll be fine, because you really are a great person.

Thanks Natty. ;-;

Record your voice and listen to it. If you have low self esteem you'll probably hate it, and if you do, do a new recording and listen to it again. Rinse and repeat until you begin to desensitize yourself to a part of you that you dislike. Making a webcam video of yourself and playing it back to yourself can work too.

I'll try this tomorrow. Thank you!

 

[Izzy Reincarnated]

take some drugs