They're now on ignore, so it's all good. Also, don't put something out in the public if you expect it not to be noticed. I was simply noticing, that's all.
PSA: calling the update the 'summer update' does not make Northern hem players privileged
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daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
no, you were just being homophobic actually. just because it's my tagline and i use it, doesn't mean you get to. especially not as a dig because you're fighting a losing battle. grim. thank sappho i'm on ignore.
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
I would love to read whats going on but i'm having a hard time reading your small text sorry.
mine? rip, sorry. i'm on mobile and the default text is too bulky for my liking. i'm weird.
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Tomu Tomu
Um... yeah again, not a good luck. It's still completely your choice to use it as an insult. You weren't noticing it, simply, you meant it as a funny comeback because you and them had a disagreement. I'm not involved in your fight. I simply don't want you to be homophobic if you were genuinely not meaning to be.
If whomever takes what I said as being homophobic, then I don't know what to say other than I don't know what to say. But on the other hand, I'm not going to sit idle while someone starts slinging rocks. Obviously, I can no longer see what they say, which for me, ends the spat.
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
thanks for getting it! noticing it is one thing but they purposefully added it in (when they could've used my name or nothing at all) and purposefully worded it as an insult/something to be ashamed of, and in a thread where i passionately discussed homophobic issues in this community no less. intentional or not, it's hurtful and homophobic.
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they can't see this but i feel like it's worth pointing out to everyone else that they were the first person to "sling rocks" when they made a dig at my answer by adding in the (cringe) comment for zero reason.
regardless, i recommend not engaging them any further. i've interacted with them in a previous thread where they were needlessly rude and cruel to people and refused to be open-minded etc.
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Tomu Tomu
Yeah, I'm sorry about that. Especially when people don't realize that "angry lesbian" is a stereotype that only lesbians themselves can reclaim, lol. I can see why non lesbians might forget it but angry mean lesbian is a great way for homophobes to insult and dehumanize lesbians. I hope you have a good day outside of this.
Yeah, I explained a bit above your quote why saying it like that comes across as homophobic. And I completely understand. I won't be speaking in this matter anymore after this. I hope you also have an okay day.
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
ya, it's one of the reasons why it's my tagline. to throw it back in the faces of bigots and because i'm proud to be aggressively gay, y'know? but that doesn't mean people get to use it as a cheap insult and then hide behind "oh well it's your tagline."
i didn't plan on saying anything because even if nobody else said i was overreacting, they would've and i can't be asked to deal with it so it was nice to see someone jump in. good on you.
They should have called it a "bummer update" since it's mostly just old stuff returning which is kind of disappointing.
Facts, I doubt this will be enough to keep us entertained till mid August.
My friend sent me a text all excited about "finally being able to swim" and I'm like, I hate it break it to you but...... that wasn't new. I'm just glad they didn't just copy and paste the swimming animations from NL.
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
ya, i hate saying it but everything so far (aside from the new events like may day, museum day and wedding season) should've already been in the game at launch. partly because it's all returning content and partly because there was a 7 year gap between the releases of these two games. obviously i don't know how much of that exactly was spent developing NH but i have to imagine quite a substantial amount since fans were clamouring for a new game at least three years in.
I'm happy they gave us an actual update instead of some lame wedding event or museum event (yikes, that one was awful) but I still would have preferred purchasing a full game instead of buying an obviously unfinished game getting fed scraps every month or so.
daringred_
✧ ghost lesbian ✧
what sucks is that any genuinely new content will likely be trapped behind a paid DLC in the future.
The most mindblowing thing is that they even delayed the game. No idea what that did tbh. It's an unfinished game and I personally think more people should be angry they spent that much money on a game that was not finished. I got my copy as a gift so at least I didn't pay for it but if I did, I'd be pretty butthurt.
niko@kamogawa
I am hungry for storage space!
I can definitely understand their frustration. I might probably whine for a minute but eventually will settle down. The content will become readily available in the next few months anyway. I guess the concern there is being "first" to experience the new update. This is a crushing blow to players who don't time travel though.
The second they pull that crap, I'm signing off and I think others should too to let them know they can't get away with that garbage. I'm hoping they don't but only time will tell.
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