I need some advice.

[akmaruman09]

to b sure have u seen this man in person?

 

[Garrett x50 cal]

First of all, this story is very far-fetched, and I'm doubting it on a number of levels...

If this is true, I'd say it's her fault. She's going online and talking to a 21 year old? That was a really, really good idea.

Again though, I don't believe much of this in the first place.

I'd like to believe that it isnt true but i've talked to the dude, he can make any guy feel like crap in 5 minutes with a few words.

How do you talk to this "guy"? On the internet? On the phone?

What makes you think he's 21?

Your surprisingly making me feel better about the situation, to tell you the truth I just heard about this guy yesterday and talked to him on MSN, so I can't really say that he's 21 but the point still remans that he could possibly kill her if she tries to leave him.

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

He said he lives a hour from her.

 

[Megamannt125]

First of all, this story is very far-fetched, and I'm doubting it on a number of levels...

If this is true, I'd say it's her fault. She's going online and talking to a 21 year old? That was a really, really good idea.

Again though, I don't believe much of this in the first place.

I'd like to believe that it isnt true but i've talked to the dude, he can make any guy feel like crap in 5 minutes with a few words.

How do you talk to this "guy"? On the internet? On the phone?

What makes you think he's 21?

Your surprisingly making me feel better about the situation, to tell you the truth I just heard about this guy yesterday and talked to him on MSN, so I can't really say that he's 21 but the point still remans that he could possibly kill her if she tries to leave him.

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

 

[akmaruman09]

they live an hour away??

 

[stand]

i agree with Grawr
she might be tryin to show you off...
perhaps trick you?
it might be a trick

 

[Megamannt125]

she might be tryin to show you off...
it might be a trick

She's not that kind of person.

 

[akmaruman09]

the thing is how was she able 2 meethim?

 

[Erica]

You can call her parents.

 

[Grawr]

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How do you talk to this "guy"? On the internet? On the phone?

What makes you think he's 21?

Your surprisingly making me feel better about the situation, to tell you the truth I just heard about this guy yesterday and talked to him on MSN, so I can't really say that he's 21 but the point still remans that he could possibly kill her if she tries to leave him.

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

You might not like me for saying this, but frankly I don't care, this girl of yours doesn't sound like she has much of a brain.

She's one of those people the phrase "Get parental permission before going online" applies to. She's not very bright.

And, hey, here's a magical idea (again, assuming this story is true)...she doesn't have to say "I'm breaking up with you mysterious 21 year old", couldn't she just...shut off her computer? Stop talking to him in general?

Ah, but I guess if he knows her address, she's screwed either way then.

...This wouldn't happen to be a big story she made up, just so she could break up with you, would it? Haha...

 

[Megamannt125]

the thing is how was she able 2 meethim?

Gaiaonline, already said that.

 

[Garrett x50 cal]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deep

How do you talk to this "guy"? On the internet? On the phone?

What makes you think he's 21?

Your surprisingly making me feel better about the situation, to tell you the truth I just heard about this guy yesterday and talked to him on MSN, so I can't really say that he's 21 but the point still remans that he could possibly kill her if she tries to leave him.

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

Why would she do that!!!!!!?

 

[Erica]

she might be tryin to show you off...
it might be a trick

She's not that kind of person.

People can change. They can do things that are opposite of what you expected them to do. Even if you know them reallywell.

 

[Megamannt125]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deep

Your surprisingly making me feel better about the situation, to tell you the truth I just heard about this guy yesterday and talked to him on MSN, so I can't really say that he's 21 but the point still remans that he could possibly kill her if she tries to leave him.

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

You might not like me for saying this, but frankly I don't care, this girl of yours doesn't sound like she has much of a brain.

She's one of those people the phrase "Get parental permission before going online" applies to. She's not very bright.

And, hey, here's a magical idea (again, assuming this story is true)...she doesn't have to say "I'm breaking up with you mysterious 21 year old", couldn't she just...shut off her computer? Stop talking to him in general?

Ah, but I guess if he knows her address, she's screwed either way then.

...This wouldn't happen to be a big story she made up, just so she could break up with you, would it? Haha...

I know how all of this must sound, either she's lying to me and the guy I talked to was just some friend of hers as some prank, or this is all true and she's in one messed up situation, She already suggested "pretending" to be broken up because he wanted her to dump me and she didn't want to.

 

[stand]

i had a similar situation
actually my friend.

she tried to show that she can make a guy do things for her
and she pretended that she would be in trouble...

and the thing is

she made up her personality. :000



how long have you known your 'girlfriend'?

 

[Megamannt125]

i had a similar situation
actually my friend.

she tried to show that she can make a guy do things for her
and she pretended that she would be in trouble...

and the thing is

she made up her personality. :000



how long have you known your 'girlfriend'?

Known her for well over a year and been dating for 7-9 months.

 

[Erica]

everyone is just making assumptions. Do you even know how hard this must be for him?

 

[Grawr]

Quoting limited to 5 levels deep

Why the hell do you think he's "a killer"? He could be some 15 year old kid messin' around for all you know.

How would he "kill" you or her? ...Through the internet? Do you live anywhere near him?

It sounds like your "girlfriend" is lying to you. Or this is all a made-up story for us TBT folk. You have to realize this sounds extremely un-true.

She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

You might not like me for saying this, but frankly I don't care, this girl of yours doesn't sound like she has much of a brain.

She's one of those people the phrase "Get parental permission before going online" applies to. She's not very bright.

And, hey, here's a magical idea (again, assuming this story is true)...she doesn't have to say "I'm breaking up with you mysterious 21 year old", couldn't she just...shut off her computer? Stop talking to him in general?

Ah, but I guess if he knows her address, she's screwed either way then.

...This wouldn't happen to be a big story she made up, just so she could break up with you, would it? Haha...

I know how all of this must sound, either she's lying to me and the guy I talked to was just some friend of hers as some prank, or this is all true and she's in one messed up situation, She already suggested "pretending" to be broken up because he wanted her to dump me and she didn't want to.

What?

Forget it, man. Forget this chick, this is way too insane. She's lying, or everything you told us was a lie.

There's like... a 1% chance anything she/you've said is true. He wanted to dump her, and she didn't want to? Then she's an idiot. Or, the second/more likely option, that was just another lie.

 

[stand]

hard or not. this is help.
this is the only way i can try to provide help.

so. a soft advice?

hmmm.

call the police. and end it there it ends there. everything is solved.

 

[Megamannt125]

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She told him where she lives for some reason and they live a hour away from each other.

You might not like me for saying this, but frankly I don't care, this girl of yours doesn't sound like she has much of a brain.

She's one of those people the phrase "Get parental permission before going online" applies to. She's not very bright.

And, hey, here's a magical idea (again, assuming this story is true)...she doesn't have to say "I'm breaking up with you mysterious 21 year old", couldn't she just...shut off her computer? Stop talking to him in general?

Ah, but I guess if he knows her address, she's screwed either way then.

...This wouldn't happen to be a big story she made up, just so she could break up with you, would it? Haha...

I know how all of this must sound, either she's lying to me and the guy I talked to was just some friend of hers as some prank, or this is all true and she's in one messed up situation, She already suggested "pretending" to be broken up because he wanted her to dump me and she didn't want to.

What?

Forget it, man. Forget this chick, this is way too insane. She's lying, or everything you told us was a lie.

There's like... a 1% chance anything she/you've said is true. He wanted to dump her, and she didn't want to? Then she's an idiot. Or, the second/more likely option, that was just another lie.

You misunderstood what I said HE wanted HER to dump ME but she didn't want to. And I promiced her I would love her forever and never leave her, i'm a man of my word.

 

[Erica]

Dustin, talk to her parents. Explain everything that's happened. Maybe shell get in trouble but isn't that better than having a man harassing you? If you loveher, you should want her to feel safe.

If you don't find this helpful, then I don't know what else to say.