I am developing feelings for my cousin... and I think she is too.

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I would stay away from it, bro. Cousin this situation nothing good can come from it.
 
Sorry, please forgive me. I was about to reply, anyways, it does seem legal in my state. It's just the problem of if my parents and hers are ok with it.

well i mean once ur 18 there isnt much they can do so just follow ur heart like mulan
 
I hope you take the advice to heart before you do something you regret with your cousin.
 
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I'm disowned from my entire grandfather's 1st marriage side of the family. Don't do it. There are plently of potential partners out there for you. Your, assuming, 1st cousin should not be included.

Wait, was it because you had sex with your half cousin that lead to your disownment? That's pretty harsh of them..

And thank you everyone for the advice. I was very close to confessing actually, and I really want to confess. Would it be okay to just tell her my feelings? Would that be still considered wrong?
 
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I would stay away from it, bro. Cousin this situation nothing good can come from it.

Does no one see the beautiful pun in this response? No one?

Anyway, I would stay away from it, man. There are so many less stressful things you could be doing than thinking about dating your cousin. It's probably a lustful thing, anyway.
 
I would stay away from it, bro. Cousin this situation nothing good can come from it.

oh my god ilu that totally got me

But yeah personally I'm just gonna go ahead and say I wouldn't hook up with my cousin under any circumstances.

So uh... don't do it? but idk that's just me
 
And thank you everyone for the advice. I was very close to confessing actually, and I really want to confess. Would it be okay to just tell her my feelings? Would that be still considered wrong?

I mean, you can tell her your feelings, but imo it would be humiliating if she didn't actually reciprocate them. And even if she did, then you're still in the dilemma of 'Do I hook up with her or not?'

In the end it's up to you, though.
 
In the end it's your choice- just remember that if the wrong people find out, it'll hurt her as well.
 
Your cousin will be your family no what happens in your life. Getting romantically involved can possibly destroy your relationship forever like it did for me. It's not worth it. It's common to develop a crush on a cousin you see one to two times a year. Just don't act on it.
 
Fo' Reals;

Is it love or lust?
Regardless of legalities, conjuring up connections between cousins is dodgy footing from a social acceptance standpoint. Unless you're willing to undergo the heartache for the love of your cousin then drop it and find someone easier. You're 17.
 
I mean, you can tell her your feelings, but imo it would be humiliating if she didn't actually reciprocate them. And even if she did, then you're still in the dilemma of 'Do I hook up with her or not?'

In the end it's up to you, though.

this right here is why I wouldn't mention it

because if she feels the same way (probably she will, you're both 17 I'm sorry you're just all over everyone at that age seriously it's like being on e all the time) then you're just going to want to even more

then you'll be back here telling us it went down and asking what to do and nothing will have been accomplished
 
Woah. Seriously? Don't read that everyday...

Well, I can't say that that has ever surfaced in my life, but a simluar thing happened to a friend and her step brother. Basically they started having feelings for each other, but felt awkward because they felt like they were siblings (even if not by blood) I think that you should talk to her about it. maybe you havent seen each other in awhile and just need some time to talk it over. Again, I dont know what to do bc its not something thats happened to me.
 
Fo' Reals;

Is it love or lust?
Regardless of legalities, conjuring up connections between cousins is dodgy footing from a social acceptance standpoint. Unless you're willing to undergo the heartache for the love of your cousin then drop it and find someone easier. You're 17.

This is a question that was posed earlier in the topic that I yet have an answer for except a little bit a both. I've known her since i was 5, and I really did like her as we grew up. I was in love with her personality and the fact that we were very alike. We both want to study in a field related to computer science starting from 14-15. But when we met last week, the girl I once knew became the gorgeous girl I know now. Did I like her more now, then say maybe 3-4 years ago? I think so....
 
This is a question that was posed earlier in the topic that I yet have an answer for except a little bit a both. I've known her since i was 5, and I really did like her as we grew up. I was in love with her personality and the fact that we were very alike. We both want to study in a field related to computer science starting from 14-15. But when we met last week, the girl I once knew became the gorgeous girl I know now. Did I like her more now, then say maybe 3-4 years ago? I think so....

she first cousin or nah
 
Well I hope you make an informed decision. I just want you both to be happy. Not going to beat the dead horse anymore. Good luck with your love life.
 
tell yourself it's just your hormones
it's just your hormones
it's just your hormones
it's just your hormones

repeat this every night
 
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