How do you feel about people coming over uninvited?

[Twisterheart]

How do you feel about people who show up at your house uninvited?

Personally, I hate it. Unless it's an absolute emergancy, I prefer for someone to ask ahead of time if they can drop by. People always drop by my house late at night when I'm in my pajamas, and I hate it. I'm always so embarrassed when they see me all dressed down. It doesn't help that my parents just let people in without giving me a warning, so I can never just ignore the person at the door.

 

[piichinu]

its annoying as *** and no one should be doing it

 

[Lektic]

I have a friendly who comes over through my window sometimes. I don't really care because he usually has food and stuff.

 

[dizzy bone]

When I used to live in New York City one of my friends would drop by sometimes if she was in the area. It was kinda of annoying but she usually brought food. She's done this a few times at night when she was feeling really restless and I was really peckish... so it worked out great. Other than her, I would hate if anyone came uninvited.

 

[The Sundae]

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[PoizonMushro0m]

It depends on the person. If it is family, I don't really mind. None of my personal friends really know where I live nor would they want to come to my house.

 

[creamyy]

It's annoying. My cousin who I don't particularly like hanging around always asks if she's allowed to come over like that makes a difference because even if I ignore her and I'm busy she still shows up and I'm forced to put up with her.

Another thing I hate is when someone invites other people to your house without any notice. just UGHHH.

 

[TheGreatBrain]

I don't mind if it's family. I get annoyed when it's someone else.

 

[cinny]

I just find it rude or annoying, depends who like others have mentioned.
My sister (who I'm not very close to) loves coming to the house uninvited w/ her kids, esp taking our food or using the internet because she does not have it at her home.
Finally I stopped answering the door whenever she is out there, Once she called me to complain that I wasted her gas + time.
I never invited her in the first place.

sorry if this is mean since she is my sister (?)
but yeah, it is common courtesy to let someone know before coming over.

 

[Beardo]

Show up whenever. I like surprises

 

[ObeseMudkipz]

Bring food and it's fine.

 

[MozzarellaSticks]

My friend does it.

I don't mind. But you better not expect me to clean up the hide or myself. You came to me.

 

[Dawnpiplup]

Omg one of my family members always comes to my house unexpectedly without any invitation to my house or anything (though he usually comes on the weekends on Sundays) and expects my grandma or mom to cook for him. I don't want to be mean or anything, but he is kinda rude. He talks bad and gossips a lot about our family, and it's so annoying. My mom and my grandma don't want him to come either, they feel the same way.

 

[Temari]

If it's family, I don't see why it matters, but if its someone else, it depends on the person.

Usually with family, though, its custom to bring food whenever you "crash" someone's house lol
Our relatives usually have food so I don't really mind when they stop by.

 

[Acruoxil]

I honestly don't mind, a lot of my friends don't give a crap about calling first and just drop by. Or when they call they're like open up the door m8

But if it's someone you wouldn't want on your house then definitely I mind.

 

[aericell]

I don't recall it ever happening to me, but I know I would hate it. Especially if I'm busy or tired or just not in the mood to deal with people. If it ever does happen I'll probably just try to ignore it and pretend I'm not home

 

[visibleghost]

i hate it so much

 

[Izzy Reincarnated]

I don't think that ever happens to me, so I really don't know. But if it did happen, I guess I would really abhor it.

 

[Rasha]

it happened before but not in the house but in friend gatherings in many places. I don't mind it at all

 

[HMCaprica]

I hate it, I really do. Thankfully I live in a city where none of my family are and all my friends are back in my home town. I even get a little miffed with countless phone calls.