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Here's the deal.

Usually, I'd go to friends for this, but... they can't know. Frankly, I don't trust them with this information right now.

There's this girl. She's a junior. I like her a lot, and she likes me. Last night, she just told me she was going to break up with her current boyfriend for me. Naturally, I was excited. All sounds great, right? Smart, funny, pretty Junior wants to date? Here's the problem, though.

Her boyfriend is one of my best friends. He's a senior, and a big guy, too. I love the kid like my older brother, but I like this girl, too. A lot. I'm not sure what will happen.

1: He'll beat the *CEN-2.0-SORD* out of me.
2: He'll disown me.
3: Both.

What do I do?
 
That's like, one of the worst situations I've heard lately. Seems like it should be on a tv show. But yeah, I'm not entirely sure what you should do. My advice would be to tell her that if she do dump him or whatever, even though that seems a little bad to do, that you should wait a little bit before hooking up. Seems like the most logical thing in my opinion.
 
TwilightKing said:
That's like, one of the worst situations I've heard lately. Seems like it should be on a tv show. But yeah, I'm not entirely sure what you should do. My advice would be to tell her that if she do dump him or whatever, even though that seems a little bad to do, that you should wait a little bit before hooking up. Seems like the most logical thing in my opinion.
Yeah, it is bad. Straight outa the soap opera it feels like.
 
Fabio said:
TwilightKing said:
That's like, one of the worst situations I've heard lately. Seems like it should be on a tv show. But yeah, I'm not entirely sure what you should do. My advice would be to tell her that if she do dump him or whatever, even though that seems a little bad to do, that you should wait a little bit before hooking up. Seems like the most logical thing in my opinion.
Yeah, it is bad. Straight outa the soap opera it feels like.
Ahaha, sounds like it though


:P

But yeah, like I said, my advice would be to wait a bit when they break up so it doesn't make you seem like a real you know what. And hopefully his feelings won't be too hurt and you can remain friends.
 
Fabio said:
TwilightKing said:
That's like, one of the worst situations I've heard lately. Seems like it should be on a tv show. But yeah, I'm not entirely sure what you should do. My advice would be to tell her that if she do dump him or whatever, even though that seems a little bad to do, that you should wait a little bit before hooking up. Seems like the most logical thing in my opinion.
Yeah, it is bad. Straight outa the soap opera it feels like.
Wow, what's with the love drama lately. *closes mouth*

Pretty bad situation. I can't find any helpful advice, other than what TK mentioned. Unless you can move away on the spot, there's not much to do.
 
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
 
Bulerias said:
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
Kind of and kind of not.

We've been talking and hanging out for months now. It's not sudden, really.
 
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
Kind of and kind of not.

We've been talking and hanging out for months now. It's not sudden, really.
Does he know you two have been talking for so long?

It's going to be sudden for him, not for you.
 
Bulerias said:
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
Kind of and kind of not.

We've been talking and hanging out for months now. It's not sudden, really.
Does he know you two have been talking for so long?

It's going to be sudden for him, not for you.
Yeah, he knows. She's just an easy girl to hang out with. Plus, when I'm with him, I'm with her.

Oh, and Mino, that's not funny. One of my brother's friends was killed at Virginia Tech.
 
Mino said:
I think you came to the wrong place for advice....
Where else will he go? His mom.. HA. He also said in his first post he can't go to his friends because he doesn't trust his friends with this information.
 
What about his rabbi, priest, or youth leader?

Just quoting all those informational videos about molestation from 3rd grade....
 
Mino said:
What about his rabbi, priest, or youth leader?

Just quoting all those informational videos about molestation from 3rd grade....
I have zero replies for that...

There's a birthday cake for the elderly man in the hole in the bottom of the seat.
There's a birthday cake for the elderly man in the hole in the bottom of the seat.

There's a hole, There's a hole. There's a hole in the bottom of the seat.
 
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
Kind of and kind of not.

We've been talking and hanging out for months now. It's not sudden, really.
Does he know you two have been talking for so long?

It's going to be sudden for him, not for you.
Yeah, he knows. She's just an easy girl to hang out with. Plus, when I'm with him, I'm with her.

Oh, and Mino, that's not funny. One of my brother's friends was killed at Virginia Tech.
Hahaha. I'm sorry, but I couldn't help but think of "Thats not cool, man, my brother died that way", and that cracks me up beyond control.
 
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
Fabio said:
Bulerias said:
So she'd be breaking up with her current boyfriend for you just because she suddenly realized she likes you better?

...Well, yeah, that's not going to end well. I dunno... I don't really have any advice... But I do agree with TK. After the break-up, don't get together with her the next day; wait a little so it doesn't seem "cleverly orchestrated".
Kind of and kind of not.

We've been talking and hanging out for months now. It's not sudden, really.
Does he know you two have been talking for so long?

It's going to be sudden for him, not for you.
Yeah, he knows. She's just an easy girl to hang out with. Plus, when I'm with him, I'm with her.
Does he know you two have a romantic-ish thing going? Does he realize that his relationship with her is getting into unsteady territory?
 
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