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Its a show of respect I suppose, though it also underlines this problem I tend to find online a lot. That being determining who somebody is by just a few words. Who's the say the **** knockers who is using abuse is actually using it? Why not just open up, and show support first then when it's apparent by maybe them having a different story, or other things that don't line up, then you can determine that. I have a bad past that I particularly don't like sharing anymore than just how I was able to cope in the attempt to help others that may have went through the same. Reasoning to why I don't like sharing it outright is because it's a difficult thing, and I'd rather do it to someone I trust. That's really kinda hard when anything of the sort is deterred because of "sensitivity" or by immediately saying who somebody is because they may say something like "I don't like cheesecake I had a boyfriend who used to make it and...." "OH HUH WHAT ARE YOU GETTING AT I KNOW YOUR TYPE!" "...put strawberries on it which I was allergic too...?" It's just ridiculous how difficult showing any sense of care is these days. That is all
 
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MelloDimensions said:
Its a show of respect I suppose, though it also underlines this problem I tend to find online a lot. That being determining who somebody is by just a few words. Who's the say the **** knockers who is using abuse is actually using it? Why not just open up, and show support first then when it's apparent by maybe them having a different story, or other things that don't line up, then you can determine that. I have a bad past that I particularly don't like sharing anymore than just how I was able to cope in the attempt to help others that may have went through the same. Reasoning to why I don't like sharing it outright is because it's a difficult thing, and I'd rather do it to someone I trust. That's really kinda hard when anything of the sort is deterred because of "sensitivity" or by immediately saying who somebody is because they may say something like "I don't like cheesecake I had a boyfriend who used to make it and...." "OH HUH WHAT ARE YOU GETTING AT I KNOW YOUR TYPE!" "...put strawberries on it which I was allergic too...?" It's just ridiculous how difficult showing any sense of care is these days. That is all
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Yeah, I see where you are coming from, but there are ways to act about something and it's perfectly fine not to tell others since it might indeed be difficult. Just saying be respectful and educative if needed and others will respect you.
 
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Yeah, I see where you are coming from, but there are ways to act about something and it's perfectly fine not to tell others since it might indeed be difficult. Just saying be respectful and educative if needed and others will respect you.
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Yeah, but say the situation in this case is abuse. Being respectful and informative over the matter may be the last thing that person who went through it would be able to do. Despite my ability to cope with it all, it wasn't something that I obtained the very next day. It took a few years and even more beers to do so, and because of such it's what really drives me to do such so easily. I didn't have really anybody because from it came trust issue, and mood swings. Mood swings that didn't have me "respectful" enough to even recieve any support.
 
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Yeah, but say the situation in this case is abuse. Being respectful and informative over the matter may be the last thing that person who went through it would be able to do. Despite my ability to cope with it all, it wasn't something that I obtained the very next day. It took a few years and even more beers to do so, and because of such it's what really drives me to do such so easily. I didn't have really anybody because from it came trust issue, and mood swings. Mood swings that didn't have me "respectful" enough to even recieve any support.
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I don't mean it that way that you should have to do it and act overly mature, but no matter if people ask and especially online don't act high horses over it, that's all. I don't really like talking about my past either due to reasons(mental abuse) but I'm saying no matter what don't act tumblrina over anything. Just tell them "I'd rather not talk about it" and add reasons if you feel like but others should respect regardless. If they don't ignore them.

Also mood swings and not willing to talk is not what I compared it to, I mean people just acting like a ***** and feeling "better" over everyone else. Those are perfectly normal reactions(what you mentioned) and I don't know why you try to turn this to something else.

Anyways I'll leave it there and feel free to contact me if you have any interesting and good replies not being defensive.
 
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I don't mean it that way that you should do it at once, but no matter if people ask and especially online don't act high horses over it, that's all. I don't really like talking about my past either due to reasons(mental abuse) but I'm saying no matter what don't act tumblrina over anything. Just tell them "I'd rather not talk about it" and add reasons if you feel like but others should respect regardless.

Also mood swings and not willing to talk is not what I compared it to, I mean people just acting like a ***** and feeling "better" over everyone else. You don't know what others have gone through either, so please don't turn it around to whatever motifs you are here.
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I never intended to turn it around, sorry if it seemed that way. And as for the "superior" people, oh yeah no thanks. I already received an infraction over one of them here.
 
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I never intended to turn it around, sorry if it seemed that way. And as for the "superior" people, oh yeah no thanks. I already received an infraction over one of them here.
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Ah, sorry. I might have took it as defensive since I tried to explain I didn't mean those issues in particular, I haven't seen bad beans with those.

Oh yeah, probably me too, or they just loved harassing me.
 
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Loved harassing you? Let me at em!
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Lmao it was ages ago but I had this user sending me stalking pm's just because I posted reasons why my country is not that good and they threw a hissfit. Yes Sweden is probs better than the US but holy jesus she was going on. and we have our flaws.
And it's okay I blocked her and I don't think she's active anyway.

Also I had this oranges person basically flame ****posting me some years ago as well but I think they got banned luckily.
 
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Lmao it was ages ago but I had this user sending me stalking pm's just because I posted reasons why my country is not that good and they threw a hissfit. Yes Sweden is probs better than the US but holy jesus she was going on. and we have our flaws.
And it's okay I blocked her and I don't think she's active anyway.
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Sweden is really not all that good either. Yes the metric scale as of 2019 shows that Sweden is the number one best place to live, but they also have strict immigration laws even worst than Japan, and the weather is almost always cold. While I'm not fond of some things in the US either, with its polarizing views politically that have led to pretty atrocious things as of late, or how disgusting some places can be. I still love it here always.
 
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Sweden is really not all that good either. Yes the metric scale as of 2019 shows that Sweden is the number one best place to live, but they also have strict immigration laws even worst than Japan, and the weather is almost always cold. While I'm not fond of some things in the US either, with its polarizing views politically that have led to pretty atrocious things as of late, or how disgusting some places can be. I still love it here always.
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Yeah it's definitely not all gold here that I can say. And yeah I'd say weather is definitely one of the worst things here, I'd rather live somewhere hot. No reason to hate on where others live though so I guess that person was just.. uh bit off their wheels.

And yeah that other were more or less a troll making multiples of accounts lmao.
 
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Yeah it's definitely not all gold here that I can say. And yeah I'd say weather is definitely one of the worst things here, I'd rather live somewhere hot. No reason to hate on where others live though so I guess that person was just.. uh bit off their wheels.

And yeah that other were more or less a troll making multiples of accounts lmao.
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Aw missed opportunity for a rhyme scheme. Its not always gold because the weather is always cold~
When I read of those things in Sweden I also took the time to look at pictures, and the document stating all of things just felt more and more visceral with each amazing shot. I think I would prefer to go there first, and be told "No you're not cool enough" before making that kind of judgement.
 
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Jacob's Ladder
Eraserhead
Ju-on: The Grudge(don't bother w/ the American remake, it's tame af compared to this, the original)
 
Yoshi is mario's best friend. Yoshi is toad's cousin. Yoshi is related to cloud guy that holds up the go signal in mario kart
 
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Aw missed opportunity for a rhyme scheme. Its not always gold because the weather is always cold~
When I read of those things in Sweden I also took the time to look at pictures, and the document stating all of things just felt more and more visceral with each amazing shot. I think I would prefer to go there first, and be told "No you're not cool enough" before making that kind of judgement.
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Not sure what you are about cause I don't exactly read stuff about Sweden other than our news channels so...

But yeah if you're pointing to that person, yeah they should go here first.

Aaaanyway. Why do I have to read somewhat useless texts.
 
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