Does anyone else hate hanging out with people?

[Twisterheart]

I don't mind going to the movies with a friend or going out and doing something, but I absolutely hate having people come over to my house. I've grown apart from most of my friends, so we have nothing in common anymore. It's really awkward trying to talk about something when there's nothing to talk about. Not to mention, some of my friends will come over and just sit there texting the whole time, completely ignoring me. I'm like, why did you even ask to come over if you're just going to text? And some of my friends show up uninvited which I hate, and then they hang around for hours and hours.

Do you like hanging out with your friends?

 

[TheEliteEmpoleon]

Those people don't sound like friends yo. Find people that you do have things to talk about with, and you won't hate it.

 

[riummi]

I don't all too much either

 

[Shimmer]

I'd rather hang out at their house and the reason being that I hate having people touching my stuff. I know it sounds uber picky but it just freaks me out having them lay on my bed or whatever. I internally scream whenever my parents sit on my bed but I can't say anything because I'm living with them so I tolerate it. But with friends, nuh uh.

 

[Llust]

i prefer just staying home and watching anime/youtube or anything alone. i actually hate going out with friends - when we do things like go shopping and watch movies, its such a nuisance and id much rather do those things alone. for the movies, i have to sit normally for two hours while eating in a well mannered way. LOLL screw that sht, its better to sit in 20 different inhuman positions throughout the movie while pigging out on food. as for shopping, i always take literally hours in the same store contemplating on what to buy- i dont need anyone rushing me or having to make someone wait

 

[radical6]

i need attention or else i will cry myself to sleep alone everynight so no i love people

 

[Raffy]

me too, im like tinkerbell.
i need attention or else i'll die.

but i actually love hanging out with my friends, they're the people who make me the most happy in life and I just love talking to them and going to the mall and eating food lol

 

[riummi]

i prefer just staying home and watching anime/youtube or anything alone. i actually hate going out with friends - when we do things like go shopping and watch movies, its such a nuisance and id much rather do those things alone. for the movies, i have to sit normally for two hours while eating in a well mannered way. LOLL screw that sht, its better to sit in 20 different inhuman positions throughout the movie while pigging out on food. as for shopping, i always take literally hours in the same store contemplating on what to buy- i dont need anyone rushing me or having to make someone wait

Yes! Oh why cant my friends understand ;-;

 

[aericell]

I used to love going out with friends, but now I just feel awkward whenever I go out with people and I get this uncomfortable feeling in my stomach that makes me regret ever planning to hang out with them. I always feel left out while they're off acting crazy and having fun, like I'm not exciting enough for them lmao. Also I haven't really been close to anyone so everyone else kinda has their buddy they cling to while I just follow quietly behind.

I have never liked people coming to my house though. Don't know why but it just bugs me.

 

[Yukari Yakumo]

i prefer just staying home and watching anime/youtube or anything alone. i actually hate going out with friends - when we do things like go shopping and watch movies, its such a nuisance and id much rather do those things alone. for the movies, i have to sit normally for two hours while eating in a well mannered way. LOLL screw that sht, its better to sit in 20 different inhuman positions throughout the movie while pigging out on food. as for shopping, i always take literally hours in the same store contemplating on what to buy- i dont need anyone rushing me or having to make someone wait

GODS YES
It's so much more relaxing.
Even in a crowded place like the grocery store, I prefer being off by myself than being in a group

 

[Amichann]

i prefer just staying home and watching anime/youtube or anything alone. i actually hate going out with friends - when we do things like go shopping and watch movies, its such a nuisance and id much rather do those things alone. for the movies, i have to sit normally for two hours while eating in a well mannered way. LOLL screw that sht, its better to sit in 20 different inhuman positions throughout the movie while pigging out on food. as for shopping, i always take literally hours in the same store contemplating on what to buy- i dont need anyone rushing me or having to make someone wait

This speaks to me on a magical level.
But yeah, I live far away from my friends and I'm honestly growing apart from most of them. I don't enjoy inviting them to my house because I feel embarrassed and uncomfortable by my family. Most of them can't even come over cause their parents think I live too far so, whenever I hang out with friends its usually once ever 3 - 4 months...

 

[riummi]

I used to love going out with friends, but now I just feel awkward whenever I go out with people and I get this uncomfortable feeling in my stomach that makes me regret ever planning to hang out with them. I always feel left out while they're off acting crazy and having fun, like I'm not exciting enough for them lmao. Also I haven't really been close to anyone so everyone else kinda has their buddy they cling to while I just follow quietly behind.

I have never liked people coming to my house though. Don't know why but it just bugs me.

Oh yea I always feel like I'm not exciting enough for not doing stupid things xD when I just decline to join in, my friends keep begging me to =u= like "excuse you btch but no" lol

 

[Acruoxil]

Yeaaaah no. hanging out with buddies is pretty fun. I love doing that.

 

[Jacob]

its getting really stressful to hang out with my friends now cuz we have been out every night since the 10th (in fact i just got home from hanging out w them), going out to dinner or the movies or just house parties, I kinda just want to stay home and rest.

I do not think I have plans tomorrow night which is good so I will get my rest and head out on Tuesday night

 

[Kuroh]

I don't like when people mess with my stuff when they're over. I also don't like when they ask to use my laptop... especially since one time, with my old laptop, someone had eaten pizza without washing their hands afterwards [internally screaming] and wanted to look something up on YouTube. I said, "Oh, I can just look it up for you" to be polite but no. They said they would just type it in and it was so painful seeing their greasy fingers touch my keyboard omg

But whenever I'm assertive about these things I get called a germaphobe (I am one though LOL)

 

[dizzy bone]

I hate inviting people over to my house. Just the thought of it gives me anxiety. I live with and work with my best friend and I love her and we don't have a lot of problems... but part of the reason is because when I get home I can lock myself in my room. I get really weird about personal space :/ I generally don't like going to friend's houses to "hang out" either. But I'm comfortable meeting friends outside like at a movie or to eat.

 

[Yukari Yakumo]

I don't like when people mess with my stuff when they're over. I also don't like when they ask to use my laptop... especially since one time, with my old laptop, someone had eaten pizza without washing their hands afterwards [internally screaming] and wanted to look something up on YouTube. I said, "Oh, I can just look it up for you" to be polite but no. They said they would just type it in and it was so painful seeing their greasy fingers touch my keyboard omg

But whenever I'm assertive about these things I get called a germaphobe (I am one though LOL)

 

[Sanaki]

I felt so alone with this, but no I hate it lol

 

[Twisterheart]

I hate it when people touch my stuff too. Growing up, I always had to hide my laptop and games when people came over, because they would fight over who gets the laptop and who gets the DS or whatever. My friends would also fight over my chairs which I hated. I only had two chairs in my room plus the bed, and they would always manage to take up all the space so I always had to sit on the floor.

And is it just my friends, or do people make such a huge mess? My friends would come over and stay the night, but they'd act like they were coming to live at my house permanently. They'd throw their clothes out everywhere, and just make themselves at home. It always made me angry because before they came my room would be clean, but afterwords it would look like a tornado went through. It got better with age, but man I hated it as a little kid.

 

[mirukushake]

I used to be really outgoing and loved going out to drink/party/hang out with people every weekend. But it's really hard to make and keep friends once you start working, and I live in a big city where people are always "busy" and it's really hard to meet up. Plus my job is 8 hours of day of being in front of people and catering to them, so I'm just tired on weekends. So I got used to hanging out at home with just my boyfriend and playing and occasionally going out to see a few of my best friends. Now when people invite me to go out I really, really don't want to...