actually the rule in trading is actually bread and butter logic. if u really want a stuff like hybrid or maybe weed picking from a cycle town . it is always nice to ask first even you got reject. if u respect yourself , i am sure forumer-er out there will give you the same treatment . =) peace .
No one on that thread was bullying you, stop over-reacting. All they said was "Are you sure you have Molly? I can't trust your wifi rating.." and that's it. I don't blame them though since wifi ratings show if you're trustworthy or not and the person that put that negative rating probably had second thoughts.
I've seen the thread too and you seem to be a bit over-reacting on what the others write. It was normal, for like a few months ago, to post a picture of your moving villager, in boxes, with your name clearly on it. No one wants to get scammed and there are a lot of scammers out there. That you have a few bad ratings makes people take extra precautions, but it's not like they don't want to trade with you?
You could have posted a picture of Molly in boxes with your character, sold her and got another positive rating. Instead you made this thread and made it everybody else's problem..