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i'm the imposter
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woah that font makes the word witch look like *****
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Oh I adopted this cat :3
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He's very precious :3
 
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Eat noodles, party and get drunk. I would advise against the latter two in these times though.
Oh I wish I could party but my boyfriend forbids me to attend any parties. That's a long private story between him and I
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I love when I reset my password I go to use it and it doesn't work.
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Huh? I just got handed a cookie. 🤔
 
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Oh I wish I could party but my boyfriend forbids me to attend any parties. That's a long private story between him and I
A partner who forbids you from anything is a massive red flag in a relationship. That's something you should really address sooner than later. Something like this may seem small now but it is an early sign of a controlling and manipulative partner.
 
A partner who forbids you from anything is a massive red flag in a relationship. That's something you should really address sooner than later. Something like this may seem small now but it is an early sign of a controlling and manipulative partner.
There's a good reason why. It's a safety thing. Besides my parents wouldn't let me either. It's all about safety. I'm not much of a partier anyways 👉👈
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Now that reason why isn't tbt appropriate 😅
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Bruh I wasted about an hour of my time in campus all because canvas wouldn't work. :/
 
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There's a good reason why. It's a safety thing. Besides my parents wouldn't let me either. It's all about safety. I'm not much of a partier anyways 👉👈
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Now that reason why isn't tbt appropriate 😅
That is exactly the type of thing manipulative people say: that they are worried about you, that it's in your best interests, that they care about your safety/your health/etc. People like this will carefully craft their arguments to make you think that they're in the right so that they can get their way.

You should go about your life how you see fit, whether or not it fits with your partner's ideals. But you should never allow someone to think that they have a right to tell you what you can or can't do, who you can or can't spend time with, etc. Anyone who does think that is someone you should runaway from - and fast. In the short-term it may not seem like a big deal, but in the long-term relationships like this will ruin your self-esteem and mental health. I'm not saying you should go to a party to throw it in his face. But you really should have a discussion and lay down a ground rule that he does not have the power to "forbid" you from doing things. If he doesn't agree then it's a bad sign.
 
That is exactly the type of thing manipulative people say: that they are worried about you, that it's in your best interests, that they care about your safety/your health/etc. People like this will carefully craft their arguments to make you think that they're in the right so that they can get their way.

You should go about your life how you see fit, whether or not it fits with your partner's ideals. But you should never allow someone to think that they have a right to tell you what you can or can't do, who you can or can't spend time with, etc. Anyone who does think that is someone you should runaway from - and fast. In the short-term it may not seem like a big deal, but in the long-term relationships like this will ruin your self-esteem and mental health. I'm not saying you should go to a party to throw it in his face. But you really should have a discussion and lay down a ground rule that he does not have the power to "forbid" you from doing things. If he doesn't agree then it's a bad sign.
Hhhhh Noooooo qwq I love him too much to let him go,,
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Well I sented my darling those words of wisdom Vris! Don't worry I cropped it,, thank you! I'll see how he reacts!
 
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