Am I in an abusive relationship?
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he apologized and said i can enter his town for cheaper now 
we're friends again!!!!!!! He also explained the homophobic comments and I accepted what he said and took it on board (constructive criticism).
he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
we're friends again!!!!!!! He also explained the homophobic comments and I accepted what he said and took it on board (constructive criticism).he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
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Reginald Fairfield
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he apologized and said i can enter his town for cheaper now
he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
The "fagg" thing is most likely what he suggested they use for their catchphrase. If I have another giveaway or whatever, I wont have anything to donate to.
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he apologized and said i can enter his town for cheaper now
he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
WTF? You have the right to wear whatever you want. The villager catchphrases were customized by your friend, so it?s his fault they said those things. A person who tries to control how you play your game is not a good friend. I don?t see anything good coming out of this relationship. Also, may I point out that he shouldn?t be charging you anything to visit his town?
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he apologized and said i can enter his town for cheaper now
he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
Hell. No.
Ignore and delete him, there's NO reason why you should forgive him if he is still going to limit you in doing the thing he wants, he is clearly controlling you and you need to end it.
He isn't looking out for you he's just making up excuses to keep using you. By no means does he deserve the title of "friend".
Reginald Fairfield
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Maybe tell him the money you gave him was a loan, and you're charging 20% interest?
Shellzilla_515
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What? No, this is a trap. This stuff will only happen again.
he apologized and said i can enter his town for cheaper now
he said that his villagers called me 'fagg' because I'm a boy character who likes to wear dresses sometimes. He said he trained them to speak like that so I 'got the hint'. I accepted his criticism and decide to dress more like a boy as a result! Now his villagers call me 'bro' which is nice!
I'm just happy I got my friend back...Maybe, like he said, he was just looking out for me all along.
Honestly, this is still very troubling. First of all, a real friend would not charge you anything for entering his town. With a real friendship, there is give and take. All I see is you being forced to give and him reaping the rewards.
Secondly, if you want to wear a dress then wear one. There's nothing wrong with it. He's not looking out for you and the terms he used to "give you a hint" are not constructive critism; they are rude, offensive, and just plain wrong.
In the end, this is your life and nobody can stop you from being friends with this guy if you choose, but I implore you to think about it some more. I've been in these one-sided friendships before and I've learned that they caused me nothing but stress and sometimes even pain. It's better to be alone than have a friend like that. But you don't have to be alone. There are people in this thread who offered you friendship and everyone who has posted here (with that one exception) is looking out for you far more than your so-called friend.
Please take care of yourself and don't believe that you have to put up with that kind of treatment just to have a friend. You deserve more.
Paperboy012305
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He?s pretty much using you for money, and the villager catchphrases reflect his dirty and somewhat greedy personality. And when you invite him to your town and leaves hateful comments, he?s saying that he only wants you to visit his town and not let him visit yours.
Like others said, even if you already did. Delete him.
Like others said, even if you already did. Delete him.
Bluebellie
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I feel like someone is trolling.... hmmmm.
No he admitted to trolling me but he isn't like that anymore!
I'm a very forgiving and tolerant person
AppleBitterCrumble
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I still think you should block him...
There are plenty of friendly people here on the forums, I can guarantee you'll make lots of friends on here.
No one should ever treat you like that, it's not what "friends" do.
There are plenty of friendly people here on the forums, I can guarantee you'll make lots of friends on here.
No one should ever treat you like that, it's not what "friends" do.
Reginald Fairfield
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No he admitted to trolling me but he isn't like that anymore!
Would either of you have a dream address?
I'm sure enough people have said this already but yeah, you shouldn't be friends with that guy, there's no way a friend is like that, even if they just wanted to mess around with you. There are nicer people here on the forums that would be more than willing to be friends with you.
Im sorry if this comes across harsh, but you’re an idiot for keeping in touch with this guy. You asked for people’s advice, we’ve given it to you and yet you’ve chosen to ignore it? Fine, but don’t come crying and moaning cause he’s not a proper friend to you. Remember, it’s your actions that have let this go on and continue. Can’t stand people who don’t help themselves -.-
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