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Am I in an abusive relationship?
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Mr. Cat
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This person is just a complete idiot to most likely everybody and you really shouldn't associate with them. There are much better people out there than this who will take the game seriously and not take advantage of people. I find that young boys especially tend to be the culprit of this (deifnitely not all of them btw)...
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Mayor Jack
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You should delete this person ASAP before you can change your mind about it. Nobody should judge you by what you wear in ACNL, or charge you to visit their town. If you want a true friend I'd be happy to play with you in ACNL but don't fall into this guys trap, he's just a dumb troll who wants to waste your time.
deerprongs
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I had read this with no intention of posting, yet here I am. Though seeing as you seem to have ignored all the advice given to you about this disgusting person, I doubt what I have to say will be given any thought. Regardless, allow me to give my two cents on the matter.
First of all, why give this jerk a second thought? He's clearly using you for in-game bells and enjoys trolling you, throwing awful slang at you via his villagers, and tries to tell you how to dress. Honestly, cross-dressing is something I find very cute, especially for male characters. Heck, even female characters are very adorable when they cross-dress! I understand if you're a very forgiving person, as my girlfriend is too, but even she knows when to cut ties with a negative, disgusting individual like the dude you're allowing to do as he pleases. You claim he's "changed" but trolls "claim" things all the time. That's what they do best. Trust me, he hasn't "changed."
For your sake, drop this homophobic slur-using, disgusting piece of garbage troll and move on. There are literally far better people that you can be friends with all over this forum. Do yourself a big favor and find some real friends. This jerk isn't one.
Whether or not you listen to me or literally everyone else with some common sense on this thread- well, that's entirely up to you. We can't change your mind, but surely you can't be so naive as to think the way he's behaving is okay. It isn't.
I really hope you listen to us, or at least open your eyes. But hey, if not, you do you.
Best of luck regardless of what you do. You'll need it with a jerk like that.
Though I'm unsure if I should really feel sorry for you, given that you've chosen not to heed our advice.
Was this harsh? Probably. Sorry if it was. I'm just really not sure what else you expected, posting an advice/help thread and then literally ignoring every bit of advice & help offered to you.
First of all, why give this jerk a second thought? He's clearly using you for in-game bells and enjoys trolling you, throwing awful slang at you via his villagers, and tries to tell you how to dress. Honestly, cross-dressing is something I find very cute, especially for male characters. Heck, even female characters are very adorable when they cross-dress! I understand if you're a very forgiving person, as my girlfriend is too, but even she knows when to cut ties with a negative, disgusting individual like the dude you're allowing to do as he pleases. You claim he's "changed" but trolls "claim" things all the time. That's what they do best. Trust me, he hasn't "changed."
For your sake, drop this homophobic slur-using, disgusting piece of garbage troll and move on. There are literally far better people that you can be friends with all over this forum. Do yourself a big favor and find some real friends. This jerk isn't one.
Whether or not you listen to me or literally everyone else with some common sense on this thread- well, that's entirely up to you. We can't change your mind, but surely you can't be so naive as to think the way he's behaving is okay. It isn't.
I really hope you listen to us, or at least open your eyes. But hey, if not, you do you.
Best of luck regardless of what you do. You'll need it with a jerk like that.
Though I'm unsure if I should really feel sorry for you, given that you've chosen not to heed our advice.
Was this harsh? Probably. Sorry if it was. I'm just really not sure what else you expected, posting an advice/help thread and then literally ignoring every bit of advice & help offered to you.
I saw this thread days ago and was too lazy to log in. Plus I forgot my username/pass and the stupid site keeps kicking me off for some reason.
Anyway, this has got to be a troll thread lol. If it is not and you want to still be friends with a d-bag, that's your prerogative. You ask if you're in an abusive relation and I will say yes. You are a doormat. Don't be a doormat. Again that is your choice.
Be the best doormat you want to be, if you refuse to see the signs or listen to reason. You remind me of this one member I met on a Segaforum that would always post for help on different threads and would refuse to listen to any and then bellyache about everything being the same.
So sorry if my tolerance for rubbish is so short.
Anyway, this has got to be a troll thread lol. If it is not and you want to still be friends with a d-bag, that's your prerogative. You ask if you're in an abusive relation and I will say yes. You are a doormat. Don't be a doormat. Again that is your choice.
Be the best doormat you want to be, if you refuse to see the signs or listen to reason. You remind me of this one member I met on a Segaforum that would always post for help on different threads and would refuse to listen to any and then bellyache about everything being the same.
So sorry if my tolerance for rubbish is so short.
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Candyapple
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No he admitted to trolling me but he isn't like that anymore!I'm a very forgiving and tolerant person
I?m sorry if I say this but I have the feeling that person you?re talking about doesn?t exist, or you just exaggerated everything to get some attention. You said he has completely changed now and all of a sudden you went to his town and his villagers were calling you ?bro? instead of ?fagg ?. Well the thing is. To suggest your villagers a new catchphrase, it doesn?t happen on your command. THEY HAVE to ping the mayor character and ask for a new thing to say, and it doesn?t happen so often. It could take weeks before they ask for a new catchphrase.
So all of a sudden the villagers changed the catchphrase like that?
Your story is not very believable. Instead of trolling us all (and not even listening to what many nice people from this forum are telling you), try other ways to get simpathy or friends. And if you make up a story please make it atleast more believable.
?Now he said I can go back to his town, for cheaper! He?s totally changed!?
Yea right. That?s amazing. Would you really be so naive?
Sorry if i didn?t sugarcoat my message, but I?m used to be honest about what I think.
The sad thing is that there are people out there struggling in real abusive relationships. There are people out there going through some pretty horrific things. But people like this person feel that it’s okey to make fun of a very serious situation just because they want some attention and sympathy. Please, grow up and realise it’s not all about you.
Okay...So I just read everything 
and I don't appreciate people saying this didn't happen, no matter how hard it is to believe. It DID happen and I'm talking about an experience that occurred over a long period of time...I honestly feel like going into my shell more when I try to share the honest truth and people are trying to pick holes in everything I said. 
My friend and I have resolved the problem. I am changing my bad habits like he suggested...It's called constructive criticism! Plus, regarding the dress thing, that's an aspect of myself that I've been trying to change in REAL life too, after my parents suggested that 'I don't dress like a boy'. When more than one person makes a criticism of you it's usually valid imo... The fact that I tried to change myself based on that feedback should be seen as a good thing. Should it not?
Anyway, my friend treats me WAY better now. He bought me a frog hat, only charges me 5k to enter his town (which he says is much cheaper than what he charges other people, so in a way I'm treated with privilege). I took his advice and he took mine...We're working through it and we're HAPPY.
and I don't appreciate people saying this didn't happen, no matter how hard it is to believe. It DID happen and I'm talking about an experience that occurred over a long period of time...I honestly feel like going into my shell more when I try to share the honest truth and people are trying to pick holes in everything I said. My friend and I have resolved the problem. I am changing my bad habits like he suggested...It's called constructive criticism! Plus, regarding the dress thing, that's an aspect of myself that I've been trying to change in REAL life too, after my parents suggested that 'I don't dress like a boy'. When more than one person makes a criticism of you it's usually valid imo... The fact that I tried to change myself based on that feedback should be seen as a good thing. Should it not?
Anyway, my friend treats me WAY better now. He bought me a frog hat, only charges me 5k to enter his town (which he says is much cheaper than what he charges other people, so in a way I'm treated with privilege). I took his advice and he took mine...We're working through it and we're HAPPY.
deerprongs
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wow.
i instantly regret typing all of that text 5 posts above... what a waste.
remind me to never give advice again.
smh i'm laughing at the fact that this person's probably a troll, but if not- wow
i'm amazed at the stupidity here
allow me to see myself out before i say things that would likely get me into trouble
*slams door*
i instantly regret typing all of that text 5 posts above... what a waste.
remind me to never give advice again.
smh i'm laughing at the fact that this person's probably a troll, but if not- wow
i'm amazed at the stupidity here
allow me to see myself out before i say things that would likely get me into trouble
*slams door*
I’m just gonna come and join you over there in trying not to say anything that’ll get me banned from this forum.
All I can say is that sometimes I really worry for the human race.
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