I guess that makes sense! I don't mind Resetti, besides I might just tell him it was an accident... >.>
That's so awful! I'll probably never save if someone randomly asks because I don't want my things stolen. I also feel safer trading with people through this website because I know I can leave a bad wi-fi/trading rating so people will know and most people will not steal from you because they don't want those bad ratings.
I don't understand why people would do that kind of stuff, like stealing your friend's gold watering can or more than half your hybrids, I would feel really bad if I did that to someone >.< I wish I could use the 3DS but I have a digital copy so I can't switch back to my old device. I get a digital copy in practically everything which I guess could have some downsides. Lucky for me I do still have a copy of ACNL on my old DS, it's just not my best town where I have a lot of nice things. I actually got into the habit of using an alternate character to pick up all my good flowers and keep them in storage so people can't take them. But that girl came so unexpectedly to my town that I didn't have time to hide them. I've also had people shake my trees and try to take my money but get mad at me when I take it first. It's my town after all... they've also taken my fruit without asking, which isn't
as big of a deal as taking hybrids, but I still would like to keep my fruit! I mean, all anyone has to do is ask and I might say yes, but if you try to steal, not only will I never give you anything, but you're likely to never be invited over again and defriended. (Pro tip: don't invite people over through kik groups). I know you can't go to the menu while connecting, that's why I asked this question and I get why Nintendo did that, but I really don't prefer it. If they were preventing accidental shut-downs, they shouldn't have moved the power switch where they did because man, I can tell you the way I hold my DS, I've accidentally turned the power off more times than I can count and it's really annoying.
But yeah, I'm really sorry you've had such bad experiences with people. I guess you can't even trust people you would consider your friends because they might steal your stuff while you're away..
If you play with people from Bell Tree, mostly everyone is kind and courteous! It's very rare, from what I've seen anyway, for someone to rip other people off or steal from them. I think most users have a 100% wi-fi rating. Just make sure to check their wi-fi ratings anyway beforehand to see what you're getting into. Also, make sure you follow people or have them follow you! You never know what they might do, as DarkCharliXo has proven. And no problem, I hope the previous posts have helped you out a little bit