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[Daisy189]

I need some people I can talk with about life and what I should do because it's all confusing and so frustrating.

 

[Jake]

wats up buttercup

 

[Daisy189]

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[Idfldnsndt]

Well the thing is I want to die and I don't know if I'm depressed or what but the reason for this is because my life has become very hard, for example I think my parents might get divorced, I'm not aloud to visit any friends houses or have any kind of social activity except texting and school so I get lonely and my siblings don't like to do anything with me so I'm always alone in my room in the dark.... I have nothing to brighten my day because I hate school and life and everything and the whole thing is so frustrating I have a big headache which just makes me more frustrated and angry at everything

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Right now really I'm crying because my life is so messed up and I don't know what to do and my friends are no help because I only got 2 one doesn't text me anymore and school is out so I can't talk to her and my other one cuts and is depressed so she is no help

Maybe talk to your parents about it all??

 

[Daisy189]

Maybe talk to your parents about it all??

No that would just make me cry more and I don't even know what they could do to help and I don't want to make it worse for them

 

[Taffy]

If your're very close with your parents then it would be nice to talk it out when you feel ready

 

[Daisy189]

If your're very close with your parents then it would be nice to talk it out when you feel ready

Every time I talk about my emotions I cry, my parents fight not good paying jobs, and my sister hates my mom and is trying to get them divorced, it probably because my mom is mean and scary and cheats on my dad I'm so afraid of her I always think she she going to hit me

 

[Taffy]

Sorry if this question is too personal but whats your point of view on the divorce situation? As in what do you think? Your sister wants it to happen but what about you? You dont have to answer that if its too uncomfortable

 

[Daisy189]

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[Taffy]

Do you support the idea of your parents divorce?

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

I know they have numbers where you can call and get advice, and they don't just run and tell your parents. You seem to have a lot going on and I don't think anyone on here can really help you with an answer. The best anyone on here can do is offer support and comfort. Life for you probably is hard right now but the best thing you can is try to stay positive, I've had tough situations and looking back I know eventually they do get better. How old are you if I may ask?

 

[Daisy189]

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[Beige]

It sounds like there must be a lot going on in your family right now. If you're scared of your mum, your sister doesn't like her and your dad wants to kick her out, why does the thought of her leaving upset you? Is it like, because the family's breaking up or the change of her going or what?

Also I think that it would be a really good idea to write a letter to give to your dad explaining how stressed out you feel. It feels really awkward to do but it's important! That way you don't have to try and say what's wrong. I'm sure your family want what's best for you and would rather know how upset you are than find out later on in life how much you struggled without them even knowing. Maybe your parents will be more lenient about letting you see friends if they knew how much it hurt you. Maybe if you also let a teacher or someone know about your situation they'd arrange for you to talk to counsellor regularly about your feelings. Plenty of people secretly go to talk to counsellors at school, many of which are in very similar positions (with family issues and divorces going on) and it's a very normal thing to do so don't be embarrassed. Also, it doesn't matter if you cry!

 

[Daisy189]

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[Beige]

Also, you could even ask your sister how she feels about everything, or tell her how upset you feel. After all, she's in exactly the same sort of situation as you right now so she should understand the most out of anyone! And I'm sure she'd appreciate having someone to hold her hand through all of this as well.

And I'm just gunna' say... Divorces are really stressful on everyone, but they do end eventually, and afterwards, everyone is happier!

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

I'm really not sure how old you are, so it's a bit difficult to really offer any help at all >.<

But money is for your family to worry about, the adults, not you. If you are just a kid I can see its frustrating, but at the same time if your dad knows what your mother is doing there's child support, there's possible financial aid. And of course depending on where you live depends on the kind of help you can get. I would speak to your dad and express these concerns.

 

[Taffy]

I agree with kiti_the_wonderland. However for beige, try to be careful with school counselors. Some may call child protective service and you wouldnt want that kind of situation going on at your current state. If you want to talk to a counselor then i suggest talking to intern counselors at nearby colleges. they ususally have service for students and it should be confidential plus there is no cost.

 

[erikaeliseh]

you should talk to your parents about it all, or your sibling. you might be surprised at how much that could help, because your sister/brother probably is scared of the divorce and is affected by the fighting as well. i wont get into it but im going through a very hard time myself, im battling illness and i havent seen another human besides countless doctors or left the house in about a year and a half... anyways. Its important to remember that divorce doesnt have to be bad, my dad is an alcoholic, and he cheated on my mom several times so naturally they would state they were getting a divorce to our family at least once every couple weeks, but it doesnt bother me because the fighting was much worse, and if they arent happy then what is the point if it drags you down and holds you back from life? It will be stressful, but i promise it truly is for the best! and talking on here with people really helps, its really important to talk to some kindred spirits and of course, keep playing animal crossing! its a great stress reliever ^.^ i hope your well, love Erika xo

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

Definitely listen to Taffy. Even though they say it's confidential they can still call child services and what not. Though if you don't include all these details, it might be good to see someone and just say your upset about the divorce (without giving to much information). They have a lot of support groups and they can try to put you in one with kids your age, sometimes having that kind of support in person helps even more, and you can make friends in your area that understand how it feels and you can both support each other

 

[Daisy189]

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