I, ok
I think I see what you mean? im sorry I misinterpreted what you said. the tumblr thing also hit the wrong, button? bc ive had several instances where people have told me to "go back to tumblr" or thought that being trans is just a sort of tumblr fad and not a real thing. also you were adding it to the person who was saying the transphobic things (though they apologized and said it was accidental and theyve honestly never heard of trans people) so I immediately took it as you "siding" with them on sex determining gender
since thats what you meant to convey, I agree w u and take back what I said. ur still cool w/ me, man.